|Amazon Price||New from||Used from|
Starred Review. Many will greet this taut, clear-eyed memoir of grief as a long-awaited return to the terrain of Didion's venerated, increasingly rare personal essays. The author of Slouching Towards Bethlehem and 11 other works chronicles the year following the death of her husband, fellow writer John Gregory Dunne, from a massive heart attack on December 30, 2003, while the couple's only daughter, Quintana, lay unconscious in a nearby hospital suffering from pneumonia and septic shock. Dunne and Didion had lived and worked side by side for nearly 40 years, and Dunne's death propelled Didion into a state she calls "magical thinking." "We might expect that we will be prostrate, inconsolable, crazy with loss," she writes. "We do not expect to be literally crazy, cool customers who believe that their husband is about to return and need his shoes." Didion's mourning follows a traditional arc—she describes just how precisely it cleaves to the medical descriptions of grief—but her elegant rendition of its stages leads to hard-won insight, particularly into the aftereffects of marriage. "Marriage is not only time: it is also, paradoxically, the denial of time. For forty years I saw myself through John's eyes. I did not age." In a sense, all of Didion's fiction, with its themes of loss and bereavement, served as preparation for the writing of this memoir, and there is occasionally a curious hint of repetition, despite the immediacy and intimacy of the subject matter. Still, this is an indispensable addition to Didion's body of work and a lyrical, disciplined entry in the annals of mourning literature.
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.
Didion's husband, the writer John Gregory Dunne, died of a heart attack, just after they had returned from the hospital where their only child, Quintana, was lying in a coma. This book is a memoir of Dunne's death, Quintana's illness, and Didion's efforts to make sense of a time when nothing made sense. "She's a pretty cool customer," one hospital worker says of her, and, certainly, coolness was always part of the addictive appeal of Didion's writing. The other part was the dark side of cool, the hyper-nervous awareness of the tendency of things to go bad. In 2004, Didion had her own disasters to deal with, and she did not, she feels, deal with them coolly, or even sanely. This book is about getting a grip and getting on; it's also a tribute to an extraordinary marriage.
Copyright © 2005 The New Yorker --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.
This book took a little getting used to however I ultimately enjoyed her analysis.Published 4 days ago by Lauren
Loved Didion's writing style in this book -- it made her thoughts and feelings very visceral. Its hard to imagine this tragedy but with this book we can get into the mind of... Read morePublished 6 days ago by Christine Anderson
A book that has "magical thinking" in the title suggests to me that there will be profound ideas in the pages. I found none. Read morePublished 8 days ago by foolish
One of the best descriptions of grief and mourning. Gives the reader surprising insights into the workings of the mind. Read morePublished 12 days ago by Old Man Walking
An easy to read and poignant story of loss and the process of acceptance. Thank you Joan for putting into words what it feels like to be
in that quasi present state of life... Read more
Totally consumes you and just makes you feel... Great read full of emotions. Beautifully written that makes you not want to put it down till finish.Published 17 days ago by VictoriaB
This book was very poignant and courageous. I have prioritized it in my death-and-dying library. At times I felt the author dropped too many names, but then she has lots of names... Read morePublished 17 days ago by Lois Hjelmstad
Deaths in the eyes of thee bewildered. Each account brings transparency through a mudgy situation. This account provides an open mind and heart.Published 18 days ago by Veda McLean
This woman's struggle is made so real to me. I feel like my husband died.Published 23 days ago by Dale L. Burns