Finding Your Religion: When the Faith You Grew Up With Has Lost Its Meaning (Hardcover)

by Scotty Mclennan (Author) "Donna Radley lost her religion as a teenager..." (more)
Key Phrases: finding your religion, legal ministry, interdependence stage, Nhat Hanh, Mount Sinai, New York (more...)

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Amazon.com Review
Finding Your Religion is a guidebook for the perplexed--those who have lost faith in the religion of their youth and are not sure how to continue their spiritual lives. The book's author, the Rev. Scotty McLennan, has plenty of experience with the perplexed; he is a Unitarian minister and the chaplain at Tufts University. (He has also inspired and entertained millions of people indirectly, as the model for the freewheeling character Reverend Scott Sloan in Garry Trudeau's comic strip Doonesbury.) McLennan has structured Finding Your Religion on a model of six stages of faith--Magic, Reality, Dependence, Interdependence, and Unity. The book describes each of these stages in detail, drawing on McLennan's experience with students' spiritual searches and on his own search (which led him, among other places, to Harvard Law School and to ashrams in the Far East). McLennan's prose is clear and direct; he is very open to exploration, and very tough on laziness. "Pick a religious path and start walking," he writes. "Even if it turns out not to be the right way later on, you won't get anywhere spiritually without starting." --Michael Joseph Gross

From Publishers Weekly
McLennan, the Tufts University Chaplain who inspired Doonesbury cartoonist Garry Trudeau's character Reverend Scotty Sloan, shares six steps of a spiritual journey. McLennan targets those who have left the tradition in which they were raised, or those who grew up without any religious background and are now open to a spiritual dimension in their lives. McLennan points out that most people don't get through all the steps and that, often, the steps can intertwine. He sees all religious journeys, be they Bah '!, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu, Christian or others, as starting with a beckoning of the "spiritual mountain." Readers take the first step by thinking about faith, by opening themselves to the possibilities. The next step is to choose a certain path (religious leanings) and start walking up the mountain. Readers are then encouraged to join fellow travelers of the same bent and, as they grow in that direction, to encompass journeys from other traditions to enrich their own direction. Prayer and meditation, the next step, help mature the inner being. Finally, McLennan speaks of suffering and rejoicing as two important components in any religion and personal spirituality. This is an entertaining, gentle and affirming book for anyone contemplating such a journey. (Dec.)
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Product Details

• Hardcover: 256 pages
• Publisher: HarperOne; 1st edition (November 3, 1999)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0060653477
• ISBN-13: 978-0060653477
• Product Dimensions: 9.2 x 6.1 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (23 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #843,677 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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4.0 out of 5 stars Climbing the Spiritual Mountain, January 10, 2000

By	Dave Kinnear "the Rational Taoist" (Lake Forest, CA USA) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

I had the honor of meeting Scotty (as he prefers to be called) at one of his now famous Chaplain's Table meetings. I was there at the invitation of my daughter to participate in a discussion on relationships. In particular, our father daughter relationship was to be the topic. So I did get to spend a few minutes with Scotty and watch his interaction with the students and faculty members at the table. He is as compassionate, sincere, and full of fun as his book leads us to believe he is. Finding Your Religion is an invaluable resource and a must read for those folks wanting to put more life into his or her spiritual practice as well as for those wanting to branch out and search for a new spiritual path. This well written, easy to read manual on why it's okay to question our childhood religion does not let us off the accountability hook. We are still challenged to live our chosen religion, whatever it may be. There are no simple platitudes or easy ways out for us. Scotty reminds us over and over to live our religion everyday and to be the best we can be, whether that is Jewish, Christian, Bahai, Buddhist, Islamic, Hindu, or Unitarian Universalist. By relating his own story as well as real stories about real people that he has met in his travels, Scotty brings the struggles along our spiritual paths to life. We know we aren't alone in our searching, and we come to understand that it's the journey that counts. We also learn that there are many different spiritual paths we can take, but they all have the same goal - a fuller, richer life for the practitioner. The respect Scotty demonstrates for each individual and each religious path is an attribute all too rare in our world today. There is more than toleration shown here. Scotty shows us the way to truly loving our fellow travelers, regardless of the path they or we choose to get to the top of our spiritual mountain. After reading this book, one should be much more comfortable with being on a personal spiritual quest. But it is also a call to action. Finding Your Religion is a call to really get out there and just do it!

24 of 26 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A Breath of Fresh Air Amid a "GSI - IBI - TSI" Religious Era, July 8, 2004

By	biz_buzz "biz_buzz" (United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Finding Your Religion: When the Faith You Grew Up With Has Lost Its Meaning (Paperback)

"GSI - IBI - TSI": God Says It, I Believe It, That Settles It! The message is crystal clear: when it comes to God and religion, it's my way or the highway. But here's my favorite bumper sticker; it's even more over the top: GOD LOVES YOU WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. Nice, huh? 'My way is the ONLY way: deal with it!'

