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Your Child's Strengths: Discover Them, Develop Them, Use Them [Hardcover]

Jenifer Fox M.Ed.
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February 28, 2008
With this groundbreaking work, educator Jenifer Fox is poised to change the conversation about education in America. For too long, parents and teachers have focused on identifying and "fixing" kids' weaknesses to improve academic performance. Passionately written and informed by Fox's twenty-five years of experience, Your Child's Strengths turns that flawed paradigm on its head. Fox's strengths-based philosophy provides the tools to prepare kids for the future in a world that demands greater adaptability and creative thinking than ever before.Your Child's Strengths will give parents and teachers the tools to discover strengths in three main areas: Activity Strengths, the tasks that make you feel engaged and energized; Relationship Strengths, the things you do for and with others that make you feel valued and competent; and Learning Strengths, the unique ways you approach and understand new information. All three strengths work in tandem.Pairing inspiring firsthand accounts of success with practical workbook tools and an outline of the award-winning Affinities Program Fox has implemented at her own school, this much-needed book is a user-friendly guide for parents, teachers, and administrators that will improve individual performance and an indispensable road map for young people and society to a future that plays to strengths.
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Fox, head of a girl's boarding school in New Jersey, writes about a strengths-based curriculum she developed and implemented with great success. She not only presents a workbook that can be utilized by educators and parents, but also offers a convincing argument in favor of over-turning outdated curriculums and teaching methods. Instead of focusing on weaknesses, Fox submits that children do far better when the focus is on their strengths. Childhood is for "creative dreaming," not preparation for standardized tests. Fox identifies three types of strengths: activity, learning and relationship strengths, and helps parents guide their children toward self-discovery, explaining that true strengths include not only what a child is good at, but what she enjoys and makes her feel strong. The book is written in a lively and engaging style, and sprinkled with anecdotes from Fox's teaching life and her own experiences as a student who was frustrated and uncomfortable in a traditional school setting. Clearly, writing is one of Fox's strengths, as is her inspiring passion for helping kids lead meaningful lives.
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“Brilliant, innovative, enormously practical . . . this book could change the world.”
—Edward Hallowell, M.D., author of Driven to Distraction

“Jenifer Fox has extraordinary insight into the minds of young people and an unshakable belief in their potential. . . . This is one program that the schools must have.”
—Marcus Buckingham, from the Foreword --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 368 pages
  • Publisher: Viking Adult (February 28, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0670018767
  • ISBN-13: 978-0670018765
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.2 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (19 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #530,085 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Jenifer Fox, M-Ed is the author of the book, Your Child's Strengths and the award-winning, groundbreaking strengths-based curriculum, The Affinities Program.

With 25 years of experience as a teacher and an administrator in a wide variety of pre-collegiate settings: public and independent schools, day and boarding schools, religiously affiliated, single-sexed and special needs schools, international and American schools, Jenifer Fox has set out to lead The Strengths Movement in Schools, an international educational movement aimed at transforming the K-12 system from one that focuses on the deficits and weaknesses of children to one that celebrates strengths.
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A struggling student in high school, Jenifer overcame her challenges through devoting her energies to discovering her strengths. She holds an undergraduate degree from the University of Wisconsin- Madison and two masters degrees: an MA from Middlebury College's Bread Loaf School of English and an M-Ed from Harvard University.

Ms. Fox has written numerous articles and presented workshops throughout the country on the topic of school reform, teaching struggling students, parenting, and building on strengths to realize human potential. Jenifer's experience as an actor and a writer make her an engaging and compelling storyteller and speaker.

Born and raised in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Jenifer has lived in Denver, San Francisco's East Bay, the west coast of Florida and in the New York metropolitan area. As an independent school administrator her specialty is in 'turn-around' businesses where she is able to leverage the strengths of an organization to change it from an institution in a struggling weakened state to one that thrives both culturally and financially on its strengths.

Jenifer lives in New Jersey with her husband and two dogs.

