Raising Your Spirited Child Workbook (Paperback)

~ Mary Sheedy Kurcinka (Author)

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"The book will prove to be a real lifesaver."

-- --Louise Bates Ames, author and association director, Gessell Institute of Human

"Through excellent examples and easy-to-read text, this book provides parents with a pathway to understanding their child's temperament and to a place where parents can balance the needs of their child's unique temperament with their own needs and those of their family." -- James Cameron, Ph.D., executive director, The Preventive Ounce, Berkeley, California

Product Description

The Essential Companion Workbook To The National Bestseller Raising Your Spirited Child,

In this companion workbook, Mary Sheedy Kurcinka brings readers into her world-famous workshops, where she offers parents and educators insights, emotional support and proven strategies for dealing with spirited children. The key word that distinguishes spirited children from other children is "more" -- more intense, more persistent, more sensitive and more uncomfortable with change. Through exercises, observations and dialogue from actual groups, Kurcinka helps readers learn to identify the triggers that lead to tantrums and challenging behaviors. Included are

clues to help you identify the little things that can make or break a day

tips for profiling your child's temperament and your own

cues that indicate intensity is rising

successful strategies for reducing and eliminating power struggles

By combining the intuition and compassion gained from parenting a spirited child with the wisdom of an expert who has worked with thousands of families, Mary Sheedy Kurcinka helps parents and educators view their unique challenge with perseverance, flexibility, sensitivity, and, most of all, enjoyment.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 320 pages
• Publisher: Harper Paperbacks; 1 edition (March 4, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0060952407
• ISBN-13: 978-0060952402
• Product Dimensions: 9.2 x 6.1 x 0.9 inches
• Shipping Weight: 12.5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #106,391 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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31 of 32 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Breath of fresh air, July 27, 2000

By	Michele Belczak (Livonia, MI United States) - See all my reviews

Finally, a book that doesn't lump my son into the ADHD, "difficult", or "explosive" categories that other books do. This book helps you understand why your child is doing what he is doing, and guides you into reacting appropriately, without some fictional, unrealistic example of a happy ending. The examples she gives are real--like she already knows your child and how he will react. She also helps you to remember the good qualities of your child, so you can remind yourself that you love him (which is easily lost amid tantrums and difficult days). I haven't even finished reading it, and I am already seeing positive results, both from me and my child--no major tantrums and no screaming reactions. The workbook is also helpful.

106 of 124 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars More practical books out there, June 27, 2001

By	Derrick R. Bell (Ontario Canada) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

I found the book 'Raising your Spirited Child' useful and helpful but did not find this work book very practical. It was mostly written in the setting of a class or workshop which made it ponderous to read. Although this was a very warm and personal approach it was just not very concise. I found there was too much emphasis on reasoning and adapting to the child instead of teaching the child to adapt. I realise that with spirited children a parent must be keenly aware of the childs limitations and that a little planning goes a long way in reducing stress. But I also think that a parent must be very careful not to go too far as to lower expectations and make the family child centered. You don't have to be your childs personal therapist in order to be a good parent.
This book does not cover the role of negative reinforcement which is so prevalent with spirited children who are misbehaving. Without this understanding we could not begin to address the issues affecting our own spirited child. For this I would strongly recommend any parent of a spirited child to read: "The Manipulative Child: How To Regain control and Raise Resilient, Resourceful, and Independent Kids".

This book does offer hope and encouragement which I guess we all need when struggling day to day with a demanding child. Nothing prepares a parent for dealing with a spirited child and they put every parenting assumption and technique to the ultimate test. Although my wife and I did not find this work book helpful for our situation, it does add to the first book which we found very helpful.
For our spirited child, the books "Ain't Misbehavin" by William P Garvey, and "Setting Limits" by Robert J MacKenzie, helped us the most. By teaching our child self control, it allowed the positive spirited traits to overshadow the negative ones.

22 of 24 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars on the "indispensable" shelf among parenting books, September 30, 2000

By	M. McKay (USA) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

The author's positive and practical approach helps you to see the good in your "spirited" child, to craft situations which "work", and to advocate for your child. I rate this book among my top five picks for parents-to-be and parents of 0-5 year olds.