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You Call This Love?: The Real Reason Women Don't Like Sex

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If you are a man or a woman who has not yet had children of your own, I advise you to read this book. If you have children who have not yet had children, it is in your vital self-interest to read this book. A tragedy brought about by humans doing harmful things to other humans can be prevented, and your children or grandchildren will be grateful to you, instead of resenting you, to put it mildly. It's your choice. Will you let this little book help you with one of the most fateful decisions you will ever make?

If you are an American male or female, this book will explain many things that may have been puzzling you about your life. The news may not be pleasant, but you will come away with greater understanding and compassion.

The truth hurts. Maiming a man's sex organs significantly reduces his ability to be a sex partner to women. How blatantly obvious. The hate of women against men that is taken out on their little baby boys, and the greed of quack doctors who cut up healthy little children's sex organs for fun and profit does damage to everyone involved -- how hard it is to tell the truth in a society that has sexually mutilated more than a hundred million boys/men. They all ought to be caught and prosecuted for violent sexual child abuse. It's about time that someone began telling the truth about violence against children and the long-term harm it does to the adults they eventually become. Every person who is concerned with law enforcement or violence against children ought to read this book.

I read this book last year and it has left a lasting impression ever since. You Call This Love does an excellent job presenting the case against infant circumcision, which of course is what the book is all about.

What's enthralling about Bisque's great work is that she pulls absolutely no punches, she gets down to specifics and flat out states that the sex a circumcised man and woman share is not how nature intended (I couldn't agree more, nature didn't intend for doctors to be roaming maternity wards cutting up and maiming infants' penises). Obviously nature intended that the foreskin be intact.

Bisque intelligently argues that women are losing out since the foreskin is a sleeve that stimulates the vagina and clitoris much more than a circumcised penis, a circumcised penis doesn't have much at all for the vaginal walls to grab hold of, hence women end up getting short changed, as a result clitoral stimulation is often lacking. You Call This Love goes on to point out that circumcised men are essentially forced to act like jackhammers and ram their way through intercourse, while intact men have a gliding sensation when having intercourse with women receiving more clitoral stimulation because of the extra foreskin on a normal/nature-intended penis.

This book is sensational, it forces one to understand how physically handicapped circumcised men are. It's a realization that's way too difficult for many of them to take mentally and emotionally so they simply dismiss it out of their minds.

The arguments Bisque marshals are nothing more than a stark wake up call for humankind. One has to thank her profusely for her blatant honesty and necessary bluntness.

Future generations are going to look back in horror at this crime against humanity.

i guess i should have read the reviews before buying this book. i thought it was a relationship book but when i got it i realized the entire book is about male circumcision. and the book was written by a woman. i read it all in one night because its very small. i found the concept interesting but i felt the author was a little extreme with her examples. i did get the point and it made me reconsider if i would give my own son circumcision. but this is definitely not the book i thought i was buying.

I am personally very interested in this topic, and have read over a dozen books on circumcision, and this is easily the worst of the books that come out against circumcision (almost as bad as the pro-circumcision books!). I find the book incredibly sexist and homophobic. It is almost entirely opinion based, with little in the way of facts. This is ridiculous because there is a lot of great factual information available, just do a web search. Even though I agree with quite a number of her claims (tho not all), I still can't stand the way she wrote them. There are much much better books on circumcision out there. ... Or well, just about any other circumcision book. Don't waste your time with this one.