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Mutual Appreciation (2005)

Director: Andrew Bujalski Rating: R (Restricted) Format: DVD
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  • Directors: Andrew Bujalski
  • Writers: Andrew Bujalski
  • Format: Black & White, DVD, Full Screen, Widescreen, NTSC
  • Language: English (Dolby Digital 1.0)
  • Region: Region 1 (U.S. and Canada only. Read more about DVD formats.)
  • Aspect Ratio: 1.33:1
  • Number of discs: 1
  • Rating: R (Restricted)
  • Studio: Goodbye Cruel Releasing
  • DVD Release Date: February 13, 2007
  • Run Time: 108 minutes
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • ASIN: B000KF0DF2
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #48,663 in Movies & TV (See Bestsellers in Movies & TV)
  • For more information about "Mutual Appreciation" visit the Internet Movie Database (IMDb)

Special Features

  • An original short written and directed by Andrew Bujalski: Peoples House
  • Interjections and Observations from the Parents of the Cast and Crew
  • A Film Festival Dispatch in the Form of a Children’s Book
  • Alternate trailer and movie posters

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Alan's quest for success in music and love is hampered by one thing-- himself. Centering on Alan's half-hearted romancing of radio DJ Sara and promoting his fledgling band, Mutual Appreciation is less a love story than an insightful and hilarious portrayal of the art of awkwardness. Andrew Bujalski, voted "Someone to Watch" at the 2004 Independent Spirit Awards and writer-director of critically acclaimed Funny Ha Ha, slinks through New York City bars, clubs and teeny apartments in this exploration of the gray areas between expectation, disappointment and desire that accompany adulthood. An indie festival favorite, Mutual Appreciation is a cleverly written, utterly timeless snapshot of post-college angst.

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Painfully funny and awkwardly beautiful -- independent cinema at its very best, November 27, 2007
Alan (real life indie rock star Justin Rice of Bishop Allen) and Ellie sit awkwardly next to one another on his bed. The trouble is that there is palpable chemistry between them, a chemistry that is absent in her relationship with her boyfriend Lawrence, who also happens to be Alan's best friend.
"This feels like ninth grade math class," she says and he doesn't get it but goes along anyway.
"Yeah I guess this reminds me of math class too," in his always slightly bemused tone.
What she means to say is that you have these lines that converge, but never quite reach.
"Asymptotes," he says, "A - symp - totes." She says that's what they are like, those converging lines.
"Yeah," he smiles, "I guess I got that part."

Lines that never quite converge, trajectories that are never quite fulfilled, people who can never quite say what they mean because it would presume too much, would solidify commitments and presume conventions that none feel they can fully and unironically endorse. In spite of the apparent improvisational feel of Andrew Bujalski's brilliant sophomore film, there is a geometrical motif that runs throughout the film and that helps to lend it a coherence that holds up to repeated viewings. The film opens on two parallel lines, the bodies of Alan and Emmie as they lie down and speak of nothing much on the futon bed that Emmie shares with Lawrence in his apartment. Lawrence arrives and deliberately superimposes himself between them, saying nothing but suggesting a premonition of their asymptotic convergence. The love triangle, which is only belatedly and barely acknowledged by any of them, becomes a circle in the end.

This is a brilliant film, easily the equal in terms of originality and honesty and power of revelation as any of the great indie masterpieces like Stranger than Paradise or Sex, Lies and Videotape or even works by Cassavettes -- in fact it is the raw and improvisational feel of Cassavettes' work that this film resembles most. I think, in many ways, it is a funnier and more spontaneous film than any of these others. At the same time -- and this is true of Cassavettes' work as well -- the appearance of an improvisational and spontaneous approach is the result of a great deal of forethought and planning and careful scripting. Bujalski builds his stories around real life characters and real life conversational styles, but it is modified and tailored carefully.

There are a number of features of this film in particular that indicate this care and attention to detail. The film is shot in rich black and white 16mm film -- and has a texture and range of tonality that you don't see in indie projects shot on video. While it has a documentary feel, with a slightly shaky camera -- the framing is clearly thought out very carefully, and every scene is composed to convey a specific meaning (like the geometrical shots referred to above). There is a very intriguing scene in which Alan and Emmie are in a cafe talking, again about nothing much, but circling around questions that would imply a growing intimacy -- and Emmie's friend shows up and stands between them. The camera shows him arriving but after that (and until he begins to leave) always insistently frames only either Emmie on his left side or Alan on his right excluding the new arrival and shows them reacting to what he says by looking to see how each other is reacting. What is remarkable about this film is that it has such a careful and deliberate structure that feels casual and improvisational -- at least on the first viewing.

One thing Bujalski almost never does is present his characters when they are "on their game," or when they are putting on their professional personas. There are times when we don't speak like these characters do, when we don't hesitate or pause awkwardly -- it is when we know what we are about, when we have a specific agenda and we are clear about our motives or when we are performing a task we understand. Certainly the characters in this film have such moments, and in most films these are the only moments we see of characters -- the classical style of film involves cutting out or eliding all the awkward pauses and focusing on moving the action forward, having every moment be decisive. But Bujalski is not interested in such moments, when we are polished and we have planned out what to say -- and are, effectively, hiding our insecurities and awkwardness behind a mask. He looks to the moments that bring out insecurities, and uncertainties, when one doesn't quite know what to say or do -- and also to the moments when, with friends and lovers, his characters can led their guards down and be dumb and boring and weird and awkward, and he tells his story by connecting together a series of just such moments into a whole whose coherence only appears gradually.

