A Southern Belle Primer: Why Princess Margaret Will Never Be a Kappa Kappa Gamma (Paperback)

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Being a belle is no part-time job. A Southern Belle Primer, with its anecdotes, charts, lists, drawings, and photos, delves into it all--Family Trees, The Hairdresser Hall of Fame, the Fashion Calendar, Famous Belles, Honorary Belles, and Wannabe Belles, and much more. An uproarious guide to Southern propriety and protocol.

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The Southern belle lives on, in a world of proprieties and protocols that would shame the Royal Family (and have). An uproarious guide to the manners, mores, and mystique of the legendary ladies of the South. What The Official Preppy Handbook did for the madras-and-penny-loafer set, A Southern Belle Primer does for the indestructible ladies from below the Mason-Dixon line.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 144 pages
• Publisher: Main Street Books; 1 edition (August 1, 1991)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0385416679
• ISBN-13: 978-0385416672
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.4 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (47 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #175,555 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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121 of 133 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars i would give it six stars, but that wasn't an option, May 16, 2001

By	"whitneybelle" (Spartanburg, South Carolina) - See all my reviews

After finishing my freshman year at Duke University, I was a little confused as to why most of the people I met were surprised when they found out that I had already chosen my silver pattern (Francis I) and that I was actually looking forward to Rush Week. And when I came back to the dorm incensed one afternoon because I had had to stand up on the bus while young men were sitting down, these same friends just stared blankly at me. After coming home for the summer and complaining to a fellow belle about my confusion and their inablility to sympathize, she told me to read this lovely book. After doing so, I felt once again that all was right with the world. Mrs Schwartz ratifies my southern belle credo like nobody's buisiness. She also presented many things that I had always known but was never aware that I had known, like why it was WRONG to wear red during rush, and why I was scandalized to see women going to class in pyjamas. Many of my yankee girlfriends considered my outlook on life to be somewhat superficial, but after reading this book I realized that this is because they were never taught to "sparkle" and because they were not raised to believe with all their hearts that they were princesses. A SOUTHERN BELLE PRIMER is a must-read for anyone looking for re-affirmation of his or her southern views, or for anyone confused about what that southern heritage actually is.

29 of 30 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Detroit Belle with Southern Parents, February 5, 2006

By	J. Williams "JoyBelle ;-)" (Motor City, MI) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

Mrs. Schwartz hit the nail on the head! She talks about how a girl learns to sparkle, silver patterns, the importance of the Junior League, and so much more.

As a northern Belle (Detroit), I was completely tickled when I read this book. She confirmed so many of the things my mother and grandmother (both Alabama Belles) taught me when I was growing up, such as why I had to take ballet class. Turns out ballet class is the perfect place for a girl to learn to sparkle, and boy did I learn! (Ballet is also a good way to get girls accustom to wearing hosiery.)

Mrs. Schwartz explains the personality behind the silver pattern a girl chooses. I've read the section a million times, however, I'm still torn! My mother is a "Grand Baroque" girl. Grand Baroque girls have a sense of the dramatic, but also have a literary bent. My grandmother is an "Eloquence" girl. Eloquence girls like nice things and are extremely loyal. I'm a little of both, but I dare not mix silver patterns, that would just be tacky. Though I can't pick which one I should get, I've known since I was four years old that those two are the only patterns I'd ever consider. And don't tell my Grandmother, but the older I get, the more I learn toward "Grand Baroque."

"Southern Belle Primer" explains the Junior League's role in the South. Specifically, the Junior League is a volunteer organization. It flows directly into the vein of selflessness and consideration that Belles are taught to give everyone, thereby making life better for all they come in contact with.

I'll say this last little bit, then I'm finished. For Belles born outside the South, Mrs. Schwartz said "...sometimes the stork gets off course and deposits Southern Belles in Detroit, Hollywood, Washington, Las Vegas, even London and Paris." This is important to me because I consider myself a Belle despite my native land (Detroit). Make no mistake I love Detroit, but it's hard when your folks are from the South and you were born up North. It makes for an identity crisis. Being reared in Detroit to have Southern ways is a daily challenge! (If you've ever driven in Detroit, then you know what I mean.) But somehow you make it and books like "Southern Belle Primer" make it fun.

23 of 24 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars An Inside Look, October 18, 2001

By	BeachReader (Delaware) - See all my reviews (TOP 500 REVIEWER)

I liked this book for its honest humor and its gentle but no-holds-barred look at Southern womanhood, its traditions and manners. I particularly enjoyed the section on weddings and all of the traditions involved in a Southern wedding, including the sip-and-see and the substitute bride. The section on sororities and their importance in the scheme of life in the south was an interesting one too.

I chuckled at the first chapter's title "Who Are Your People?" because although I have lived my life barely straddling the Mason-Dixon line, this is still an often-asked question!

While some may put down these kinds of traditions, I found many of them to be touching. And in today's on-the-move society, isn't it nice to have the stability of tradition in one's life?