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Working with Resistance

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As far as I'm concerned, Dr. Stark is the most gifted writer in the field. She's a teacher! I understand that her courses are in demand, and I can see why. She's a graduate of Harvard Medical School and the Boston Psychoanalytical Institute who can write for people who aren't!

Synthesizing the major theories in psychotherapy, she normalizes the process of healing which tends to go, well, like the illustration on the cover of the book. We fight those who caringly try to change us, and we fight ourselves. It's a struggle!

As a professional coach (personal, not sports), as a parent, as a friend, I've relied on the depth of understanding this book gave me about a phenomenon which can be pervasive and frustrating in relationships with others. It helped me see my own resistances and helped me see how to work with others'.

Through the book shines Dr. Stark the therapist -- there's not one hint of the arrogance or patronization one finds in some therapy books, but rather the sincere compassion, tact and respect of a seasoned professional who loves her work.

It takes patience to deal with resistance, and you have to understand the nature of the beast. "Back and forth," she says, "back and forth, over and over again. Systematically, repeatedly, again and again. This is what is meant by working through the resistance. It is a process requiring that the therapist demonstrate to the patient the same thing again and again, at different times, and in various connections. Here too. Here now. Here also."

As one of the reviewers on the cover of the book said, "Martha Stark ... is able to clarify without sacrificing complexity." Read this book for the best description of working with resistance you're likely to find, and it is through working through the resistance that healing takes place.

Working with Resistance is a book that clearly outlines the theraputic process and it's impact on both the client and the therapist. The book is targeted to a theraputic audience, but Dr. Stark continuously defines the clinical language she uses making the work accessible to anyone. This book has been immensely helpful to me as a client, giving me a road map to help me understand where I have been with my therapist and where I have yet to go. A must read for anyone interested in how therapy heals.

Working with Resistance is a psychotherapy treasure. Psychoanalytic theory and more importantly application are made in clear and helpful techniques for the practicing therapist or counselor. Dr. Stark helps us recognize the movement toward health and the resistance to it that are found at the heart of psychotheraputic change. Through numerous clear examples she teaches us how by recognizing and commenting on these processes in our interpretations we support out clients in their growth rather than getting lost in the frustration of resistance. I recomment this book to all the therapists and counselors I supervise.

I'am not a professional . Iam a client .
I have read many books on psychology to understand what's wrong with my mind .This one is the best book i ever came across .
In fact i read at least one page a day at work and one page at home .
I carry this book with me all the time .
It's such a treasure . Every line in the book is a lesson in my life ...

This book is a wonderful combination of several theories of psychotherapy rolled into a clear and concise
format. Easy to follow and it works; I use it in my work!! A worthy Amazon purchase and the price was right.