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Youn Hee & Me

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I applaud C.S. Adler's attempt to explore the phenomenon of American-Korean international adoption, but this work of fiction is disturbingly false. The mother in the story essentially gives her daughter the decision whether or not to adopt Youn Hee, and then the mother praises the daughter's "generosity." Even more disturbing is the lack of a homestudy or social worker to ensure Youn Hee's well-being. The day after Youn Hee arrives, her adoptive mother goes to work, leaving Youn Hee's adoptive sister to look after her. What ethical adoption agency could allow this irresponsible, selfish neglect of a newly adopted child? Also, Youn Hee's mastery of English progresses far too rapidly to be realistic. Where is a translator, someone who can help her adjust to a new language and culture? I was shocked at this inaccurate portrait of a terribly handled adoption. Although the cultural identity issues are addressed, Adler lacks a basic grasp of the international adoption process or an authentic understanding of the adoption experience. The American girl in this book is an understandable character, but she is given far too much responsibility and maturity for such a young child. Please do NOT read this book if you are looking for insight in the adoption experience. However, this book serves as an effective testament to just how much work needs to be done in understanding transracial adoption.

I think this book is pretty good for children. It is about two children adoped from Korea and they had a problem of understanding each other and felt the love of their family. Moreover,it explained different cultures which are American and Korean. Next,they loved their younger brother, but their teaching methods are different from each other and they had a gap. They understand each other and feel like siblings.