The exception in this film is notable: when Alan goes on stage and begins to sing and play he is in his element, he is confident and shining and having fun, and sounds very good (once again: Alan's character is played by the lead singer of the very fine band Bishop Allen and all of the music is theirs). It is important to the story to show that these characters, who don't quite know what to do with their lives and are insecure in their loves and in their words are not incompetent or lazy or untalented. Alan, who may be the least stable of the three, is a drifter by choice, but an artist by vocation -- his pursuit of music is a drive that he can't let go of without losing something of himself. He dreams of a kind of ideal society, something like the artistic community he believes he is finding in NYC, in which artists could sort of just come together and support one another in their various projects and not let mundane things like commitments and economics get in the way. That is, of course, unrealistic, as Lawrence suggests and as Alan's father never ceases to insist. Still it is a good fantasy, a vision of mutual appreciation, a celebration of both individuality and collaboration. A very fine film.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars I'm emo for MA, February 13, 2007
I love this movie! Very happy to get the DVD! This is definitely a film that deserves repeat viewings.

For those that didn't "get" the film, my guess is that their reaction stems from what I found to be quite new and progressive: the film's noticeable lack of surface emotion and heightened drama. By "surface," I mean "obvious"; and by "heigthened," I mean "manufactured." The lack of surface emotion (there's plenty of emotion beneath the characters' faces and between the lines if you follow closely) is more than some self-imposed indie style; it is central to part of what the movie's about for me -- it would be the very "manners" that this comedy of manners sharply observes. There's a self-consciousness attached to the characters' emotions, preventing them from being openly expressed. Any statements of meaning or confessions of feeling are slyly dropped and hidden inside larger conversations of...things like cancer moles or math rock or Pete Seeger. The emotions are expressed from a protective distance, abstracted with silly metaphors like asymptotes; in fact, many of their conversations sound more like meta-conversations. This neurotic self-consciousness - fearing the emasculation of being emo - is perfectly realized in the movie's setpiece: the excruciatingly long after-party, slowly building to the moment the main character is completely emasculated in front of a mirror. It's funny and it's odd and it pulls off the impossible trick of seeming shapeless and rambling and true-to-life, while revealing itself to be a controlled and authored work of art. What other filmmaker today can really claim that?

Ah, I remember the good ol' days when Sundance used to herald new and exciting voices in American indie cinema. Actually, I don't -- I was like 10 or something, doing the Roger Rabbit to C+C Music Factory in my bedroom. It's been a looooong time since Sundance represented true independent film. Bujalski's the clear and bright alternative. You gotta check him out.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Most unique, funny, and memorable film of the year, February 13, 2007
By David S. Mcclafferty (Los Angeles, CA USA) - See all my reviews
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Genuinely funny and humane, plus music that rings true as a bonus. Might change what you think is possible in American indies today.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Mutual Appreciation is, like, Funny Ha Ha.
Andrew Bujalski (Funny Ha Ha) has been compared to John Cassavetes, Maurice Pialat and Mike Leigh, perhaps because he uses a hand-held 16mm camera and mono sound to establish an... Read more
Published 23 months ago by G. Merritt

4.0 out of 5 stars Mumblecore
Apparently, Bujalski is now part of the "Mumblecore" movement. This film along with Funny Ha Ha definitely outshines the movement's other films by Aaron Katz and others. Read more
Published on September 21, 2007 by Olivia Bennett

3.0 out of 5 stars Mildly Interesting But Not Very Entertaining
This movie was like an extended You Tube video! Perhaps you have to be under 25 to really like this movie. Read more
Published on August 12, 2007 by DSMOLEN

1.0 out of 5 stars Awful... Truly Awful
I had to stop watching this after 15 minutes. Poor writing. Poor acting. Poor production values. Truly amateurish cinematography.
Published on August 9, 2007 by William A. Jackson

5.0 out of 5 stars Setting a new standard for naturalism
Andrew Bujalski's films capture something very true and very painful about young adult life, yet in a casual, seemingly offhand way. Read more
Published on June 13, 2007 by John Elias

5.0 out of 5 stars Bujalski

Whenever a film shoots for "realism," it generally opens the door for a predictable set of signifiers: Handheld cameras, real locations, a naturalistic lighting scheme,... Read more
Published on March 18, 2007 by The Ruiz

5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect for the target audience
This movie really resonated with me. Unlike so many films that supposedly depict people of my age interacting, this one was real. Read more
Published on February 20, 2007 by J. Flynn

5.0 out of 5 stars A gem
I really really love this movie. The performances are smart and sweet and feel utterly true. And I admire it as a marvel of actual independant artistry in this corrupt,... Read more
Published on February 18, 2007 by Elizabeth Simon

5.0 out of 5 stars Great indie film
The film had a wallflower quality to it. In fact, I got the sense on many occasions that the method they were employing was to stick a camera in the corner, hit play, get drunk... Read more
Published on February 15, 2007 by Landa

5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant. Must-See. Must-Own.
Brilliant. Definitely one of the best films of the year. Bujalski really hits the nail on the head here with regards to the trials and tribulations of life post-college. Read more
Published on February 13, 2007 by J. McNellis

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