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Product Details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Back Bay Books (January 5, 2016)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0316286702
  • ISBN-13: 978-0316286701
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.9 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (68 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #113,699 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Fans of word-of-mouth bestseller Love, Nina: A Nanny Writes Home (and I count myself among them) will no doubt love this novel by Nina Stibbe so I know I'm swimming against the tide here when I say I didn't. I found it twee. It is narrated by 10-year old Lizzie who veers - as you'd expect from a bright youngster - between knowing and naïve. Here, Stibbe's distinctive voice, so appealing in Love Nina, is trying just that little bit too hard.

The book opens with Mrs Vogel and her three children moving to an unwelcoming Leicestershire village after the desertion of Mr Vogel. Lizzie and her 11-year old sister put the villagers' frostiness down to their mother's divorced status and resolve to find her a new husband to 'take the helm'.

The author clearly wishes to portray Mrs Vogel as fey and whimsy when in fact she is nothing of the sort; she is one of the most dangerously irresponsible mothers I have ever come across in fiction. Addicted to whisky and sedatives, falling for unsuitable men, slovenly in the extreme, financially reckless, she fails on every level to look after her three children.

When the youngest (seven) gets lost at a fairground while he is in the care of his older sisters, the mother's lack of concern really becomes intolerable. I didn't know whether to find this character merely unbelievable or bordering on barking mad; either way I couldn't cope with her maternal negligence. Whilst the children appear to be resilient, I felt too sorry for them to enjoy this book though I did like how it ended.
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I heard the author, Nine Stibbe on NPR and hoped the book would be as entertaining as the interview with the author --- and it was! Very funny and a worthy read. I have already told most of my friends to read it!
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At first I thought I was reading an updated I Capture the Castle, and in a way I guess I was-charming children who try to rescue their drifting, unhappy parents. But this book is funnier and (to me) much more touching. Other readers have mentioned that having been a single mother during the 70s gives an extra resonance to the misadventures of the characters. I was one, and it does. But the pleasure I got from the book was because of the excellent writing and the very funny and compelling story.
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Readers who aren't current with British slang and idioms will be just as confused as I was reading this book. I don't think the author had an American audience in mind at all, but some judicious editing or footnotes would have helped a lot. The humor in this book is derived from the desperation of two adolescent sisters trying to find a new husband for their divorced mother, who is an emotional mess. I didn't find that a particularly funny premise and I felt sad more than amused as I read the book.
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When I read the blurb for this book I was super excited to read it, I really thought I was on to a winner with this book. I was expecting to be laughing out loud and smiling all the way through it. Instead I was groaning with boredom and wanting it all to end quickly and painlessly. Needless to say I felt this book was a real letdown.

So little Lizzie and her siblings move to a small village, you know the ones, where everyone knows your business? Their mother gains a reputation simply by being divorced (shock horror) but also because she is a bit, ahem, well....friendly to many local chaps, come in for a cup of coffee and stay the night type of thing.

The book is told purely from Lizzie's perspective, I found this got very boring after a while. The characters have no opportunity to shine either, I found them all very flat and one dimensional. This book should have been amazing, but it just wasn't.

The two sisters take it upon themselves to write a list of potential new suitors for the role of "Man at the Helm" or in other words, a man for their mother to help the family claw back some reputation and make their mother happy. They also take it upon themselves to set up some meetings between their mother and the suitors, which does have some lightly funny moments amongst it on the way.

There are some nice moments, even a few slightly funny moments in the book, but not enough to salvage it. By the middle of the book it was just dragging on with a load of waffle and minor events that I was nearly asleep reading it. I don't think I would have missed much.
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As a quirky divorcee myself in a small town during the 70's, I loved it. It was a bit hard to hold on to in the middle because the mother seemed hopeless, but she eventually comes through.
It was odd being divorced then. While everyone was celebrating the new sexual liberation of the times, it really didn't apply to mothers.
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I liked this book. It was witty, funny, provoking, poignant (oh, I hate that word.) and very profane. The profane part is what bothered me the most.
The story is related though the eyes on an eleven-year-old. It is jarring to her her flippantly use cursing and refer to her mother's sexual and drug episodes. It seemed very unnatural and well beyond the ken of that age child in the 1970's. It made the story seem less believable and added such a jaded edge to the novel.
So, what would have been a five star review, fell to a three. Add five years to the child's age and I might have believed the tale.
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