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After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful (Hardcover)

by Janis Abrahms Spring (Author), Michael Spring (Author) "When I was fifteen, I was raped..." (more)
Key Phrases: hurt partner, cognitive block, unfaithful partner, Case Study Keith, Dysfunctional Thought Form, Ethel Spector Person (more...)
4.1 out of 5 stars  (78 customer reviews)


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Editorial Reviews
From Publishers Weekly
For married or cohabiting couples who want to rebuild their relationship after one partner had had an affair, this tough-minded, insightful manual will be eminently practical. Clinical psychologist Spring, writing with her husband, draws on 20 years of experience treating distressed couples as she explains how both the unfaithful partner and the betrayed one can confront their doubts and fears about recommitting, constructively communicate pain and anger, restore trust, renew sexual intimacy and forgive. In jargon-free prose, she urges both partners to probe the deeper meaning of the affair, to explore why it happened and to accept responsibility for it. Recognizing unstated assumptions held by oneself or one's mate is an integral part of this process, and the authors include exercises, concise case studies and checklists of suggestions to guide readers through the difficult task of healing. This wise book fills a gap on the self-help shelf. First serial to Cosmopolitan; available on audiocassette.
Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Book Description
For the 70 percent of couples who have been affected by extramarital affairs, this is the only book to offer proven strategies for surviving the crisis and rebuilding the relationship written by a nationally known therapist considered an expert on infidelity.

When I was 15, I was raped. That was nothing compared to your affair. The rapist was a stranger; you, I thought, were my best friend.

There is nothing quite like the pain and shock caused when a partner has been unfaithful. The hurt partner often experiences a profound loss of self-respect and falls into a depression that can last for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow.

After the Affair is the first book to help readers survive this crisis. Written by a clinical psychologist who has been treating distressed couples for 22 years, it guides both hurt and unfaithful partners through the three stages of healing: Normalizing feelings, deciding whether to recommit and revitalizing the relationship. It provides proven, practical advice to help the couple change their behavior toward each other, cultivate trust and forgiveness and build a healthier, more conscious intimate partnership.

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Product Details
  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Harpercollins (April 1996)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060172363
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060172367
  • Product Dimensions: 9.8 x 6.1 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.4 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  (78 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #508,766 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)
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  • Also Available in: Paperback (1st HarperPerennial Ed) |  Paperback (1) |  Audio CD (Audiobook,Unabridged) |  Audio Cassette (Abridged,Audiobook) |  All Editions