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A Woman Like Me [Hardcover]

Bettye LaVette , David Ritz
4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)

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Book Description

September 27, 2012
Acclaimed R&B singer Bettye LaVette celebrates her storied career in show business with her stunning memoir, A Woman Like Me, and her new album, Thankful N' Thoughtful.

As a teenager in Detroit, Bettye LaVette had a hit single with “My Man—He’s a Lovin’ Man.” By the time she was twenty, she had faded back into obscurity and was barely surviving in New York City. For the next forty years, despite being associated with legends such as Aretha Franklin, Otis Redding, Marvin Gaye, and James Brown, she remained relatively unknown outside a circle of devoted fans. Every time it seemed that her dream of stepping into the spotlight was finally coming true, bad luck smashed her hopes, again and again. Then, after a lifetime of singing in clubs and lounges, her unforgettable televised performances at the 2008 Kennedy Center Honors and at President Obama’s pre-Inaugural Concert at the Lincoln Memorial in 2009 won her the recognition she had sought for her entire life.

Bettye LaVette’s career has been a one-of-a-kind roller-coaster ride through the world of music; it has taken her from the peaks to the pits and back. In this unflinchingly honest memoir, she boldly recounts her freewheeling childhood—her parents ran an illegal liquor business out of their living room, which was frequented by some of the top acts of the forties and fifties—her short-lived conquest of the R&B world in the 1960s, her decline into poverty and despair, and her recent comeback and career revival, with two Grammy-nominated CDs and numerous appearances on major television talk shows. Poignant, brazen, and fearless, A Woman Like Me is a tour de force from one of the most outspoken female performers singing today—and she’s a force to be reckoned with.

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"Anyone who has ever heard Bettye LaVette's voice will recognize how absurd it is that she may have ever been unsung. This is her own story, in her own words. What else could you need to know?” —Elvis Costello
 
“From the jump, A Woman Like Me is riveting. Bettye LaVette's story grips you and, like her voice, doesn't let go.” —Paul Shaffer

A Woman Like Me is a candid, offbeat, and gloriously unapologetic memoir by one of the greatest soul singers of all time…. This is narrative writing at its best. LaVette’s charismatic style of performance is consistent with her bold and engaging personality on the page; there’s never a dull moment here.” –Kristin Rawls, The Christian Science Monitor  
 
“‘Love, Reign o’er Me’ is one of the best songs I’ve written. I never thought anyone could challenge the way Roger Daltrey took the vocals to such a high level of anguish, longing, and epiphany, but Bettye did it. She is a voice from the wilderness. How did we miss her for so long? A Woman Like Me goes some of the way to explain. Now she is here, an extraordinary discovery in a blues voice. We must hang on to her tightly.” —Pete Townshend
 
“Bettye makes no apologies.” —Jon Bon Jovi
 
“LaVette has had quite the colorful life, and she spares no detail or hair-raising experience in A Woman Like Me.” —Kia Makarechi, The Huffington Post
 
“Absolutely engrossing… a wild ride… Despite the numerous setbacks, the unfilled promises from producers—something she terms 'buzzard luck'—LaVette is a survivor and no obstacles is too big for her to surmount. Her honesty is astonishing and if half of what she relates is true then her journey is no less painful than Billie Holiday’s or Bessie Smith’s…. What is most intriguing about her book is the way she and Ritz mix humor and wit, a kind of comic relief to the moments of sorrow and setback…. Longtime residents of Harlem, Chicago, LA, and Detroit will relish those scenes so memorably evoked by LaVette as she recalls the clubs, incidents, and the gaggle of lovers and mentors…. A woman like Bettye LaVette is like no other.” —Herb Boyd, The Network Journal

“A dizzying, careening, nonstop roller coaster ride of an autobiography….An unflinching and uncompromising look at a life lived across the tracks from fame, where the brass ring was always within view but never within her grasp.”  –Ben Edmonds, Detroit Free Press

