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With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God [Paperback]

Skye Jethani
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Book Description

August 23, 2011

Stop Living Your Life Under, Over, From and For God and Start Living in Communion With Him.

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If we've grown weary of Christianity, if we find most any local church uninspiring, maybe the problem lies not in the Christian faith or these faithful bodies, but in our own disgruntled hearts.  In With, Syke Jethani tenderly unmasks the clichéd posturing that too often masquerades as genuine communion with Christ.  More importantly, he takes readers to the humble place they must occupy―in prayer, studying Scripture, with the Church―if faith, hope, and love are to truly mark our lives.  ―James H. Gilmore, author, The Experience Economy

Made of the stuff of spiritual classics and presented in simple, contemporary terms, Skye Jethani does each of us a great service in calling us to reimagine the way we relate to God.  We so readily fall prey to living out distortions and reductions to our Christian faith―with disastrous consequences.  You and I are far more than sinners, consumers, managers, and servants.  We are dearly loved by God and made for eternal communion with him.  Everything looks different when we live life in response to God's love.  Paul Louis Metzger, Ph.D., Professor of Christian Theology & Theology of Culture, Multnomah Biblical Seminary and author of The Gospel of John: When Love Comes to Town

Cleverly using four prepositions—under, over, from, and for, Skye Jethani convincingly diagnoses the reigning paradigms of life―whether secular or religious—and shows how each one has captured some element of truth but in the end is deficient; Ultimately, they miss the most important thing—real communion with the living God. Thus utilizing one final preposition, With, he lays out what it really means to know and experience communion with God—a life of faith, hope and love―the very things that we all desperately want and need. This is a helpful, encouraging, and inspiring book.  ―Jim Belcher, author of Deep Church

It doesn’t matter, as old theologians were rumored to argue, how many angels can dance on a pinhead. But it does matter which preposition governs your faith―over, after, against, for, from, under, with. Who knew what huge worlds turn on such tiny words? Who knew what theological riches were laced into the bones of grammar? Skye has done a great service to the church. In prose elegant and clear, with insights keen and deep, he shows how everything changes with just one word: With. It’s a book I want my whole church to read.  Mark Buchanan, author of Spiritual Rhythm

Who knew that a preposition had so much influence? Skye's book will challenge the way that you think about God and faith digging deep into our motivations and heart issues. You can't read this book and not see yourself and others differently!  Margaret Feinberg, author of Scouting the Divine and Hungry for God

This book will do for our generation what J.B. Phillips, in his classic Your God is Too Small, did for his. With reveals views of God that can't satisfy and opens up the possibility for exploring a life with God that more than satisfies.  ―Scot McKnight, author of One.Life and The Blue Parakeet, professor of theology and biblical studies at North Park University

Since I dove into With, I can't stop thinking about it. Skye Jethani's insights will change how you think about God...and you...and how the two of you relate.  ―Dr. Kara E. Powell, Executive Director of the Fuller Youth Institute 

There’s a good reason why Skye is a senior editor at Leadership Journal…he writes with a stylish verve, real intelligence, and spiritual depth. Suggesting that the basic posture that you adopt towards God determines the quality, meaning, and direction of your life, With is designed to head readers in the right direction.   ―Alan Hirsch, author of Untamed, TheForgottenWays.org


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About the Author

Skye Jethani (@skye_jethani) is the executive editor of the Leadership Media Group at Christianity Today and also contributes regularly to Relevant, The Huffington Post, and radio programs around the country. His blog (www.skyejethani.com) was awarded 2nd prize for the best Christian blog by the ECPA. Skye earned his MDiv degree from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School in Deerfield, Illinois. He and his wife live in Wheaton, Illinois, with their three children.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Thomas Nelson; First Edition edition (August 23, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1595553797
  • ISBN-13: 978-1595553799
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (113 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #10,786 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Skye Jethani (www.skyejethani.com) is an author, editor, speaker, and pastor. He is the senior editor of Leadership journal, a magazine and online resource published by Christianity Today International.

Customer Reviews

I really enjoyed this book and found it very thought-provoking. Thunder  |  19 reviewers made a similar statement
Only Life With God, the life God intended for us will bring real hope, faith and love. C. Dalziel  |  26 reviewers made a similar statement
God wants us to be in relationship with him, to know him, to love him. B. Marquard  |  18 reviewers made a similar statement
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent read, highly recommended August 2, 2011
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Skye Jethani's latest book is incredible. When was the last time and thought about the way you lived your life? Do you live it for God? Or under God? Or maybe even over God? Well this whole book is dedicated to getting you to begin to live your live with God. Not just say that's how you're living, but really live your life with God. You'll evaluate the way you were brought to Christ and what kind of teaching you are receiving on Sundays as you read through this book. You'll reconsider the attitude you have towards God, is He a police office? A grandfather? A genie? Or is He a friend who you live alongside? I strongly recommend this book for everyone who calls themselves a Christian. It's an excellent book for evaluating where you are in your relationship with God, and how you can live life with Him.

