Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking : The Ultimate in Female Ecstasy (Paperback)

by Tommy Leonardi (Author), Arthur Gross (Author) "I was an astounded witness of G-Spot orgasms on two random occasions..." (more)
Key Phrases: conventional orgasms, ejaculatory orgasm, female ejaculations

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Product Description
Sizzling with sensuality and expertise, this definitive guide shows you how to give the women in your life the best loving she's ever had. With surefire secrets to finding the elusive "G-Spot," and information on how to make monogamy and safe sex sexy, this one-of-a-kind book will make you wonder how you ever lived - and loved - without it!
• Compares to Naura Hayden's How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time and Brenda Venus's Secrets of Seduction.
• Also in the tradition of Graham Masterson's How to Drive Yor Woman Wild in Bed and Ellen Kreidman's Light Her Fire.
• Tom Leonardi is a noted sex columnist for P.O.V. magazine.
• With its tried and true technoques, Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking is one of the most essential and useful books of its kind on the market.

Product Details

• Paperback: 160 pages
• Publisher: Signet (February 1, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0451184777
• ISBN-13: 978-0451184771
• Product Dimensions: 6.7 x 4.1 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 2.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars See all reviews (27 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #266,736 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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68 of 71 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST, May 16, 2000

By A Customer

I had only met one woman in my life who was a natural "squirter." I was amazed at such a phenomenon and never experienced this again with anyone else. Passing through an airport to make a connecting flight I picked up this book on the run, intrigued by the reference to "female ejaculation." I was on my way to visit my girlfriend who lives in another country. On the long flight I read through the book twice and when I arrived at my destination, I was able to introduce my girlfriend to a part of herself she never new existed. I tried it again. She was able to ejaculate again. This worked nearly every time! And each time she was capable of coming, without control, over and over again. I could not believe what as happening. It is a miracle that a technique like this has been discovered and described so perfectly. I am about to buy six copies to give to my closest friends. What a wonderful secret club to belong to!

53 of 55 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Superlative Sex Manual for Men, May 12, 2001

By	Shirley J. Keller (San Diego, CA USA) - See all my reviews

There are some pathetic sex books out there, like "Five Minutes to Orgasm" which tells women they can stimulate their own clitoris during intercourse to "come quickly" like a man (FuhDuh! Who needs to be told this lowest-common-denominator truism?)-- and the "Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot," a chirping, matter-of-fact grab-bag of notions on how you can use a vibrator, a sharpie marker, a hair brush handle, "a friend" [!] or a lesbian pal to touch your G-Spot. The opposite is Tom Leonardi's *masterpiece*, which is the best $5 you'll ever spend on yourself. In the age where the lowest-common-demoninator abnormal has become normal and counselors refuse to have any ideals or standards, for sex or anything else, this book is a gem. Passionate, explicit prose is highly arousing, grave, and specific, in regard to technique and sequencing. But things like EMOTION, eye-contact, and the man controlling the encounter are emphasized even more. Leonardi has some stern words for the Mr. Spock or "sexual athlete" who thinks mechanical technique can be used in a vacuum, and likewise for the average man who, propagandized by feminism, allows the woman to control the timing and sequencing of the encounter (which prevents her from attaining the level of excitement required to have an ejaculatory orgasm.) Leonardi describes in lucid detail how to pull off the gentle but firm male dominance that nature intended. (As an aside, another part of the technique involves building her excitement and frustration level until she can't stand it anymore-- recognising that women, too, need the "thrill of the chase"-- romantic buildup, an exquisitely executed tease, instead of a desperate, needy man who rushes through the encounter. If the woman you're with really loves you and you follow Leonardi's advice, you're sure to get the results the book promises. If you like this book, check out another superlative sex book, _The Joy of Uncircumcising!_ by Bigelow.

Here's what I find almost supernatural: How could Leonardi, no matter how experienced or perceptive, learn so exactly how a woman needs to be touched? It's almost as if he has the power to read women's minds. I would have suspected he's really a woman-- except his viewpoint is unmistakably masculine. No mistake-- you can trust this advice from a guy born with an unusual gift for understanding women and sex.

49 of 53 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars MEN, DON'T READ THIS BOOK!, August 16, 2005

By	CB,RN "CB,RN" - See all my reviews

If you don't want great sex gentlemen, then please don't read this book. I do sexual counseling, mostly for women because I work for an OB/GYN office, for low libido or orgasm issues. As a medical professional, this book was extremely informative. For instance, Mr. Leonardi talks about massaging the lower gluteal (butt) area & explains how this gently "pulls" on the vaginal area which causes indirect stimulation. He is medically correct, not to mention that it will also "mentally" arouse her (very important guys). He also talks about "patterns" & emphasizes to not follow your pattern of lovemaking. Psychologically speaking, he is oh, so very on the mark! I know some reviewers thought this small paperback was nothing more than a way for Mr. Leonardi to get his exploits on paper for public viewing, but i must disagree strongly. I found it to be very interesting, specific, medically & psychologically correct. And no, I have never met the author. It also is a very easy read (took me 45 minutes). He is using layman's terms, so if you want something that reads like a medical book, good luck! I don't think you will find one. You see, most Gynecologists don't know there is such a thing as female ejaculation. It is not taught & finding a conference that talks about it & has continuing medical education credits, is virtually non existent. In my 20 yrs of nursing, I just found my first continuing ed. seminar on women's sexuality & health that offers credits. So, in my opinion, this is an essential read for men & women. It is a great value, informative & if nothing else....it just might get you a little excited about having sex, so READ IT! I mean, cmon, what could it hurt, it's just a book....CB,RN