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Mary Cappello's Called Back shimmers on the page. Ezra Pound said a writer has to ‘make it new’ and Cappello has done that rare feat. Cancer books have become a genre that nobody wants to read, except this book. Read this book. Called Back is exquisite.”—Patty Dann author of  Mermaids, and of The Goldfish Went on Vacation: A Memoir of Loss (and Learning to Tell the Truth About It)

“There is no scarier moment than when the doctor looks at his feet, clears his throat, and mutters that you have cancer. The earth opens under you. After a while, most patients summon a remarkable courage to confront the relentless disease and the rugged cures. But few have summoned the clear-eyed, large-hearted intelligence that Mary Cappello has to describe the experience in harrowing, redemptive detail. With precision, passion, wit, and a poet’s eye for the incongruous and devastating—that is to say, the humanshe has written a book that will open your eyes and touch your heart…Called Back is an astonishing literary achievement.”—J.D. McClatchy, editor of The Yale Review, author of Mercury Dressing

“The momentum of Called Back…derives from [Mary Cappello’s] extraordinarily capacious mind: her intelligence, wit, and emotional candor; the clarity and alertness of her train of thought; the restlessness of her style… Cappello makes stunning connections between literature, art, her life, medicine, cancer. A brilliant book.”—David Shields, author of The Thing About Life is One Day You’ll Be Dead, and Reality Hunger

“I loved being offered the companionship of Cappello’s feeling mind… I loved her insistence on taking everything in, not rushing to be ‘healed’ before experience registers. I loved the precision and passion with which this book about facing mortality attends to the particulars of being alive—both in the body and in language.”—Jan Clausen author of  If You Like Difficulty, and From a Glass House, and Apples and Oranges: My Journey through Sexual Identity

In her intensely personal and insightful memoir, Mary Cappello wonders aloud for us what breast cancer awareness really makes us aware of, and responds as if for the first time to the deceivingly simple command: “tell me what you’re feeling.” Unable to eat on chemotherapy, Cappello feasts on the paintings of Marsden Hartley, yearns in the tradition of Emily Dickinson and Gertrude Stein, keeps company with Marcel Proust, and lets queer artists tease her back to life. Called Back looks through the lens of cancer to discover—often with humor—new truths about intimacy and essential solitude, eroticism, the fact of the body, and the impossibility of turning away.

Mary Cappello is the author of two previous books of literary nonfiction, Night Bloom and Awkward: A Detour, a Los Angeles Times bestseller. Her essays and experimental prose appear in such places as The Georgia Review, Salmagundi, Southwest Review, and American Letters and Commentary, and they have been awarded the Bechtel Prize for Educating the Imagination from Teachers and Writers Collaborative, the Lange-Taylor Prize from Duke University’s Center for Documentary Studies, and Notable Essay of the Year citations in The Best American Essays. A former Fulbright Lecturer at the Gorky Literary Institute in Moscow, Russia, Cappello is a professor of English and Creative Writing at the University of Rhode Island.

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Mary Cappello is the author of two previous books of literary nonfiction, Night Bloom and Awkward: A Detour, a Los Angeles Times bestseller. Her essays and experimental prose appear in such places as The Georgia Review, Salmagundi, Southwest Review, and A

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  • Paperback: 220 pages
  • Publisher: Alyson Books (October 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1593501501
  • ISBN-13: 978-1593501501
  • Product Dimensions: 7.9 x 5.2 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars "Tell me what you're feeling." So she does --- in remarkable detail and clarity, October 6, 2009
I have read my share of cancer memoirs, and I'm quite sure I have never encountered a woman whose reaction to the diagnosis of breast cancer --- a friend's, not even hers --- is this:

"I responded in that selfishly aggressive way that each of us has at least a touch of. I flung myself on the bed and...and commanded Jean to...have her way with me, to do what she would with me....to return me to myself by way of the erotic."

Mary Cappello, just as an FYI, is not some attention-seeker using "Called Back" to call attention to her gay status or to shock and tease. She's a noted author and professor of English and Creative Writing at the University of Rhode Island. She knows the value of every word.

So imagine what it was like when she got the word that she had breast cancer.

First, the attention to language.

