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The House of Gentle Men (Hardcover)

by Kathy Hepinstall (Author)
4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (93 customer reviews)


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Set in rural Louisiana during and after WWII, this odd but appealing first novel is a disconcerting yet harmonious mix of realistic characters and place, with a fable-like premise that is initially hard to accept but acquires resonance as the book draws to a redemptive close. The title is literal, referring to a retreat where men who have sinned can stay and do penance by befriending damaged women who come to visit. Dancing, talking, cuddling, every intimate interchange short of intercourse is permitted. The men live in the house; the women arrive in the evening and often spend the night. With this quixotic project, grieving Leon Olen hopes to win back the wife who abandoned him and their two children eight years before. Nearby lives mute-by-choice Charlotte Gravin, a young woman who eight years earlier was raped by three soldiers from a nearby army camp; only two weeks before the rape, her mother died in a fire. Eventually, Charlotte is drawn to the house, as is Justin, who alone of the rapists feels remorse. Charlotte wrestles with guilt, too. Impregnated by one of the rapists, Charlotte carried the baby to term; convinced the infant was a demon, she left him in the woods. The question she faces is whether she can forgive Justin and by so doing forgive herself. Multiple subthemes and motifs-including many references to fire as purifier and destroyer-supplement the central question of the nature of aggression and the possibilities of redemption. Charlotte's brother, Milo, is an arsonist; Louise, Leon's 17-year-old daughter, who cleans compulsively to "sterilize" her environment, has internalized her rage about her family's dynamics. Her brother, Benjamin, in rebellion against his father, tries to seduce the comforted women as they leave the house. Although the coincidences are Dickensian and the notion of a sexual halfway house remains problematic, Hepinstall is deft at developing believable personalities and structuring a moral landscape in which they can find insight to reconnect with their better selves. Agent, Henry Dunow. Author tour. (Feb.)
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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Physically damaged, emotionally abused, and love-starved women of all ages come to the House of Gentle Men for tenderness, waltzes, and chaste kisses. The men employed there believe, or choose to believe, that in this way they can redeem their violent pasts. Just after World War II, ex-soldier Justin comes to the house seeking to atone for his part in the gang rape of one of the town's young women in 1941. When Charlotte the Mute (she has not spoken since the day she was attacked) first meets Justin, she is unaware of his role in that crime, which led to a pregnancy and a baby abandoned after birth. As the relationship between Charlotte and Justin slowly develops, he realizes that he must find the courage to tell her who he really is. In an assured first novel that demonstrates promising literary talent, Hepinstall gracefully explores issues of guilt, forgiveness, grace, and redemption. A good choice for all public libraries.
-Nancy Pearl, Washington Ctr. for the Book, Seattle
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 352 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow; 1st edition (February 8, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0380978091
  • ISBN-13: 978-0380978090
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.6 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (93 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,645,349 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Absolute Magic, May 12, 2000
By Renee (Kentucky) - See all my reviews
Every once in a great while a book comes along that you carry around inside your heart even after turning the final page. Kathy Hepinstall's "The House of Gentle Men" is exactly that type of book. It's rare that I find a novel that manages to combine the best of characterization, intriguing plot, and stunning language the way this one does. I fell in love with the characters, and appreciated the fact that none of them (even the ones I thought I had reason to hate in the beginning) were caricatures. Ms. Hepinstall writes with such understanding - not only the virtues of her characters, but of their faults as well, and they seem to step from the pages into real life and breath. There is truth weaved by the black ink of this novel, threaded together with tremendous heart and skill by the author. I'll be reliving and re-reading this one, to say nothing of eagerly awaiting more of Ms. Hepinstall's fiction.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Just imagine ....., August 24, 2001
By "janmcalex" (Humboldt, TN United States) - See all my reviews
Imagine a pleace where men who have in some way hurt women can go to offer penance for their actions. Imagine a place where women who have been hurt by men can go to be healed of their pain. That place is called the House of Gentle Men. Without giving too much of the plot away, Charlotte, who is raped by three soldiers a mere two weeks after witnessing her mother die in a fire started by Charlotte's brother, is unwittingly reunited at the House of Gentle Men with Justin, one of the soldiers who participated in the rape. We observe as they slowly chip away the wall of ice they have built around themselves -- Charlotte in self-defense and Justin as self-punishment. We learn about the child that Charlotte bore as the result of the rape and then, as an act of defiance against God, abandoned. The House of Gentle Men has an unusual effect on everyone connected with it, from the men who live there, to the women who surreptitiously arrive there under the cover of night, to the townspeople who gossip and wonder about this extraordinary haven on the outskirts of town. This is such a beautiful novel, with a unique plot, lyrical writing and the twists and turns of luck and fate. I am very anxious to read Ms. Hepinstall's next offering. With the talent she has displayed in "The House of Gentle Men", I'm certain her next book will be just as enjoyable.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars An amazing literary work, November 9, 2000
What an amazing book! The brief storyline offered above piqued my interest but in no way prepared me for the depth of feelings and emotions I would experience when I met Charlotte and later, Justin. Having lived through a harrowing experience in her rape, Charlotte makes a very difficult decision to give birth to and abandon her baby. Years later, alone and lonely, she makes her way to the house of Gentle Men to befriend Justin, a man trying to atone for his sins of the past. The theme of the book is atoning for one's sins and forgiveness - Charlotte must not only forgive the soldier who took away her innocence, but she must also forgive herself for abandoning her baby. Hepinstall cleverly contrasts sex without love to intimacy without sex and emphasizes that you need a balance to make the best relationship. Through the house of Gentle Men, Charlotte and Justin aren't the only characters who seek and attain forgiveness - you'll have to read the book to learn more!

