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Winning with Integrity: Getting What You Want Without Selling Your Soul [Paperback]

Leigh Steinberg (Author), Michael D'Orso (Author)
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October 18, 1999
"There really is a Jerry Maguire. Only he's not some schlumpf struggling to make it on a wing and a prayer like Tom Cruise in the movie. . . . His name is Leigh Steinberg, and he's been cultivating a choirboy image for twenty years. He also happens to be the pre-eminent sports agent of our time."

--San Francisco Examiner Magazine

"This is a book about the process of negotiation.   Which means that this is a book about life."

Leigh Steinberg is the premier agent in sports. He has negotiated over $2 billion in contracts for the athletes he represents--who include Troy Aikman, Steve Young, Drew Bledsoe, Kordell Stewart, and Warren Moon--but he has also spent twenty-four years as a sports agent living by a strict personal and professional code of ethics. Steinberg's philosophy of ethical dealings and responsibility is well known in the sports world--and well known to moviegoers as well, because Steinberg's way of doing business was a model for Cameron Crowe's wildly successful film Jerry Maguire and the "manifesto" of business ethics that was the premise of the film.
        
Steinberg has always believed that negotiation is about more than the bottom line: the most successful business dealings are not always the ones that pay the most; they are about balance, perspective, objectivity, and values. A success in business must also be a success in one's own life. And in his book, Steinberg shares the secrets of successful negotiation, breaking the process down into the essential steps, from "Orientation" through "Making the Deal," and giving step-by-step practical and inspirational advice that will get any two people or parties, in any situation, to come to terms.
        
Full of great inside sports stories and characters, Winning with Integrity is an intelligent, insightful, and inspiring guide to the art of negotiation in business and in life--from the most successful businessman in sports.

"It's fashionable now, after the movie, for a lot of agents to talk about heart, but Leigh was the only one talking like that in 1993, when I began research."

--Cameron Crowe, director of Jerry Maguire


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Since entering the nascent field of sports law 25 years ago--before athletes were guaranteed the right of legal representation--Leigh Steinberg has epitomized the high-profile sports agent, successfully negotiating over $2 billion in contracts for superstars like Troy Aikman, Steve Young, and Ryan Leaf. Just as importantly, he has done so with honor and was (according to director Cameron Crowe) a prime inspiration for the agent with a heart in the film Jerry Maguire. Now, arguing that value-driven negotiating techniques can prove equally productive in other settings, Steinberg lays out his step-by-step process in Winning with Integrity: Getting What You're Worth Without Selling Your Soul. Steinberg takes a holistic view on the art of negotiation. In the introduction, he writes:
This is a book about the process of negotiation--which means that this is a book about life.... Too many people would rather simply give up what they want. They would rather avoid the discomfort of possible conflict by accepting a situation or terms without discussion, even when it means accepting less than they rightfully deserve or desire.
Steinberg analyzes the entire negotiating process--from preparation and positioning through the actual negotiation and celebratory handshake. And not surprisingly, he enlivens his advice with colorful and entertaining stories taken from his dealings with notable adversaries ranging from the NFL's Jerry Jones to the NBA's Larry Bird. Suggestions for crafting an initial offer with different types of opponents are exceptionally insightful, but the real heart of the material concerns the period between counteroffer and deal signing, where Steinberg candidly explains how he realizes his goals without violating his principles. --Howard Rothman --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