In 2006, I traveled with business consultant Marcus Buckingham on his Go Put Your Strengths to Work tour. I was the educational expert on the tour, spreading the word about how strengths can help all kids be successful in school. I am the President of the Purnell School, www.purnell.org, the first strength-based high school in the USA. I have written my own book, "Your Child's Strengths, Discover Them, Develop Them, Use Them." This book will give you many practical ideas about how to apply strengths in your home and with your children.

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4.6 out of 5 stars
This book is highly recommended for anyone who loves a child. Dennis DeWilde  |  10 reviewers made a similar statement
It is an easy read filled with valuable advice. John L. Carter Jr.  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
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25 of 25 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, misleading feature page February 11, 2010
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
I love this book. This is the refreshing voice that we need leading the way of reform for education for our children. One of the perspectives that I really appreciate is that we are making a mistake in assuming that learning differences are an issue for the child only. It is very often a mismatch of environment and learning style that create the struggle.
On a different note, Amazon has this book listed as frequently bought with Your Child's Strengths: Discover Them, Develop Them, and Use Them. These are the same book, one in hardcover, one in paperback. I have contacted Amazon several times to get them to clear up the confusion on the listing but have not yet seen results. I purchased both books at their recommendation and want to help others avoid the same duplication.
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22 of 24 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Your Child's Strengths by Jenifer Fox July 15, 2008
Format:Hardcover
What an excellent book for parents, educators, and just about everyone else too. "Your Child's Strengths" by Jenifer Fox is a well-structured, logical, and methodical plan for bringing out the best in children, while inculcating resiliance and responsibility to help them face the ups and downs ahead of them.

Fox uses well thought-out plans, exercises, and examples to help her target audience learn how to re-focus their senses to work WITH children rather than trying to work ON children. Her approach is designed to assist the parent or educator in acting as a guide to the child who discovers their own strengths. I'm sure anyone who has ever had or worked with a child can verify that truths which come from within are much more powerful and have much more staying power than those others 'teach' TO us. Learning to recognize your own strengths vice talents can be compared to recognizing small epiphanies that occur in your life when you are happy, pleased, and self-confident. In this respect, the book is a manual for recognizing personal strengths in ourselves as well as enabling our children to learn to recognize and work with their strengths.
Fox is careful to explain the both the concepts behind this strategy and the actions needed to carry it out. The first part of the book explains the reasoning and successes of this method. The second portion provides descriptions and examples for recognizing strengths and how to delve deeper than mere words by utilizing all our senses to pick up what children can't or won't say. The final chapters are literally a textbook with exercises, suggestions, and charts each reader can use.

Even the appendices have structure and use as they detail lists and writings to implement this process individually, in the family, in groups, and grade-by-grade in schools. There are also success stories and contacts available for readers.

As both a mother and an educator, I'm very encouraged after reading "Your Child's Strengths". Both parents looking for guidance and educators screaming for help (although maybe I should phrase that the other way around!) can use the truths laid out so diligently in Jenifer Fox's book to combat the negativity so prevalent around us and infecting our children. I'll certainly be recommending it to my fellow educators and close friends. After all, with so much to learn the target audience need not be restricted to parents and educators. Personal growth is not, and should not be, only a childhood experience.
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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
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Jenifer Fox's stories are SO interesting and enlightening...pick up the book and randomly read and you'll find fascinating, easy to understand real-life parables.

As Fox says, "Simply put, strengths are tasks you do that make you feel energized, empowered and strong. Strengths do not neccessarily turn into talents thru practice. They exist well beyond what you like to do or have a preference for...when strengths are tied to interests or affininties, children can develop skills because they are inclined to practice longer....

"Strengths allow "flow" --the act of being so absorbed in an activity that you lose your sense of time and place. Talent and skill have the opportunity to develop to their greatest potential when a person is in a state of flow...you need to understand what your (true) strengths are and develop them."

It has a workbook w/ questions to guide you to "epiphanies" of understanding. Even such things as household tasks you hate vs. those you actually enjoy.

