101 Ways to Flirt: How to Get More Dates and Meet Your Mate (Paperback)

by Susan Rabin (Author), Barbara Lagowski (Author)
Key Phrases: flirting prop, one flirt, conversational partner, Hong Kong, Little Easier, New York (more...)

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Product Description
The author of How to Attract Anyone, Anytime, Anyplace provides specific suggestions on how, where, and when to flirt, techniques to broaden social skills, and various other do's and don'ts when attempting to meet a mate.

Product Details

• Paperback: 208 pages
• Publisher: Plume (January 1, 1997)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0452276853
• ISBN-13: 978-0452276857
• Product Dimensions: 6.2 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 5.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #35,396 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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52 of 52 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars For Flirts, it offers a few reminders, and a few insights, August 8, 2001

By	Lisa Shea "LisaShea.com" - See all my reviews (TOP 10 REVIEWER)

This book is definitely a quick read - it's small format, only 101 items in it, and each gets a paragraph or two of copy. None of the ideas presented are of mind-boggling compexity. One tip is to whisper to someone at the library. Another is to only *glance* at your flirtee instead of staring at them. Yet another is to watch body language - watch to see if the person you're talking to is sitting stiffly with arms crossed. Hopefully most people who talk to other people have figured some of this stuff out :)

Still, there are good tips hidden in here. For example, when a man is flirting with a woman at a party and they are walking along, the man can gently take the arm of the woman to help guide her through the crowd. This is sort of a 'here, I'll help you out' and also a 'I'm interested in you' combo move which I always find quite appealing.

It gives tips about how to talk with the person you're flirting with - asking open ended questions that need more than a yes/no answer. Discussing things in a way that you only say a sentence or two yourself, so that the other person is drawn into the conversation.

It even gives a few tips on breaking up or opting out of a situation cleanly, if you end up with someone that you decide isn't quite right for you.

While this isn't an in depth study of relationships, and definitely not a guide to dating or marriage, it certainly offers decent tips on how to become an accomplished flirt. Check it out, and see if you learn a thing or two!

10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great initial communication ideas, March 13, 2000

By	Richard Reed (Dallas, TX) - See all my reviews

I highly recommend this book for those of us who have been away from flirting and dating for a while. After reading some of the other reviews, I expected very radical, in-you-face, type flirting suggestions. I was extremely pleased with how non-intrusive and playful the suggestions are. This book has some great initial communication ideas!

16 of 18 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars The book was unrealistic, October 23, 1998

By A Customer

The book was urealistic I did what the author said to do and it did not work. For the most part I was made fun of and poked fun at.