"It's concerning," says the ultrasound technician, explaining why Cappello needs a biopsy. A few pages later, the professor weighs in: "Words...cast shadows." And later again, she'll ask: "What does breast cancer awareness really make anyone aware of?"

Well, in her case, it's mostly interior, it's about consciousness: memories of a friend who had a small lump and is now dead, considerations of the breast as a milk machine and as "a WATS line to the clitoris," free-association to Gertrude Stein's remark about roses, and, not least, a fierce attention to interior logic ("A person's cancer is new to her but not new to itself").

But not totally interior --- this is also a story about radiation ("fighting fire with fire"), told with no hurry to get to the end. That sounds odd; the book is 200 pages, it's a brisk read. What I mean --- what she means --- is that she wants to feel every moment, to live it fully, to drain it of meaning before moving on.

Mary Cappello is certainly the most literate woman to write about her illness. Before surgery, she reads Proust in the hospital; he doesn't require rapt attention. Her lover's profile reminds her of "a medieval prince."

But don't be fooled. She may be learned. She may be gay. But her emotions and thoughts seem universal --- just a lot more accessible than we're used to.

There's a terrific story about a farmstand near the New England cabin that is the country retreat for Cappello and her partner. It's adorned with American flags. The proprietor wears U.S. Marines T-shirts. Late one afternoon, he corners Cappabello and her lover. He has a question: "Was it hard to come out to your families?" And he has a reason for asking it, which I won't spoil here, except to say --- it's hard to know, really know, about other people.

About the title: "Called back" were Emily Dickinson's last words. And the words carved on her tombstone. For Mary Cappello, who is now cancer-free, they're the last words on her illness. And a very powerful title for an extraordinary book.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars calling back, October 3, 2009
In "Called Back," Mary Cappello does us the favor of resisting the sappy pink-ribbon sentimentality and jaded battle metaphors of cancer lore; instead she brings a whole new language to the experience of the disease, the response, the treatment, the ongoing life of a cancer patient. Cappello is both a keen observer of the details of her own passage and a poet in her exposition of that passage. Deeply intimate and relentlessly honest, she takes us inside an experience that we all fear--not to do anything as mundane and perhaps useless as to "reassure," but to show us how it is mundane; to show where cancer intersects and overlaps with life. There is nothing of the "usual" in this account, but there is much we need to know.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Reacting to Cancer, August 30, 2009
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Capello, Mary. "Called Back: My Reply to Cancer, My Return to Life", Alyson Books, 2009.
Reacting to Breast Cancer
Amos Lassen
I imagine that the most frightful moment that a person can have is when the doctor tells him that he has cancer. I am sure that there are those that are ready to fight the disease the moment they get the news but I doubt that there are many like Mary Capello who summoned remarkable courage and decided that she would write about the experience so that we could share it with her. Her descriptions are full of detail that is, at time, harrowing.
This is quite naturally not an easy book to read and this is not just because of the nature of cancer but because Capello so wins us over that we feel especially close to her. If it were not for that and the beautiful writing I would not have been able to get through this book. It is intelligent and emotional and it tells us a lot about breast cancer. We enter Capello's mind and we hear her thoughts and we share them.
The book is more than a memoir it is an exercise in victory over a terrible and fatal disease and a tale of redemption. Unfortunately you will have to wait until October when it will be published. It puts cancer under a lens and we see the truths about the diseases. What is surprising is that some of the truths are erotic and sensual while others are loneliness and solitude.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Georgeous and purposeful
"Called Back" is a georgeous book, and I don't mean just the beautiful x-ray photograph on the cover. The book aims to talk about cancer differently and succeeds. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Megan Sullivan

5.0 out of 5 stars Bold and beautiful
I attended a reading given by the author in Philadelphia. I had no idea what a "cancer" memoir would be like. Read more
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Can you think and feel? Can you think and feel in the face of one of the most dreaded diagnoses a woman imagines? Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Calling Us Forward
Regardless if you're a patient or a poet, a doctor, a nurse, a caregiver, a reader, or a loved one, Called Back asks us to look not only into our lives, but out to something much... Read more
Published 5 months ago by Sara A. Greenslit

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