B-Mother (Hardcover)

by Maureen O'Brien (Author) "Had you spotted me on the railroad tracks that autumn morning, you would have thought I was an ordinary teenage girl in thigh-tight jeans surrounded..." (more)
Key Phrases: Sister Catherine, Sister Joan, Sloppy Joe (more...)

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly
Among the recent spate of adoption memoirs, the voices of birth mothers have been woefully underrepresented. O'Brien covers the territory in her debut novel spanning nearly 20 years, beginning in 1980—less than a decade after the legalization of abortion and the advent of open adoptions. Hillary Birdsong, 16, has felt adrift since the death of her idealized older brother in a fraternity hazing ritual four years earlier. Emotionally neglected by her perpetually grieving mother, Hillary clings to glamorous party boy Miles, becoming pregnant during a summer fling when he vacations in her small Maine resort town. Unsupported by Miles and her parents, Hillary waits out her late pregnancy in a Catholic girls' home. Her son, Tom, is adopted, and Hillary spends the next 18 years putting her life back together while anticipating annual letters from Tom's adoptive mother and awaiting the day when she can legally interact with her son. Beyond some florid description and artificial dialogue, O'Brien's narrative does convey the long healing process after giving up a child for adoption. But the novel's long time span seems vague and undeveloped, making readers feel as if they, like Hillary, are just biding time until the mother and son's eventual reunion. (Feb.)
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From Booklist
Sixteen-year-old Hillary Birdsong has been at loose ends ever since her much-loved older brother died at college during a fraternity hazing ritual. Her distracted, grieving parents don't seem to have the energy to keep her in line, and she grows increasingly wild. When she meets a rich, charming New York City teen who is summering in her Maine hometown, she ends up pregnant. Within her insular community, there's no escaping the consequences of her impetuous love affair, and her parents send her away to a Catholic home for unwed mothers. All through her pregnancy, through the awkward conversations with prospective couples looking to adopt, she remains deeply ambivalent about whether to give up her child. But when she meets unconventional artist Lola and her caring husband, James, she decides to give them her son. It is a decision that will haunt her for the next 18 years. This first novel contains some awkward pacing and dialogue, but it vividly conveys the enormous cost of being forced to make such a painful decision at such a young age. Joanne Wilkinson
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Product Details

• Hardcover: 288 pages
• Publisher: Harcourt; 1 edition (February 5, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0151013985
• ISBN-13: 978-0151013982
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.7 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,051,377 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Well-crafted and emotionally powerful, February 19, 2007

By	Lee R. Sachs - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

Ms. O'Brien does a great job of putting us in the mind of the birth mother. The character of Hillary Birdsong is believable, likable and full of ambiguities and uncertainties that we can ID with. We follow her going through the struggle and realizations as she comes to terms with the gut-wrenching decision that defines her life.

It's also a very timely and relevant story with only passing references to the political and religious implications of adoption and abortion. Ms. O'Brien also has a fine command of language and description which thoroughly enrich the story. I **highly** recommend this book as a great read.

3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A story that grabbed me., January 18, 2007

By	J. Hazelwood (Scarborough, Maine) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

I could not wait to read Maureen O'Brien's novel b-mother each evening! It is emotional but not sappy. Wonderful characters, language and descriptions of Maine. Very insightful into the lives of birth mothers and adoptive families. Definitely one to read more than once!

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Touching story that will leave you thinking about it , May 10, 2007

By	armchairinterviews.com (Minnesota) - See all my reviews

This is the author's first novel and is an unusual story. A young girl, Hillary Birdsong, is dogged by childhood tragedy growing up in Maine. Her lovely childhood is ravished when her beloved older brother dies while applying to a fraternity. Her mother spirals into a deep depression, and leaves Hillary feeling abandoned. At 16, she is partying one summer with a rich boy from New York, and gets pregnant.

At a clinic with her best friend, Shell, she hears the baby's heartbeat, and decides not to abort it, hoping to keep the baby. Her parents crush her hopes, and eventually she is packed off to a Catholic agency, where she can select the adoptive parents. The birth of her son Tom, and their parting, is touching and wrenching.

Hillary he goes on to college, where her roommate needs an abortion, and later she drifts through life, avoiding her hometown, but staying not too far away. She works in an antique store, and meets a young man who is devoted to her. She receives annual letters from the adoptive parents, and deeply misses this son she never knew.

Will he contact her when he turns 18? Will Hillary's mother ever pull herself out of her life of pain, and reach out to Hillary? Will Miles, the baby's father, ever regret how badly he treated her and the baby?

Touching characters fill a sad life that held so much promise, and might yet...as Hillary learns to open up to life.

Armchair Interviews says: Strong story with a message of hope for Hillary and women like her.