Storytelling is one of our most fundamental and enduring needs. Our stories define us. They are the vehicles of meaning and they serve as the narrative of our views about our world and ourselves. We all constantly tell stories that shape virtually every human activity from our emotions to our personal relationships and our politics. One of the casualties of the pharmacological eclipse of the "talk therapies," has been that many people are no longer being encouraged to explore the meaning of their distress.
Writing our stories introduces another dynamic: most of us find that putting out thoughts and feelings down on paper helps to give us mental and emotional clarity.
This book is not the first to discuss journal writing as a method of healing, but it is one of the best that I have read.
In the foreword by the author of
Angela's Ashes: A Memoir, Frank McCourt says, "Why, oh why, didn't someone walk up to me when I was 25 and stumbling, and hand me a book like this?"
The answer is that as far as I know, there was no such book. This one is unique and the fruit of fifty years or regular journaling combined with practical experience of using journal writing for therapy. Sheppard Kominars was first encouraged to use journaling at a time in the mid-1950s when he was suffering from intractable headaches. To his astonishment they began to become more manageable and then to subside. He continued writing over the years, and his writing supported him during the vicissitudes of life, particularly when he developed another kind of physical illness. In recent years he has taken his method on the road, teaching journal writing to a new generation of people with chronic illnesses, in the hope that writing will help them articulate and make sense of their experiences.
In the last few years a small body of evidence has indicated that journal writing may be highly therapeutic for people with some kinds of problems, and it may also act to prevent some psychological difficulties. Sheppard's experience would seem to endorse that research.
The book really does begin at the beginning, even dealing with the kind of book and paper to use. Sheppard then takes us through the practicalities of what, when and where to write.
For many years now I have encouraged people to use storytelling as a method of writing and re-writing their life stories, all the time unaware of Sheppard Kominars' work. So this book particularly fascinated me. The methods that he details not only help people struggling with health problems, but can also be potent vehicles for building our personal resilience to the slings and arrows that are an inevitable part of life.
I hope that this book has a very wide readership and that it becomes the catalyst not only for a wider use of writing in healthcare and wellness, but also that it prompts further scientific investigations into its use.
For teachers, people who would like to maintain their health, as well as people struggling with physical and psychological problems, this is a must read!
Very highly recommended.
Richard G. Petty, MD, author of
Healing, Meaning and Purpose: The Magical Power of the Emerging Laws of Life