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Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship [Paperback]

Sherry Argov
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Book Description

October 1, 2002
Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov's Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
  • Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
  • Why do men take nice girls for granted?
  • Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author's unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry-you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.

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From Publishers Weekly

Contending that some women are "too nice," comedian and radio show host Sherry Argov has written Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. "I'm not recommending that a woman have an abrasive disposition," Argov writes, "The woman I'm describing is kind yet strong. She doesn't give up her life, and she won't chase a man." Her sassy book is filled with scenarios and advice aimed at making women subtly stronger and self-empowered. Argov's principles, which range from the farfetched to the downright absurd, include "If you give him a feeling of power, he'll want to protect you and he'll want to give you the world" and "A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you." The book, which has already been featured on The View and The O'Reilly Factor, should make waves with its controversial view of relationships.
Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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"If you've been too nice, run out and get this book now!" -Ellen Fein & Sherrie Snyder, authors of the bestseller The Rules

Product Details

  • Paperback: 255 pages
  • Publisher: Adams Media; 6 edition (October 1, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1580627560
  • ISBN-13: 978-1580627566
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.7 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (824 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #679 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Sherry Argov is the author of the bestselling Why Men Love Bitches. A frequent contributor to magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Playboy, and Esquire, she lives in California. For more information visit www.whymenlovebitches.com.

Customer Reviews

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254 of 264 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Tool For Specific Cases March 19, 2004
Format:Paperback
I've read a lot of relationship self help books including "The Rules". This books is excellent. This book is for those women who have, yes...been burned or who have a tendency to lose themselves in a relationship. If you've been with someone for years and everything is fine..then you don't need help. If you've a string of great relationships then you probably don't need this book either. Unfortunately for many women out there...they have been burned or have a tendency to bend over backwards for a man and lose their self respect for the sake of their relationship. This book is for these women. It can serve as a tool for internalizing positive messages and methods for not being conducive for trampling via feet.

Argov emphasies the time tested idea that you come first before anyone else. I've noticed that it is men who have given low marks to this book moreso than women. Once your read this book for yourself, you might see why. However, There are specific "tactics" she explains. It is far from trickery. And as even men have responded...her tactics work. Call them what you will, but there is little interaction between people which doesn't involve at least a little pre-planning, special manuvering, or cunning. Is this to say that when we read books about business...that those books are terrible because they use "trickery", manuvering and cunning to achieve company goals? Come on.

Someone else mentioned that they didn't agree with a chapter about "faking an orgasm". Don't listen to that. Obviously that person did not even read the book or is not very bright because in that chapter, Argov is cleary making fun of the concept. She writes "I don't recommend that a woman fake an orgasm. This little lesson is a satire on the pressures women feel to perform...
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2,091 of 2,318 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars A Man's Perspective on this Book January 23, 2004
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Format:Paperback
As a man who read this book, I have a new understanding of how and why my last girlfriend acted the way she did. She must have read this book!

I have to say, I chased after her, just like the book says a man will do if you follow the rules it describes. But, (and this is a big BUT), eventually, I got tired of chasing her. Eventually I came to the huge realization that I didn't want to live the rest of my life this way, under her thumb, with her making all the rules for our relationship.

Women have put up with men that act this way, and it drives you crazy, doesn't it? Don't you hate it when a guy doesn't call and acts like other things are more important than you are? This book could just as well have been written for men, and been titled, "Why Women Love Jerks."

As I read this book, I thought that if everyone, men and women alike, followed the rules contained in it, this world would be full of a lot of single people. Mainly because it's all about one person in the relationship (in this case, women) acting aloof, not chasing men, and not showing men that they're afraid to lose them. If both sexes acted this way, no one would get in a relationship because both would never chase the other. (In the hopes that the other one will first. It's not going to happen!)

All in all, this book seems to be written for women who have been hurt badly in the past and don't want to be hurt (or at least show that they're hurt) again. Anyone who has ever had the good fortune to have been in a GOOD relationship would never think of treating their mate like Sherry Argov suggests.

I gave this book 2 stars, because what's in it WILL work. But if you have to use "trickery" like this to get a man to chase you, you'll get a relationship to match. It's better to be honest with one another.... Read more ›

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362 of 402 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars She understands the male mind.. ..a guy's view January 1, 2006
Format:Paperback
Firstly, in this book BITCH means Babe In Total Control Of Herself.

She gives you priciples not 'rules' to transform from ignored or taken for granted doormat to relentlessly pursued dreamgirl, who is independent, strong, and not needy.

Initially, I wondered if Sherry is a guy, because she is so onto us. To her credit she did interview many men, to get these deep insights. In fact she has compiled our secret playbook.

I wonder if it is a good thing to have too many of our deep secrets in female hands, because it forces us to change our lazy relationship ways.

There is a self improvement principle - you teach people how to treat you. So do what you have always done, and get what you always got, or teach them how to treat you right.

So when Sherry suggests, acting a little aloof at first, this may seem counterintuitive, but it works. Staying out of relationship mode for a while, bypasses our natural defenses, and it works. Not giving away your personal power by being too much of a pleaser works. Communicating succinctly, I like that one.

Probably the most important lesson from this book is the importance of communication. A woman who calls a guy on his behavior, is showing several powerful things, she demonstrates higher value by not accepting bad behavior, she is not afraid to convey her feelings even if this might offend the guy, she is not timid and unassertive, she keeps the lines of communication honest, and open.

You will win some and lose some by following the advice in this book. Following this advice too rigidly will not work. It is a matter of finding a balance, and using what works for you. Think of this book as training wheels.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Saved my relationship!
I have to say this is the most amazing book for any single woman, or any woman married or in a relationship. Read more
Published 4 days ago by BH
4.0 out of 5 stars Nice girls, must read!!!!!
Even though I don't like to use the B word (I say bad chick ;), this book helped me to better understand why being a nice girl was leaving me empty handed in past relationships. Read more
Published 5 days ago by T Marie
4.0 out of 5 stars Every Girl should read this book
Its not one of those that you can get through in a week but it does have some great advise for dating and understanding men. Read more
Published 6 days ago by bonnie
5.0 out of 5 stars Best Advise Ever!
This book is awesome! The advise is spot on! It's all advise from the horses mouth, MEN! If you follow the "rules" you will see how it works. It worked for me!!! Read more
Published 7 days ago by LaLa
5.0 out of 5 stars Every woman should have this book!
I've read "Act like a Lady, Think like a man". It's a decent book since it's coming from a real man's point of view. Read more
Published 7 days ago by Cathy
5.0 out of 5 stars A must for all women!
I fell in love with this book! I have referred it to all of my girlfriends. It is honest, funny, and gives every woman a little ego boost!
Published 7 days ago by sarah ordo
5.0 out of 5 stars I recommend this to any woman out there.
This was recommended to me and now I recommend it to everyone. Great read and also a fun one! I will probably be re-reading it soon :)
Published 9 days ago by Mimi
1.0 out of 5 stars A book that can damage your future relationships
The author has clearly been burnt by men in the past. From reading it, it is clear that she simply dated jerks and ignored all signs that said, "don't date this guy. Read more
Published 12 days ago by Treeman
4.0 out of 5 stars Good Book
I found the book to be informative from a woman point of view of what men appear to like in women.
Published 13 days ago by Ludella Lewis
5.0 out of 5 stars LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS BOOK!
I wish I would have read this when I started dating as a teenager. I will definitely make my daughter read it someday.
Published 14 days ago by Amy
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