From Publishers Weekly

Sports agent Steinberg has represented some of the biggest, best-paid names in professional football?Drew Bledsoe, Troy Aikmen, Steve Young?and has pushed the salaries of these athletes ever upward. Refreshingly, he attributes such successes at least partially to his ethical and conscientious business philosophy. Writing with journalist and author D'Orso (Rise and Walk), Steinberg conceives of this sportsmanlike guide through the fundamentals of negotiating as "a book about life." In order to negotiate effectively, he insists that one begin "with an understanding of yourself?a brutally honest assessment that is not always easy to attain"?and admonishes readers to "ask yourself what is going to make you happy before you pursue [your goal]." As a coach prepares his team for a big game, Steinberg sets up the playing field with clearly defined chapters (Orientation, Preparation, Positioning, The Encounter, Making the Deal), gearing them toward anyone trying to make a deal?be it landing a job, getting a promotion, even buying a car or house. Some of the techniques may not fly with your average boss or job interviewer (Steinberg suggests responding to an irate negotiator by saying, "Do you think I hear you any more clearly when you raise your voice?"), but his moral philosophy, "that it is always more advantageous to act ethically, to take the high road," is what makes his book a useful guide. 10-city author tour; available on audio, -40447-3.
Copyright 1998 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Three Rivers Press; New edition edition (October 18, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0812932439
  • ISBN-13: 978-0812932430
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.3 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.7 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (18 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #831,830 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome Framework for Negotiating!, October 12, 2001
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This review is from: Winning with Integrity: Getting What You Want Without Selling Your Soul (Paperback)
I found this book to be a real treasure and entertaining at the same time. And best of all, you don't need to be a sports fan to appreciate the examples Steinberg uses.

It is a shame that some readers have found this book shallow and only written to brag about his exploits. They are missing the real point of the book and the positive outcomes that can happen from true negotiating, not just getting what you want. If you are looking for a book on 'How to be Persuasive and Always get What you Want', this is not your book.

Rather, it helped me build a solid mental foundation and framework when I enter negotiations. Also, you need to have the right attitude when you enter negotiations. This book will help you.

There are some remarkable examples that provided me with some real insights on perceptions. It opened my eyes that the world I see is not what everyone else sees. With his examples, I began to see how that applies to the business world as well.

I own a company that provides HR and OD consulting and I get emails EVERY day about hostile work environments. In many cases I refer them to this book to make sure their perception of the problem is on track with the problematic person.

If you are looking at this book for ANY reason, I suggest you buy it. Also, because of all the famous people involved in the negotiations, it was an easy read.

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Good, February 6, 2000
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This is a refreshing book, that counters WINNING THROUGH INTIMIDATION type books, that portray the business world as a jungle, where you have to negotiate with knives drawn. Steinberg practices integrity in his business life, and in his personal life. Steinberg actually lives down the street from me (although I don't know him), and he does wonderful things for the local community, that seem to come from the heart, rather than from a chance to be seen publicly as a benefactor, and pat himself on the back. He is in inspiration. And a nice guy who finished first!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Sound principles from a master negociator, September 4, 1999
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It's been said that if you want to learn how to be succesful, you go and talk to a person who is successful. In the area of negociation, few parallel what Leigh Steinberg has accomplished.

I dissagree completely with anyone who says this is an autobiography. Steinberg uses the lost art of storytelling to convey his principles, that's all. But I suppose if you prefer textbook, "gimme just the facts" sort of reading, you'd be disssapointed. Instead of slapping you across the face and saying, "Do this, and do that," Steinberg offers examples from his own life's experience. And, frankly, I'd rather learn from his experiences than from someone less successful.

The priciples are simple, yes. The best principles always are. But who practices them perfectly? I noticed flaws in my negociation abilities as I read this book, and I have made some changes for the better because of it.

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I NEVER PLANNED on becoming a sports attorney. Read the first page
Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
rookie contract, preposterous offer, sports attorney, deadlocked situation, impending negotiation, million signing bonus, negotiating situation, particular negotiation, true agenda
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Troy Aikman, Jerry Jones, Los Angeles, Steve Young, San Francisco, New York, Ralph Wilson, Steve Bartkowski, Drew Bledsoe, Kansas City, Super Bowl, Dallas Cowboys, Bruce Smith, David Dunn, Pro Bowl, Ted Phillips, Warren Moon, Bill Oldenberg, Atlanta Falcons, Jeff Moorad, Seattle Seahawks, Carolina Panthers, Ken Ruettgers, Kevin Greene, Southern California
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