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Product Details

  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press (October 1, 2013)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807042455
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807042458
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.9 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (29 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #548,702 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Dispelling common myths, stereotypes, and false assumptions is just part of the ambitious goals set by established gender-studies experts Bronski, Ann Pellegrini, and Michael Amico. Exposing the claims and myths LGBT people accept is another key aspect of their other mission. Beginning with the observation that LGBT as a single, clearly defined cultural entity is itself a myth, the authors classify myths and the social compromises they enforce by upholding existing norms, erasing complex differences, encouraging secrecy, and inhibiting logical discussion. This impressive undertaking covers the struggles associated with coming out, sexual abuse, gay identity, and homophobia, subtle and aggressive. This groundbreaking book is rich in smart, stirring, and forthright examinations of myths, negative and positive, and in clarifying examples, and holds to scholarly standards while compellingly and revealingly addressing the curiosity and concerns of mainstream readers. --Whitney Scott

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"This powerful book demands that we look more closely at the ways we move in and structure our society, and asks vital questions that will steer the culture toward justice and equality." —Publishers Weekly, starred review

"This groundbreaking book is rich in smart, stirring, and forthright examinations of myths, negative and positive, and clarifying examples, and holds to scholarly standards while compellingly and revealingly addressing the curiosity and concerns of mainstream readers." —Booklist

“One of the most complete sourcebooks about science, sociology and LGBT life out there.” —PopMatters

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This book is well written and easy to read.
Wilhelmina Zeitgeist
An excellent book that breaks down common myths about lesbian, gay, bi-sexual and transgender people.
galfrombrooklyn
One way that that the book helped me was in understanding the many dimensions of trans experience.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Brian W. Fairbanks VINE VOICE on September 28, 2013
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"You Can Tell Just By Looking And 20 Other Myths About LGBT Life and People," a collaboration between Michael Bronski, Ann Pellegrini, and Michael Amico, is a brave attempt to dispel the many myths about the people labeled with the title acronym (which I'm sure most people recognize as shorthand for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender).

This is a brave book because some of the myths are ones perpetuated by the LGBT community itself, and many gays do not take kindly to anyone who strays from the script. "Homosexuals Are Born That Way" is popular among gays as a way to suggest that sexual orientation is like race or gender, something that one does not choose and, therefore, not a valid reason to discriminate. Pity the person, like actress Cynthia Nixon of Sex and the City, who publicly proclaimed that her sexuality was a choice. Some others are popular as a defense mechanism ("Most Homophobes Are Repressed Homosexulas") to conveniently label opponents in the battle for LGBT equality.

Other myths explored and debunked concern religion ("All Religions Condemn Homosexuality"), gaydar ("You Can Tell Who's Gay Just by Looking"), transgender people ("All Transgender People Have Sex-Reassignment Surgery," "Transgender People Are Mentally Ill," and "Transgender People Are Gay"), race ("People of Color Are More Homophobic Than White People"), and the media ("Positive Visibility in the Media Increases Tolerance and Acceptance of LGBT People").

Simply put, people are not simple, and neither is sexuality.

Brian W. Fairbanks
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15 of 19 people found the following review helpful By Alan Dorfman VINE VOICE on September 17, 2013
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To look at the cover of "You Can Tell Just By Looking" by Michael Bronski, Ann Pellegrini and Michael Amico with its Brady Bunch boxes with smiling faces of all varieties of gender and ethnicity, you might expect the book to a light-hearted piece of fluff or a parody of the "20 Other Myths about LGBT Life And People." You would be mistaken.

The authors of this book are very serious in their discussions of the 21 commonly known and apparently false, or at best misleading, myths about GLBT individuals and the real parameters of their lives. For that I commend them and yet there seems to be a paucity of footnotes. The authors do a very good job of laying out their case as to the falsity of the myths but it seems to be more of a case of their logical thought progressions as opposed to a serious presentation of external research to bolster their premise. Sort of a "this is what we believe and our truth is so obviously accurate we don't need facts to prove our points because their truth should be obvious to all of you." What they seem to refer to most frequently is what they have already written or chapters yet to come.

I found this book a difficult read. The authors' surety of their own arguments left me no room to think for myself and for the most part there was nothing significantly new that I learned. As it was, several times during my reading I ran into the thought "Who is the market for this book?" It's too dogmatic for the LGBT community and those who believe in the myths, for the most part, are disinclined to have their myths busted.

"You Can Tell Just By Looking And 20 Other Myths About LGBT Life and People" may be to some people's taste but did nothing for me.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Lauri Crumley Coates VINE VOICE on December 6, 2013
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This is a timely and well written book. People are willing to question the same sex lifestyle more these days with all the headlines of gay marriage rights, civil rights and news in general. There are so many prevailing myths that tend to punctuate the discussions of any controversial subject, and often tend to be hot button issues. The book comments on some of the most common myths and offers actual statistical and personal data as response. If you have questions about sexuality, or want to introduce it as a topic of family conversation and education, this would be a good place to start.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Antigone Walsh VINE VOICE on November 4, 2013
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This humorless manifesto misses the mark. The cover and title suggest a more light hearted look at common misperceptions that would serve to till some common ground. Instead it is a tired regurgitation of political correctness. It is not a discussion. The authors present their positions and perceptions as indisputable fact. Those who don't fall lock step with their viewpoints are haters, bigots and fools. This could have triggered an important discussion. But a "my way or the highway approach" is never conducive to growth or education. There is no point in discussion when differing opinions are deemed stupid and reactionary.

Still there are valid points and food for thought. The concept of "corrective" rape is not just an LGBT issue but one that reflects the treatment and precarious position of women in all different parts of the world. The balance between individual's sexual freedom, punitive governmental action and impact on freedom of religion and speech bears greater examination. But their discussion of HIV testing is troubling. The authors are technically correct that testing in and of itself does not prevent the spread, it does provide awareness so the individual can take measures to protect the self and others. The authors sidestep the question of personal responsibility, bemoaning the fact that people lie about their status because in the case of "sex workers" (prostitutes) it may cost them clients and in others, might trigger rejection. Well, duh. I don't know anyone, straight or gay, who views getting tested or having a negative test as being a substitute for safe sex.

I was disappointed in this book. It's dry delivery and one sided perspective does little to dispel the myths they highlight or stimulate discussion.
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