“LaVette’s autobiography reads like an R&B song only she could perform—soulful and honest….Her quest serves as one of the most authentic inside looks at the American music industry, and LaVette pulls no punches…LaVette’s tale is a treat.”  Publishers Weekly

“A tale of inspiration, frustration and promises deferred...studded with anecdotes about a life making music alongside some of the biggest names in Detroit.” –Tris McCall, The New Jersey Star-Ledger

“Powerful.”  The Village Voice

“Hilarious and harrowing … the details of her tale prove so crazed, quotable and laugh-out-loud funny, I found myself dog-earing many more pages in her book than I left pristine. At 66, LaVette has lost none of the muscularity of her instrument. Neither has she lost her trim figure. Her bad-ass spirit, evident on every page, remains even more firmly intact. The most powerful aspect of her story comes in the way she chooses to tell it: with a triumphant cackle.”  –Jim Farber, New York Daily News

“The life story of this soul singer—a real survivor, now 66—is destined for the big screen…LaVette’s candid story is also a window into the early years of Motown and the Detroit music scene." –Billy Heller, New York Post

“[LaVette’s] book is red hot.” –Steve Holsey, Michigan Chronicle

“Bettye LaVette’s autobiography, A Woman Like Me, proves she’s as amazing a storyteller as she is a singer.” –Benjamin Boles, Now

“LaVette tells it like it is…. LaVette sings as straightforwardly as she writes, probably because she is from no-nonsense Detroit. Much of the start of her memoir, cowritten with David Ritz, details the Detroit blues scene. There are beautiful cameo portraits of Aretha Franklin, Solomon Burke and Little Esther Phillips along the way.” –Charles R. Cross, The Seattle Times

“LaVette is a rhythm and blues survivor of the highest order, someone whose run of ‘buzzard luck’ as she calls it would have stomped down almost anyone else alive. To read her unrelenting story with every single nitty gritty detail included is to understand what long odds the music business has always been, and also see the high and low points in high-def detail like very few biographies have captured. LaVette is long past shame over some of her escapades, and lucky for us she and co-writer David Ritz capture the arduous journey dead-on, never pulling out the make-up and lip gloss to try and sugarcoat the truth.” –Bill Bentley, The Motion Report

“Besides being remarkably frank, A Woman Like Me is a very funny book, rife with one laugh after another.” –Lee Hildebrand, San Francisco Chronicle

About the Author

Bettye LaVette (born Betty Jo Haskins, January 29, 1946) is an American rhythm-and-blues singer who made her first record at sixteen but achieved only intermittent fame until 2003 and her album A Woman Like Me. Her eclectic musical style combines elements of soul, blues, rock and roll, funk, gospel, and country music. Her live performances consistently receive rave reviews, and her albums The Scene of the Crime and Interpretations: The British Rock Songbook have been nominated for Grammy Awards. She has been a guest on major national radio and television programs. LaVette lives in New Jersey with her husband, Kevin Kiley, and their three cats, Otis, Smokey, and Jeremy.

