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The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules: The Handbook of Not-So-Obvious Social Guidelines for Tweens and Teens with Asperger Syndrome Paperback – October 4, 2013

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  • Paperback: 280 pages
  • Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers; 1 edition (October 15, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1849059152
  • ISBN-13: 978-1849059152
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.6 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (118 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #6,808 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 starsBest "how to" book for an Aspie kid!
By Paula M. Elsener on December 28, 2012
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Of all the books about Asperger's that I own, this is the only one with "how to" information for the child. I bought this book a couple of months ago for my 11 year old son who has Asperger's. We read one chapter together each night and both learn from it. We even reference it when he comes home from school after a "bad day" and look up how he could have handled the situation differently. I would recommend this book to any one who has an asperger child in the pre-teen to tween age.
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5.0 out of 5 starsGreat book not just for our Aspie kids, but any child with social struggles
By Carolyn K. of Hoagies' Gifted Education Page on May 23, 2013
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At first glance, this book looks terrific for kids with Aspergers, but also for any kids, including gifted kids, who need a little help understanding the social expectations of life.

Here's what one parent of a gifted child who also struggles socially has to say...

"The Asperkid's Secret Book of Social Rules" is like the answer to my prayers. My son has not been diagnosed as Asperger's, and he lacks some key characteristics, but this book is EXACTLY the book I've wished existed for helping him navigate social situations, etc. It is direct, funny and easy to read and doesn't "sugar coat" the dynamics of tweens and teens. I am giving it to him this afternoon and will report back, but if you haven't seen this book and have a kid that struggles with how to "fit in" or exhibits behaviors that make you say "WHAT makes him think that was a good idea to do/say!?!" it's worth checking out!

Thanks to the parents of Hoagies' Gifted Education Page for this great review, and for convincing me that I need a copy of this book, too!
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5.0 out of 5 starsA Book for Asperkid Teens, Tweens & honestly, Aspies & Caregivers of ALL ages!
By Karen on September 16, 2012
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I was honored to have the opportunity to read an advance copy of the book.

Not only is The Asperkid's Secret Book of Social Rules a book for Asperkid teens and tweens, it is also a book for their parents, caregivers and for anyone who grew up Aspie and wants to understand themselves and the world around them better. Being undiagnosed until in my 40s, this is the book I wish I had when I was a teenager. Thank you Jennifer, for not only making these social rules no longer 'secret' but for helping create a social survival guide that helps promote acceptance, enrichment, inspiration and empowerment for Asperkids everywhere!
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5.0 out of 5 starsThe way...
By Mark West on October 1, 2012
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Thanks to Jennifer Cook O'Toole for showing us the way through social situations. As a mom of a son on the spectrum, I benefit from her insight and graceful guidance. I loved her real world examples and beautiful storytelling ability. She made me feel like she truly understands what my son must go through. She is an incredible advocate and a positive voice for Aspies everywhere.
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5.0 out of 5 starsGreat resource for working with children in a therapeutic setting
By Anna on February 28, 2013
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I am a therapist working with children and I have found that this resource is excellent for working with teens and tweens in a way that is non-threatening. I have found that the children really enjoy looking through the book and can identify with the issues raised, which is saying something.
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5.0 out of 5 starsAn outstanding universal translator for Aspies and neurotypicals.
By Rebecca on September 27, 2012
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This book is the most amazing, in-depth, encyclopaedia of social interaction must-knows. Although aimed at those with Asperger's, it is a brilliant way for the neurotypicals in their lives to understand them better too. A fun and immensely engaging way to learn to stand in each other's shoes. It could also stand as a general, modern etiquette book. Just fantastic. This will be a wonderful book to share with my 'Asperkid' son and my neurotypical daughter. This book will be a friend for life.
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5.0 out of 5 starsspoke to my asperkid
By Jennifer Ward on April 18, 2013
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This book is fantastic! It is written from a woman who has aspergers and she just gets it because she was and is there. My 11 yr old son could relate to a lot of stuff she was talking about and it is written so he understands the language.
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5.0 out of 5 starsClear, concise, extremely helpful
By Janet V on June 3, 2014
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Like every parent of an Aspie child, I have a ton of books, but I purchased this one because of a particular topic....and then the rest of the book is excellent as well. The topic was expressing thanks. My Aspie daughter has an Aspie friend who never says thank you, not for meals, sleepovers, rides....I never understood WHY until I read this book. For anybody who regularly interacts with Aspies, or who is an Aspie, this book is a treasure, written by an Aspie mom of three Aspie kids....so yes it's understandable! No clinic-speak, just hopeful and helpful words from the heart. Highly recommended.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5 starsAll middle schoolers should read this book!!

Every middle schooler should read this, not just kids on the autism spectrum. This book is a gem!!

Published 2 days ago by Bobbi Sheahan
5.0 out of 5 starsFive Stars

My 12 year old Aspie really liked it.

Published 1 month ago by Miriam Cook
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my daughter loves these books.

Published 1 month ago by Brandon M Cave
5.0 out of 5 starsGreat

My son has Asperger's and both he and I found this book to be very helpful. If you have a child with any form of Autism. this book is something you should get.

Published 1 month ago by Kerry
5.0 out of 5 starsAwesome book for someone with Aspergers or someone close

Awesome book for someone with Aspergers or someone close. Especially when the child is growing up. So many insights that would have helped with my daughter as she grew up.

Published 2 months ago by Peggy S
4.0 out of 5 starsRevised

My son is the one who read this, and originally he didn't have many encouraging things to say. After seeing the response on his words from the author, I decided to flip through it... Read more

Published 2 months ago by K. Hatch
5.0 out of 5 starsgreat book. Easy easy

get this book if you have a kid with aspergers, know someone with aspergers or want someone else to understand where aspergers kids are coming from.... great book. Easy easy read

Published 3 months ago by T Nini
5.0 out of 5 starsFive Stars

my son loves this book and it helped him to not feel so different

Published 3 months ago by SassyJin
4.0 out of 5 starsFour Stars

Great book!

Published 3 months ago by MBT204
3.0 out of 5 starsShould not be on Autism scale

If I agreed with anyone it would be the mom who said the book was good for any child who was "different". She said it had helpful things for her gifted child. Read more

Published 4 months ago by D. Poole

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