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Ray Charles Robinson JR. (Author), Mary Jane Ross (Author)
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June 8, 2010
A deeply personal memoir of the private Ray Charles - the man behind the legend - by his eldest son.


Ray Charles is an American music legend. A multiple Grammy Award-winning composer, pianist, and singer with an inimitable vocal style and a catalog of hits including "What I Say," "Georgia on My Mind," "Unchain My Heart," "I Can't Stop Loving You," and "America the Beautiful," Ray Charles's music is loved by fans around the world.

Now his eldest son, Ray Charles Robinson Jr., shares an intimate glimpse of the man behind the music, with never-before-told stories. Going beyond the fame, the concerts, and the tours, Ray Jr. opens the doors of his family home and reveals their private lives with fondness and frankness.

He shares his father's grief and guilt over his little brother's death at the age of five — as well of moments of personal joy, like watching his father run his hands over the Christmas presents under their tree while singing softly to himself. He tells of how Ray overcame the challenges of being blind, even driving cars, riding a Vespa, and flying his own plane. And, in gripping detail, he reveals how as a six-year-old boy he saved his father's life one harrowing night.

Ray Jr. writes honestly about the painful facts of the addiction that nearly destroyed his father's life. His father's struggles with heroin addiction, his arrests, and how he ultimately kicked the drug cold turkey are presented in unflinching detail. Ray Jr. also shares openly about how, as an adult, he fell victim to the same temptations that plagued his father.

He paints a compassionate portrait of his mother, Della, whose amazing voice as a gospel singer first attracted Ray Charles. Though her husband's drug use, his womanizing, and the paternity suits leveled against him constantly threatened the stability of the Robinson home, Della exhibited incredible resilience and inner strength.

Told with deep love and fearless candor, You Don't Know Me is the powerful and poignant story of the Ray Charles the public never saw — the father and husband and fascinating human being who also happened to be one of the greatest musicians of all time.


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From the eldest son, who lived through Charles's success, adultery, and addictions, comes this candid yet compassionate memoir. At age six, Robinson, now 54, found his father twitching and bloody from shooting heroin. He was nearly 50 before meeting many of his half-siblings from his father's affairs. In between, his parents successfully created a normal life in Southern California—strict rules, curfew times, a sense of community. Ultimately, Robinson knew his father through his father's affections, not his fame. He knew a remarkable man with an acute mind who would ride on a Vespa and play chess—a father whose attentions he craved but never thought he had captured. So despite earning a business and economics degree, working with and for his father, and starting a family, Robinson felt rejected. I had nursed resentment against my father for most of my adult life, he writes, always assuming that someday we would be together and everything would be made right. Instead, things got worse, and Robinson abused cocaine. Beyond new insider details, this book is a cathartic tale of a son confronting his father's legacy. (June)
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About the Author

RAY CHARLES ROBINSON, JR. is the eldest son of the legendary singer, songwriter, and musician Ray Charles and Della B. Robinson. He is an independent film producer who was co-executive producer of Ray Charles: 50 Years of Music and co-producer of Ray, among many other projects. He currently resides in Los Angeles with girlfriend Rhonda Bailey and spends as much time as possible with his daughters, Erin and Blair, and his granddaughter, Kennedy. Ray is also committed to helping those in need in his community, especially those struggling with addiction.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Crown (June 8, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0307462935
  • ISBN-13: 978-0307462930
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.5 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #214,653 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This Book Needs To Be Buzzed About More...., July 5, 2010
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I found this book at the library, and was surprised to see only one review posted here before mine. This is one of the most loving, compassionate memoirs I have ever read about famous parents . . . especially about a father with some serious flaws. Ray Charles had a serious drug problem and fathered many children outside of his marriages, yet one may find it difficult to harshly judge him while reading this book. Mr. Charles Jr. does not glorify his father, either. And he certainly does not write in a way that is disrespectful to his mother. Just the opposite--he sees his mother as an astoundingly strong woman, who held the family together, took exceptional care of her three sons, and taught them good values. There are some really nice childhood memories in "You Don't Know Me", just as there are some harrowing ones. But the nice ones seem to prevail, and it was really interesting, touching, and downright fun to read them. There's more sadness towards the end of the book . . . but life and love goes on . . . especially the love of a son for his father.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Outstanding - I Could Read it Again -- And That's Saying Alot, July 24, 2010
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You Don't Know Me offers a wonderful, courageous yet shocking glimpse into the behind-the-scenes life of Ray Charles Robinson, Jr. It describes in great detail what life was like for Ray, Jr., as one of the children of the prolific and controversial singer, Ray Charles. Mr. Robinson is very honest in his portrayal: he doesn't sugarcoat anything. He reveals things about himself that must've been difficult to do. And he lovingly remembers his father even though the two wasn't on the same page throughout his life. I loved reading about his fond memories of growing up with his family. And I was amazed at some of the heartbreaking moments that his precious mother endured. Now that's one strong woman!! The book was funny in parts, and you will absolutely learn more info about Ray Charles than any other biopic could ever reveal. I would encourage fans of Ray Charles, fans of music artists bios, and people intrigued with the other darker side of Hollywood, to pick up this book, read, enjoy, and learn. It teaches you to embrace life, appreciate the good moments, and cherish and honor our musical artists while we have the chance.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling, July 25, 2010
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"Everybody knows Ray Charles. Well at least we know the songs, Georgia on My Mind, Unchain My Heart, Hit the Road Jack and What I Say. This is the story of the man - all of his unbelievable talent and personal failures - told by his oldest son. Compelling."
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