David Ritz has been described by The New York Times as “the first-call celebrity collaborator.” He has worked with everyone from Ray Charles to Don Rickles.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Blue Rider Press; 1 edition (September 27, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 039915938X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0399159381
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 5.9 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #369,401 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4.5 out of 5 stars
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4.5 out of 5 stars
I loved reading about bettye a fascinating women with a fascinating life. Marianne Sacker  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
She told E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. all the truth and all the lies. Andrea  |  2 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
12 of 14 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Couldn't put it down, not your typical musical bio... October 8, 2012
Format:Hardcover
Being an avid music fan, I've read quite a few musical bio's in my day, some fascinating and some revealing but none had the drama and raw emotion I found in these pages. Bettye holds nothing back in this brutally honest story of a woman who's determination and strength just would not quit, even though it took her decades of hard work and unimaginable sacrifices to struggle to the top. Growing up on the tough streets of Detroit, she knew Diana Ross when everyone else knew her as Diane. David Ruffin slept in her home and she was no stranger to the likes of Otis Redding and Marvin Gaye yet success and that first album continued to elude her. I won't get into details but there's mob references, pimps, sex and just about anything else that would keep you turning the pages.
This is not your typical musical bio but a damn good book and one you'll be talking about long after you've turned the last page. The story might end there but Bettye sure doesn't. Check out any one of the many CD's she has out there! You've heard of Tina Turner and Aretha Franklin but Bettye's the best damn soul and blues singing lady that has ever drawn a breath and tragically, there are still a good many fans who haven't even heard her yet!
"Change is gonna come!"
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars not a middle class life ! October 15, 2012
By wckay
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
An excellent no holds barred bio of the life of a black woman growing up in Detroit in the Motown era. I never felt more like a skinny white middle class kid from Massachusetts. For me it was the unvarnished perspective of a black girl and a wild one too - growing up and pursuing her dreams of singing and amazingly - finally making it!
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5 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars This Book made me love Bettye Lavette Even More! October 18, 2012
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
I just LOVE Bettye Lavette. I've seen her at least 7 times now and she always puts on a great, polished show that makes all the hairs on your arms and the back of your neck stand to attention, give everyone goosebumps the size of eggs. How could I love her any more?
This book does that impossible thing-makes me love Bettye even more. It is funny, salty, raw. Unlike most celebrity bios which skirt through the sex & drug crazed 1960s-1970s saying "I knew some people were doing that but not me, uh uh!" Bettye waves her own sordid past like a flag, wears it like a badge of honor. If you wondered where that exhilarating grit in her voice comes from, this is the life that gave it to her. "I've learned more from pimps that preachers" she says.
You may be too nice to read this unvarnished truth. I started last night, finished this morning before work. I'm just glad that I didn't wear my good panties!
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Not Always a Happy Story, but Always Honest
"A vicious pimp was precariously holding on to my right foot as he dangled me from the top of a twenty-story apartment building at Amsterdam and Seventy-eighth street," Bettye... Read more
Published 17 days ago by Sarah Owens
5.0 out of 5 stars Had the goood fortune to see Bettye at the Factory in Sydney a few...
I have gone to gigs for the past 50 plus years and seen some greats,Irma Thomas, Stevie Wonder , the Nevillbrothers , The BAND , Bob DYLAN 3 TIMES the Stones 2 times Muddy Waters... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Ilkka Tarjavaara
5.0 out of 5 stars Full Out!
If you've ever seen Bettye Lavette perform you will know what I mean when I say she writes like she sings... She leave it all on the stage!!! She told E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Andrea
4.0 out of 5 stars Bettye Tells It Like It Is(And Was)
This was a good, fast read. I'd read and heard alot about Bettye LaVette, but regretably I am not yet familiar with her music. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Kim K.
4.0 out of 5 stars Good read!
Awesome! Enjoyed this book from beginning to end. I felt like I was there with her during that time period.
Published 2 months ago by KB40
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome Read
Such a great story of never giving up and finally arriving! Awesome to read her story and then see that she survived and came out on top. Also great voice ~
Published 2 months ago by bailey-four
5.0 out of 5 stars Entertaining
My daughter saw Bettye LaVette perform in Detroit. She had so much gusto. Her book reads like she performs. My daughter thought this was a wonderful gift.
Published 3 months ago by Searcher
5.0 out of 5 stars A page-turner!
A fascinating tale of a how a regular person with a special talent can make decisions that either make or break their career.
Published 3 months ago by Ondrell S. Moore
4.0 out of 5 stars great start
this is an easy read but a gripping and enjoyable read. a real look into the music business without gloss or shame. Read more
Published 3 months ago by wendel werner
5.0 out of 5 stars Brutally honest and riveting.
The book is a trip down memory lane, telling the truth about many of Motown's legends, and making the reader look at them in a different light, some more positive and some less so. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Elaine
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