I received this book for free from Thomas Nelson in exchange for a fair and honest review. The opinions above are my own, no one elses.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars a very important book August 21, 2011
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Skye Jethani, author of The Divine Commodity, has written another important book. Read this book to better understand what a life in communion with God entails. Jethani writes as a true prophet, offering both insightful critique and encouragement, as he invites the reader into a vision of what a life with God looks like. Through the use of personal narrative, engaging story, creative artistic illustrations, and practical theological reflection, Jethani constructs a book that offers a helpful analysis and reimagining of what the abundant life in Christ entails. He invites the reader to consider which preposition could be used in one's own life to describe the orienting posture one has in relation to God: UNDER God, OVER God, FROM God, FOR God. He then spends the second half of the book showing how the orienting posture we are invited into as believers is a life WITH God. This is a well written and clearly presented thesis which would be of particular benefit to those looking for a book to discuss in a small group setting or for those taking courses in theology and spirituality. However, many others would also benefit from Jethani's writing: pastors, lay people, those who love or are frustrated with the Church, those interested in a clearer sense of calling and vocation, those who long for an accessible start of meeting with God, those who have walked many years with God and long for a renewed vision, those who long to understand what a life with God entails - pick up this book.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A gravity-defying read August 15, 2011
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"Christianity isn't a religion. It's a relationship."

If you've spent any time at all in the evangelical world, you've probably heard some version of those words. In his book With: Reimagining the way you relate to God (Nelson, 2011) Pastor and author Skye Jethani explains that most of us settle for an erzatz version of this relationship:

* Life FROM God: People in this category are focused on what God will do for them, rather than being interested in God himself. Word-of-faith believers and those who search for God's blessing on their success both capture the essence of this posture.
* Life OVER God: "Proven formulas and controllable outcomes" define this category, best typlifed by people like the jaded agnostic and the pastor who relies on formulas and organizational principles to build a church.
* Life FOR God: Those in this camp are known for their drive to do great things in God's service and being a world-changer. "Full time Christian service" is the penultimate expression of faith.
* Life UNDER God: Our role is to learn what God commands, and toil with great intensity to remain within those boundaries. Legalists personify this category.

Jethani noted that he has spent time living in each one of these categories. (Me too.) But he makes a compelling case for learning to live life WITH God - which, he says, is the only sort of relationship God has ever intended to have with us:

The Life With God posture is predicated on the view that relationship is at the core of the cosmos: God the Father with God the Son with God the Holy Spirit. And so we should not be surprised to discover that when God desired to restore his broken relationship with people, he sent his Son to dwell with us. His plan to restore his creation was not to send a list of rules and rituals to follow (Life Under God), nor was it the implementation of useful principles (Life Over God). He did not send a genie to grant us our desires (Life For God.), nor did he give us a task to accomplish (Life For God). Instead, God himself came to be with us - to walk with us once again as he had done in Eden in the beginning.

It is just that simple. Which is why, in our broken state, we tend to bollux it, distancing ourselves from Him as we settle for a life lived by the wrong preposition. Jethani's writing is winsome and accessible, and his message is gospel - good news - in the truest sense of the word. The first half of the book explains how our errant categories impede and distort relationship with God. The second half offers a wonderful exploration of what it means live with God - to live into the faith, hope and love that is his character and our birthright as his beloved. A couple of appendices (a brief introduction to some ancient prayer practices in order to cultivate a "with-life" and a thoughtful set of discussion questions) round out the book's 207 pages.

One of the best-loved passages in Eugene Peterson's The Message paraphrase captures the essence of the message of With. Jesus is speaking to a crowd of people who'd lived under, for, from and over God when he offers this invitation: "Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me--watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you'll learn to live freely and lightly." (Matthew 11:28-30 MSG)

I am prone to slide to one of the unhealthy postures (from, over, for, under) in my relationship with God. It's like a bad case of gravity, pulling me downward. With is a wise, wonderful reminder that only way to experience the gravity-defying unforced rhythms of grace is by living in the reality that God is with me, and I with him. Highly recommended.

I received a review copy of this book from the publisher.
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I first heard Skye Jethani at a conference (ACSD) and went to buy this book afterwards. The main premise is that often times we try to live Over God, Under God, From God, or For... Read more
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