Applied: i.e., I thought I hated housework, but I don't really. I just hate cleaning bathrooms, organizing paper. But for some reason I enjoy laundry! And making beds! (so much payoff for such little effort)...but I hate bill paying, doing the taxes (dreaded paperwork). Yet I LOVE emailing/writing doing book reviews on Amazon. Meanwhile, my husband loves cooking...and my distractable daughter who is terrible at "chores" happily makes beautiful, elaborate salads for dinner.
Why have I not been valuing that and trading that task for bed-making/laundry? It IS a fair trade that can make us both feel happy/empowered.

The book will help you recognize/discover, not just your child's strengths, but your own, your spouse's at home and in the workplace.

For me, it explained why after so many different jobs in 20 years, I finally found my "flow" at the last one where the vast majority of the day I spent playing to my strengths (writing, editing, graphic/text formatting, reading interesting stuff, interviewing interesting people, listening to interesting talking heads' observations/ideas/beliefs, emailing, researching online) and very little time doing the things I'm so very bad at (organizing paperwork, public speaking, politicking, being "succinct" :)

Fox's book explains why things go so much smoother when our family is dividing labor according to our strengths not by "shoulds". When our work tasks match our strengths, we happily work long hours without looking at the clock, we're in a "flow-state." (I'm in flow as I enthusiastically write this book review).

For me, an amazing discovery from her book: grocery shopping is a "strength" for me. My son, who has autism and is the reason I picked up the book in the first place, is on a difficult diet (no dairy/wheat). I must read all food labels. I can hardly go to grocery store w/out spending 2 hrs there! I always thought this was a big weakness.(WHY does it take me so long to shop??! I beat myself up.) Now I realize it
is actually a strength. It is so liberating to value something I once thought was a weakness. I actually love reading labels and rejecting all foods with partially hydrogenated oils/high fructose corn syrup that are bad for his little brain ...I feel like careful food-shopping is a gift I'm giving my whole family by providing healthy foods...it is no longer a "waste" of my time that I can't shop as fast as my husband or friends. Not only is it ok. It is a strength!

I'm buying this book --originally I got it from the library--to share with friends at a weeklong ski reunion we have planned. I want to spread it's great suggestions and because it suggests doing exercises w/ a buddy to discover both your strengths. I hope the "strengths movement", as Fox calls it, catches on. As I heard Magic Johnson say in an interview on his new book, "We shouldn't waste a lot of time perfecting our weaknesses... we should find other people (hire or negotiate w/ other family members, friends, coworkers) to get those tasks done and offer up our own strengths to help them."
When we play to our strengths--our children's strengths, our spouse's strengths--we're all happier, more successful, empowered, energized.

A lot of people are job-hunting right now, the book offers great advice for the laid off, for stay at home moms reentering workforce, for parents leaving the workforce to stay at home. You all now have opportunity to change your career to a better match. No more wasting time applying for jobs that don't play to your strengths.

Fox is a principal at a girls boarding school but she notes that these concepts are working w/ businesses too. She shares the roots of her understanding w/ her personal story of how she almost failed H.S. b/c she couldn't "get" algebra...yet went on to an extremely successful career based on the encouragement of ONE teacher who recognized her creativity/insight (strengths!) in FIRST grade and inspired her to build on that....in face of her great failures in math. That one teacher's recognition sustained her and spurred her on to great success...we all have that teacher to thank for this book.

Last anecdote: Fox explains how a "weakness" of hers (inability to look people in the eye at the same time she is listening) almost underminded a strength (being a great listener!) until she EXPLAINED to parents/coworkers/family members who thought she wasn't listening that looking away was the only way she could concentrate on LISTENING. This revelation was late in coming, but came to her when she realized her own father WAS listening to her, even as he looked away from her, as she told him a long story. She was feeling dissed that HE wasn't looking into HER eyes until later she realized she does the same thing. And he WAS listening to every word. Fascinating stories by an astute student of human nature.

Read this book. It will help you spread JOY, EMPOWERMENT, ENERGY to people you care about...and you'll find yourself being more patient in dealing with other's (and your own) weaknesses ... appreciating the strengths you have in your life that help you to get around your weakenesses.
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