For a first book, this is an excellent start and I hope to find more by Hepinstall very soon! Highly recommended and I will pass it on to everyone I know.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful book
This is an absolutely wonderful book. Kathy Hepinstall is a talented writer, who writes unique stories with highly developed characters. Read more
Published 23 months ago by Tara

4.0 out of 5 stars This was a great story.
I enjoyed this story and found it unique. The author really takes you into the characters and makes you feel for them. Read more
Published on March 12, 2007 by Emily Braun

5.0 out of 5 stars AN INTRIGUING DEBUT NOVEL...
Once upon a time, there lived in Louisiana a young virgin of sixteen named Charlotte, who believed in love, hope, marriage, and the American dream. Read more
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4.0 out of 5 stars A Great Story of Forgiveness...
This was an incredibly sweet story about the ultimate forgiveness. About a man committing an act so heinous, and a woman finding it in her heart to see past the hurt and anger,... Read more
Published on October 4, 2005 by Mercedes L. Johnmeyer

1.0 out of 5 stars ONCE IS MORE THAN ENOUGH
THIS WAS KATHY HEPINSTALL'S FIRST NOVEL AND THE LAST ONE I WILL READ!! I WANTED TO STOP READING FROM CHAPTERS 1-5, BUT HATE TO GIVE UP ON A BOOK. Read more
Published on September 22, 2005 by MOM OF MARIPOSA

5.0 out of 5 stars Original Modern Literature
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Published on September 18, 2005 by Rochelle L. Holt

1.0 out of 5 stars Are you kidding me?!
What is the matter with all you women who liked this?! Were we even reading the same book?!

What a great big fat load of crap this book was! Read more
Published on August 22, 2005 by L. P. Wenger

5.0 out of 5 stars Odd but wonderfully so
The central plotline of this novel - a rape victim unknowingly falling in love with one of her rapists - sounds perverse. I was offended by the very idea but also curious. Read more
Published on February 17, 2004 by J. Harripaul

5.0 out of 5 stars A Beautifully Told Tale Of Sin & Redemption!
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