You Call This Love?: The Real Reason Women Don't Like Sex [Paperback]

Lisa Bisque (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: September 29, 2000

This is a non-clinical non-professional viewpoint from a woman who has been paying close attention to what has happened to our men early on in their lives.

You Call This Love? will objectively explore the very real loss that women have suffered, because of the very real sacrifice made by our men during the most vulnerable days of their lives.

This book is powerful and compelling. The words contained may haunt the reader as no other writers’ words have ever done. There is violence. People are intrigued by violence and human suffering. There is sex. The ultimate expression of sex is intercourse. This book delves into the act, the satisfaction and dissatisfaction. There is mystery and mysticism. Is the newborn male infant being imprinted with pain and fear by this act?

There is hope. Since the damage is completely preventable,we have the power to protect our sons from this act of subjugation. There is love. By resisting the pressure to conform, we will show we truly care. No male should ever look at his body and question parental love. No male should ever ask, “why, if you loved me, did you allow this to happen to me?”

Editorial Reviews

About the Author

LISA BISQUE is a 40-year-old mother of three intact sons. She is a licensed practical nurse currently employed by the State of Florida, Department of Corrections. As yet, she is an unpublished author and You Call This Love? is her first attempt at writing. He subject matter is of great importance to her. She is a strong opponent of routine infant circumcision, and she is now prepared to let her voice be heard.

Product Details

• Paperback: 132 pages
• Publisher: iUniverse (September 29, 2000)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0595002668
• ISBN-13: 978-0595002665
• Product Dimensions: 7.9 x 4.9 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 4.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,217,919 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Customer Reviews

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16 of 17 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Who Should Read this Book?, May 11, 2001

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George C. Denniston "MD" (Olympic Peninsula, WA USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: You Call This Love?: The Real Reason Women Don't Like Sex (Paperback)

If you are a man or a woman who has not yet had children of your own, I advise you to read this book. If you have children who have not yet had children, it is in your vital self-interest to read this book. A tragedy brought about by humans doing harmful things to other humans can be prevented, and your children or grandchildren will be grateful to you, instead of resenting you, to put it mildly. It's your choice. Will you let this little book help you with one of the most fateful decisions you will ever make?

If you are an American male or female, this book will explain many things that may have been puzzling you about your life. The news may not be pleasant, but you will come away with greater understanding and compassion.

14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Sombody is not afraid to tell the truth, July 20, 2003

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The Old Philosopher "The Old Philosopher" (WA USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: You Call This Love?: The Real Reason Women Don't Like Sex (Paperback)

The truth hurts. Maiming a man's sex organs significantly reduces his ability to be a sex partner to women. How blatantly obvious. The hate of women against men that is taken out on their little baby boys, and the greed of quack doctors who cut up healthy little children's sex organs for fun and profit does damage to everyone involved -- how hard it is to tell the truth in a society that has sexually mutilated more than a hundred million boys/men. They all ought to be caught and prosecuted for violent sexual child abuse. It's about time that someone began telling the truth about violence against children and the long-term harm it does to the adults they eventually become. Every person who is concerned with law enforcement or violence against children ought to read this book.

4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Vagina has nothing to grab onto, October 30, 2007

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Drew Hunkins (Madison, WI United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: You Call This Love?: The Real Reason Women Don't Like Sex (Paperback)

I read this book last year and it has left a lasting impression ever since. You Call This Love does an excellent job presenting the case against infant circumcision, which of course is what the book is all about.

What's enthralling about Bisque's great work is that she pulls absolutely no punches, she gets down to specifics and flat out states that the sex a circumcised man and woman share is not how nature intended (I couldn't agree more, nature didn't intend for doctors to be roaming maternity wards cutting up and maiming infants' penises). Obviously nature intended that the foreskin be intact.

Bisque intelligently argues that women are losing out since the foreskin is a sleeve that stimulates the vagina and clitoris much more than a circumcised penis, a circumcised penis doesn't have much at all for the vaginal walls to grab hold of, hence women end up getting short changed, as a result clitoral stimulation is often lacking. You Call This Love goes on to point out that circumcised men are essentially forced to act like jackhammers and ram their way through intercourse, while intact men have a gliding sensation when having intercourse with women receiving more clitoral stimulation because of the extra foreskin on a normal/nature-intended penis.

This book is sensational, it forces one to understand how physically handicapped circumcised men are. It's a realization that's way too difficult for many of them to take mentally and emotionally so they simply dismiss it out of their minds.

The arguments Bisque marshals are nothing more than a stark wake up call for humankind. One has to thank her profusely for her blatant honesty and necessary bluntness.

Future generations are going to look back in horror at this crime against humanity.