"Ron Shackelford writes with clarity and color. More importantly, the concepts he discusses, and the illustrations he develops, paint a vivid picture of the landscape of marital relationships--highs and lows, lights and darks, highlights and shadows. In this book, he shows how the differences between spouses can lead to difficult challenges, but also how those very difficulties, if properly understood, can add depth, interest, and tone to marriage. I heartily recommend this book." - Jerry Camery-Hoggatt Professor of New Testament and Narrative Theology, Vanguard University
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The cause of clashes between spouses is not that they are from different "planets." In fact, the colliding issues at hand may have nothing to do with gender. Seasoned marriage therapist Ron Shackelford explains that the issue at the heart of much marital discord is that the partners are opposite personality types. He cites a recent poll indicating that more than 50% of all couples bring different personality approaches to at least two of the four critical areas of marriage: decision-making, belief systems, means of energy replenishment, and approach to life. Understanding and appreciating these differences can not only bring new vigor and love to a marriage, but can also show the way to wonderful personal growth for each partner. The core of this book builds on the work of Jung and Myers Briggs in the field of personality types, and there are occasional references to the general theology that has guided Shackelford, a retired pastor, through much of his life. The guide is clear, astute, and at times even amusing, making it an enlightening treatment that will strengthen insight, empathy, and respect for opposites--and ultimately revive marriages.
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