It's no wonder that so many people are disenfranchised from religion in any and all forms. Enter Scotty McLennan, whose book of encouragement for the reader to "find your religion" is even more relevant now than when it was written. He basically pulls out of the ground the "KEEP OUT" sign the GSI-IBI-TSI crowd has put in front of the "spiritual mountain" that McLennan encourages the reader to climb.

McLennan treats each of the major world religions equally, and as other reviews note he gives each their due. It is precisely this tone of respect -- no, not a wishy-washy "I'm OK, You're OK" perspective, but rather (gasp!) with an open mind -- which draws in the reader. He also makes it clear that learning about other faiths can strengthen one's existing faith - a blasphemous statement in the minds of the GSI-IBI-TSI crowd, but surely a welcome one for those who have either found the religion they were brought up with to have lost its meaning, as well as those turned off by such closed-mindedness, who have never set foot in a place of worship before.

It is important to note that McLennan does not coddle non-believers, but rather acknowledges those who at their point or "stage" in their religious walk consider themselves agnostic or atheistic. His perspective that such people are at a fluid "stage" in their religious life helps open the minds of such people to consider investigating other spiritual paths. The story of the "spiritual experience" of a lifelong Russian atheist may well open some minds. Where the GSI-IBI-TSI crowd would haughtily berate those at such a stage, it is these people who most need a genuine, positive, open minded message that McLennan offers. It is precisely this kind of message that is in increasingly short supply in our society which is increasingly becoming more and more polarized into "us" and "them".

The book is not "deep" by any means, yet McLennan's tone is earnest and engaging, sharing McLennan's own experiences as well as those who found their way "up the path."

For anyone who had long written off religion, this breath of fresh air book is for you. Those in the GSI-IBI-TSI group, the preaching to the choir Lee Strobel books are down the hall ;-)

14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars We're All Travelers on the Spiritual Mountain, March 28, 2006

By	Katie "book worm" (PA , USA) - See all my reviews (TOP 500 REVIEWER)

This review is from: Finding Your Religion: When the Faith You Grew Up With Has Lost Its Meaning (Paperback)

WOW - I found this to be a very thought-provoking, insightful, interesting read! The author writes in a wonderful, non-judgmental way, and because of this I was drawn into it from the start.

I actually purchased this book to help out a friend who is looking for "the right religion for her" - since she doesn't care for reading right now, I thought I'd share snippets from the book with her to see if it would help to point her in the right direction. Yet I found myself getting more "food for thought" than I had ever imagined - and for that I am grateful!

"Finding Your Religion" is about just that - finding the religion that resonates with your soul - the one that stimulates you, and helps you to grow.

Mr. McLennan helps one to see that they don't have to stay in the same religion for their entire life, and that as you grow and your perceptions change, your religious needs may need to change as well. This thought reminded me of the Gnostic Christian perspective that as we grow, and our perceptions change, our spiritual/religious beliefs will change as well. I feel that this idea also helps to remind us not to judge - we are all where we need to be based on our current thoughts/beliefs/perceptions...

I liked how the author uses the metaphor of a spiritual mountain. We are all climbing up that mountain, learning and growing along the way. At times during your climb you'll find a cross-road, and it's at these times where you need to decide if you want to try a different route (religious tradition), or if you'd like to stay on the route you're currently on - it's always your choice.

Just as there are many different levels while climbing up a mountain, the author shares several developmental levels of faith, and the types of thoughts one may experience at each of them. He emphatically reminds us that this these levels are not meant for pigeon holing ourselves or others, or judging higher levels as better than lower levels - but instead it's meant to free us from being stuck religously - afraid to change - as this could lead to a turning away from all religion, frustration, isolation, etc...

I really liked how his examples came from a variety of religious traditions/beliefs - I got to learn quite a few things I didn't know about various religions.

Some important things to ask yourself &/or think about when deciding on a religion are included, as well as discussions on such things as celebration & suffering - all of which I found to be quite enlightening.

One of the thoughts that the author shares several times throughout this book is that we all need a religion. He postulates that having a religion will help us to: find our way (when going it alone can get us lost real fast), be a part of a community, share in celebrations, experience our faith, and find a comfortable way to engage in some form of personal contemplation discipline (such as prayer &/or meditation).

Another analogy that he used - which I use often in my reviews, so I could really relate to it - is that of the blind men describing what an elephant looks like. Each one can only describe what they're feeling - so the person touching the husk thinks the elephant is cold and hard, the person holding the tail thinks the elephant is like a "living broom", and so and so on... If they fight amongst themselves, refusing to believe that the other could be right as well, none of them will ever get the "truth" of what an elephant really looks like. But, if they choose to listen to eachother, and to take each description into account, they have a much better chance of understanding the look of an elephant. The same is true for religion - there is so much that we can learn from just choosing to have an open dialogue with people of other religions - without trying to prove our rightness and their wrongness. Why not give it a try???

Also included is an appendix that describes further reading for each of the religions, as well as a website address and phone number for that religions headquarters - a great way to start your research!

Overall, I found this book to be an amazing, easy, thought-provoking read. As such, I would highly recommend to anyone searching for the right religion for them - It truly has a lot to offer.