52 of 60 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Nobody's life that I recognize ..., February 18, 1998
By A Customer
This review is from: A Woman's Book of Life: The Biology, Psychology, and Spirituality of the Feminine Life Cycle (Paperback)
I found this book rather disappointing. Borysenko is at her strongest when she discusses the body-mind connection and the changes a woman goes through in the course of the life cycle; these parts of the book contain useful, up-to-date information for women of any age, and I wouldn't hesitate to recommend them to readers. On the other hand, the "typical woman" whose story she chooses to present throughout the book is a white, upper-middle-class, well-educated woman who takes an exotic job, marries a professional man, and has perfect children ... sorry, but this doesn't sound like most women I know. Her heroine's big teenage crisis is whether or not to diet; her major marital upheaval turns out to be a misunderstanding; and when her husband dies she immediately finds another boyfriend. Where's the child who cuts school or gets involved in drugs; the husband who ditches her to marry a younger woman, leaving her to support herself and the kids on a secretary's salary; the chronic illness that blights her old age? Or do only women who lead relatively sheltered lives have the time and leisure to consider the meaning of the cycles in their lives? Unfortunately, that's the impression the book left me with. Borysenko is apparently a kind, compassionate person who wants to help people make sense of their lives, but the range of readers addressed by this book is awfully narrow.
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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Everyone Should Read This Book, April 17, 2002
This review is from: A Woman's Book of Life: The Biology, Psychology, and Spirituality of the Feminine Life Cycle (Paperback)
If you are a woman, or have a woman in your life (mother, wife, daughter, etc.), you should read this book. In other words, whoever you are, you should read this book. It's accessable and easy to read, but packed so full of information and new ideas that even if you disagree with half the book, the other half will open your eyes.
Dr. Borysenko is a scientist, with strong interests in health, spirituality, mind-body interaction, and the role of women in our society. This book synthesizes those ideas into a fascinating whole. It's definitely pitched to the layman (layperson?) rather than to scientists, and presents a broad range of ideas in an accessible and entertaining manner.
Borysenko's goal is to describe the physical and mental changes women undergo in their lives, and to outline a positive way to view each of the phases in a woman's life - childhood, adolescence, adulthood, and maturity. She synthesizes a tremendous amount of science and wisdom to do it, discussing everything from genetics and cell division to Lakota Sioux attitudes towards menstruation. Few readers are likely to agree with everything Borysenko writes, but her ability to take disparate information and combine it is sure to give every reader some new insights into women's physical and mental development, and ways in which women can craft their role in life.
Borysenko introduces most chapters with the ongoing story of a hypothetical character, "Julia", as she matures through each of Borysenko's stages of life. As some of the other reviewers have pointed out, Julia seems to be an idealized verion of Dr. Borysenko herself, an upper-middle class white American with strong interests in womens' development. While this may alienate some readers, I think it's worth sticking with the book. Again, the book is so full of information, presented so well, that a reader may find herself uninterested in Julia but interested in Borysenko's advice on mediation, or on hormonal vs. lifestyle therapy for menapause, or by her information on cultural body image standards in the U.S., or by any of a hundred other things.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Iluminating and Thought-Provoking, February 26, 2004
By A Customer
This review is from: A Woman's Book of Life: The Biology, Psychology, and Spirituality of the Feminine Life Cycle (Paperback)
I sat down and read this book in two days...I just couldn't put it down. For the first time in my life (I am a young woman in my twenties) I am looking forward to the process of growing older and wiser. Even looking forward to experiencing the changes my body will go through in menopause. I no longer fear getting older and losing my "beauty". This book has caused powerful insight and reflection moving me closer to my potential. The mystery of womanhood is celebrated and embraced in this book rather than touted as less important than "traditional" roles. I will refer back to this book again and again, as well as recommend it to the women in my life who I hold the dearest.
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