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I Wish I Were Engulfed in Flames: My Insane Life Raising Two Boys with Autism Hardcover – January 17, 2012


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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Skyhorse Publishing; 1 edition (January 17, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1616084855
  • ISBN-13: 978-1616084851
  • Product Dimensions: 1.1 x 6.1 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (54 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,008,646 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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“Brash, sarcastic, irreverent, heartfelt, and touching, Decker’s memoir is all this and more. Highly recommended.” (Library Journal)

“This is not your mother’s autism book! Raw, honest with ‘she said what?!’ laughs on every page.” (Kim Stagliano, author of All I Can Handle: I’m No Mother Teresa)

About the Author

Jeni Decker lives on a farm in rural Michigan with her husband, two autistic sons, an Australian shepherd, and an albino frog named Humbert Humbert. In between kid-wrangling and writing, she is also an independent filmmaker. You can find her at her website: closetspacemusings.blogspot.com or on Twitter @Jeni_Decker.

More About the Author


Jeni Decker lives on a farm in rural Michigan with a bunch of animals (human and canine), and her albino frog, Humbert Humbert. She is the author of:

I Wish I Were Engulfed in Flames

The Peacock Mirror

The Wisdom of Repugnance

Far From Happy

and the Dex Morneau series:

Rigor Mortis
Absente Reo
Gravoria Manent

~with Kat Nove:

Waiting for Karl Rove
Waiting for Karl Rove, the sequel... sort of

http://jenidecker.com
http://closetspacemusings.blogspot.com





Customer Reviews

Jeni Decker is an amazing writer and an even more amazing mother.
jeanne bannon
Sometimes a story seems to begin in one direction, then goes in another direction, and I'm not quite sure if the author properly ends all of the paths she starts on.
Jill Marie Cattrysse
I see them thru this book and most of them have really related to the feelings that are expressed.
Scarpio1

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12 of 13 people found the following review helpful By BeatleBangs1964 TOP 1000 REVIEWERVINE VOICE on April 8, 2012
Format: Hardcover
This book is VERY funny! Jeni Decker has a WICKED sense of humor and, as she herself says in this book, she is good with words. In fact, she is damn good!

Jeni, the mother of Jake, (born 1996) and Jaxson (born 2000) tells the travails of raising 2 boys with autism. Jake is not as severely affected; is quite bright and a number of his writings are included in the book. The inclusion of Jake's work makes the story even more effective.

Jake, the older son has meltdowns; cannot stand the touch and feel of paper and like most people on the autism spectrum detests surprises and loud noises. I felt Jake's pain in re his aversion for topics fecal; I hate feces and find fecal talk stomach turning. In fact, the only thing I DIDN'T like about this book were the graphic fecal tales. Jake's fecal issues included his asking Jeni to inspect him after he used the bathroom to make sure he had completely cleaned himself. Jake's related sensory issues included only using wet wipes instead of toilet paper. His social skills, while never his forte included asking for a cleanliness "inspection" even at age 12!

Jaxson, on the other has severe autism. He has severe meltdowns, sometimes resulting in injury to his brother. He is marginally verbal; partially toilet trained (there is a section devoted to how Jax would change his own Pull-Ups after each trip to the bathroom and a funny part about how he stashed the discarded soiled ones in a neighbor's yard until the irate neighbor demanded to know what was going on. Even though I hate fecal tales, that story about the stash and the neighbor was funny). He also is quite computer savvy and even films his own stools. I didn't like the part about the stool show or any of the graphic fecal tales.
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful By Marigold Blue on January 5, 2012
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Only Jeni Decker can tell the trials and tribulations of raising two autistic sons and make you laugh out loud on almost every page. This book has such an uplifting spirit, and I applaud Jeni for telling her story and for her outlook on life. This is not just a story about autism. It's a story about parenting and about embracing life and playing the hand you're dealt with style and grace. And a lot of laughs. Jeni's memoir will make you laugh and cry, and it will make you a better parent. Loved it.
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful By jeanne bannon on December 15, 2011
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I Wish I were Engulfed in Flames is a heart warming, hilarious and real look at one woman's life raising two autistic sons. Jeni Decker is an amazing writer and an even more amazing mother. She deals with the trials of her life with humor and honesty. I was hooked after reading the first chapter 'Tickling the Weiner' and couldn't put the book down until I'd finished.

This book is a raw, unbelievably honest memoir, but most of all it is entertaining and very well written. My hat's off to you Jeni Decker.
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Jill Marie Cattrysse on April 17, 2012
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This book is a compilation of some funny stories in the life of a mother with two autistic sons. It's very touching and a wonderful view into her and her sons' lives and their thoughts and feelings. Jeni's love for her kids is ever present and her teetering sanity is so relatable.

The book doesn't have a beginning, middle, or end, but rather is a rambling compilation of incidents. Sometimes a story seems to begin in one direction, then goes in another direction, and I'm not quite sure if the author properly ends all of the paths she starts on. I wanted so much more backstory, and even a chronological order of events would have helped with the flow.

In addition, I did not appreciate all of the forays into political opinions of the author. She goes as far as implicating that those who disagree with her views are stupid. The book shouldn't have gone there.

So, did I enjoy the book? Yes. Was I also disappointed? Yes. I feel it could have easily been so much better.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Susan Stec on December 22, 2011
Format: Hardcover
Decker brings humor and a new definition to the phrase 'maternal bliss' in this no-holds-barred look at raising two autistic boys. The memoir is not only entertaining but in between the laughs it gives an eye opening look at the world of autism.

Chapter titles that still make me giggle:

Can someone choke themselves with their bare hands?
Oprah's the reason my kid thinks I want to drown him in the tub.
No children were harmed during the making of this film.
Tickling the Weiner.

Jeni writes:

I welcome the unexpected--thrive on the unusual. If only these were the definition of normal--unexpected, unusual--then the use of labels would cease to exist.
That is the day I look forward to with relish...
...atop a banana, with a bit of mayo, cilantro, peanut butter, and liver paté.
But that's not normal, you say?
Well I say, Normal's just a town in Illinois, south of Peoria, and north of Bloomington.

I very much enjoyed the read - an educating laugh a minute.

Susan Stec, author, The Grateful Undead: They're So Vein
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Angela Kresse on August 25, 2013
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Not only is this book hilarious but it really opens your eyes to the world of autism. I enjoyed reading it!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By A. H. Tooke on April 27, 2012
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I rad this book in 2 days and I was telling all my friends about. I know that raising children with special needs is hard, but she made it sound so entertaining, well most of the time. I mean who can laugh about a child perseverating about hygiene?
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