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A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success: Communicating With Confidence and Power [Paperback]

Phyllis Mindell (Author)
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September 25, 1995
This practical, candid guide shows women how to shed the language of weakness and gain the language of power. Providing real-life examples, specific advice, practical tips, exercises and business and literary references, it shows professional women how to kick the "spontaneity" delusion; grow the vocabulary of power and eliminate limp words and phrases that hurt credibility; overcome subtle and overt chauvinism; command all forms of communication - verbal, non-verbal, writing, reading and listening - as tools for power and influence; and shape policy decisions at the top.


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Much has been written--and said--about how men and women communicate differently. Deborah Tannen has documented these differences and their effects, both in the workplace and in personal situations, in such best-selling works as Talking from 9 to 5 (1994) and You Just Don't Understand (1991). Now Mindell, an international communications consultant, provides a practical guide for professional women on how to use language more effectively to persuade, succeed, and be more assertive. Throughout, Mindell emphasizes that "weak" language should be avoided in order not to "sabotage" one's message. She covers grammatical construction, vocabulary, structure and organization, body language, and style. Modes of communication considered by Mindell include presentations, writing, listening, and even reading--noting that what and how women read is also important. David Rouse --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Prentice Hall Pr (September 25, 1995)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0131572156
  • ISBN-13: 978-0131572157
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 5.9 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,723,007 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Dr. Phyllis Mindell

Phyllis Mindell founded and has led Well-Read since 1979, overseeing its growth into an international supplier of the world's finest communications seminars and leadership development programs.


As an original thinker in her fields, she has written four books and dozens of articles, columns, and research papers on all aspects of leadership, language, and communications. Power Reading was selected one of the thirty best business books of the year and provides the foundation of all Well-Read's reading seminars. She also wrote and produced the Reading Business video seminar. Her new book, How To Say It for Executives is a already helping leaders. A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success, Communicating With Confidence and Power and How to Say It for Women, have sold over 100,000 copies and been translated into German, Chinese, and Arabic. In addition, Well-Read's series of women's seminars and speeches have enriched the lives of thousands all over the world. Phyllis's message, that women can lead and succeed without compromising their femininity, integrity, or moral compass, shines as a beacon for women at every professional level.

An engaging, inspiring, and provocative speaker, she has keynoted and addressed such audiences as the Simmons Leadership Conference, Grainger, Pepsico, Bryant College Women's Summit, Kodak's Northstar Network, Association of American Medical Colleges, Xerox International Women's Conference, Kodak Managers' Forum, State of Pennsylvania Leadership Development Institute, Society of Women Engineers, Chautauqua Institution, Nuclear Regulatory Commission, League of Women Voters, Georgetown and University of Michigan Medical Schools, Women's Financial Services Network, and New England Business Women's Association.

Well-Read and Dr. Mindell count among their clients Motorola, Texas Instruments, Paine Webber, Xerox, Eastman Kodak, Bausch & Lomb, Corning, Xerox European Research Centre (France), PricewaterhouseCoopers, FISONS (Canada), Alltel (England), Harvard Medical School, Centocor, The New England, Grand Circle Travel, National Association of Realtors, and over a hundred other companies and professional groups. Individual clients come from nearly every country and all over the United States.

She earned the doctorate from the University of Rochester, the MS from City College of New York, and the BA from Brooklyn College. She has also done postdoctoral study in neurolinguistics, literature, and writing. Dr. Mindell was recently appointed adjunct professor at Georgetown Medical School.

She lives with her husband Marvin in Rochester, NY and Washington, DC. Their children, Ossie Borosh, Pamela Getnick Mindell, Joe and David; and their granchildren, Arye, Samuel, and Lucia, light up their lives.

Please visit www.well-read.com for free articles to download and more information.



 

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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars A terrific communication guide. ****, February 3, 1999
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- Highly recommended for women (and men!) searching for the tools to communicate effectively. Although the target audience is clearly female, men could also significantly benefit from following the techniques outlined. - Provides clear, easy-to-emulate examples of powerful communication styles, contrasted with weak styles to discard. -Teaches one how to convey a positive, yet powerful impression--especially vital for female managers/supervisors/executives. And the exciting part is--you can begin applying what you're learning right away. A recent memo I read really highlighted the withering impact of weak language. Several sentences began "I think I have discovered the solution"..."I believe..", etc. The weak language just jumped out from the page! - Some sections are a little dry, but overall this book is highly recommended.
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Buy this book. Every woman should learn Successful Language, January 29, 2002
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Sissalou "sissalou" (SAINT CLAIR, MI USA) - See all my reviews
My only reqret is that Dr. Mindell wrote "A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success: Communicating With Confidence and Power" after I had earned my masters degree (this book should have been required reading) and after I already became deeply entrenched in my current career. My goal is to use the principles taught in "Language of Success" to help me dig myself out of my work rut and into a higher-paying position.

Dr. Mindell's book is a "must-read" and a "must-do-what-you-read" book for every woman.

This book should be required reading for every woman whether or not she earned a high school diploma or college degree. If she works with, or for, people of any gender, this book should be mandatory reading.

This book should be required reading for any mother or guardian with any type of daughter (or with a son exhibiting timid tendencies) so that she could train her child to use the language of success principles that Dr. Mindell teaches.

The concepts provided are simple, yet powerful. The book is clearly written and Dr. Mindell even uses humor; this is not a "grammar" book.

A suggestion: before you read the book, take two or three minutes and write a pretend written memo directing "someone" to do an unpleasant task. You don't HAVE to do this to learn from the book but it will be fun and you can use the memo as a benchmark to learn about yourself and compare it to later business writing after you learn how to use the language of success.

I learned a lot about myself from "The Language of Success." I learned that there are a lot of changes that I need to make. They are simple changes, but until I read this book, I was totally unaware of how "weak" I come across in the business arena.

I instantly began to use Dr. Mindell's suggestions, right from the first chapter. I know that as I put her concepts into practice, that I will reach my professional and personal goals.

Example of two easy rules to improve your image are to:
1. Avoid using "like" as in: The presentation was like real good.
2. Avoid using "I think" when you really "know" something. Don't start a sentence by saying, "I think we really ought to do such and such." Just say, "We ought to do such and such."
etc., etc., etc.

Don't worry: the "Language of Sucess" principles won't turn you into a rude woman when you put them into practice, but they will improve your image of authority without making you appear overbearing.

Please buy this book if you are a woman--whether you work in your home or for a Fortune 500 business. Doesn't matter. Read it.
I wish I learned the principles of "Successful Language" when I was a child.

-From a satisfied customer and new Language of Success "student"

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12 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success, December 17, 1999
This review is from: A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success: Communicating With Confidence and Power (Paperback)
A spectacularly helpful and insightful book for anyone, male or female! Mindell describes, in compelling detail, the exact ways in which women unknowingly use weak language that undercuts our authority, power and persuasiveness--and she shows how to fix the problem. Mindell believes that strong language empowers everyone and she teaches the reader how to communicate clearly, forcefully and effectively, with respect for your listener AND your own ideas. Whether you want to lead at the office or at home, this book will help you do so more successfully, and with greater pleasure.
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