The Essential Difference and over 360,000 other books are available for Amazon Kindle – Amazon’s new wireless reading device. Learn more

 

or
Sign in to turn on 1-Click ordering.
 
 
Express Checkout with PayPhrase
What's this? | Create PayPhrase
Sorry!
More Buying Choices
53 used & new from $6.44

Have one to sell? Sell yours here
 
   
The Essential Difference: Male And Female Brains And The Truth About Autism
 
 
Start reading The Essential Difference on your Kindle in under a minute.

Don’t have a Kindle? Get your Kindle here.
 
  

The Essential Difference: Male And Female Brains And The Truth About Autism (Paperback)

~ Simon Baron-cohen (Author)
3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (26 customer reviews)

List Price: $15.95
Price: $11.48 & eligible for FREE Super Saver Shipping on orders over $25. Details
You Save: $4.47 (28%)
o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o o
In Stock.
Ships from and sold by Amazon.com. Gift-wrap available.

Want it delivered Monday, November 16? Choose One-Day Shipping at checkout. Details
32 new from $7.92 21 used from $6.44

Formats

Amazon Price New from Used from
  Kindle Edition $9.99 -- --
  Hardcover -- $16.50 $5.99
  Paperback $11.48 $7.92 $6.44

Frequently Bought Together

The Essential Difference: Male And Female Brains And The Truth About Autism + Leadership for Differentiating Schools and Classrooms + How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life
Price For All Three: $42.29

Show availability and shipping details

  • This item: The Essential Difference: Male And Female Brains And The Truth About Autism by Simon Baron-Cohen

    In Stock.
    Ships from and sold by Amazon.com.
    Eligible for FREE Super Saver Shipping on orders over $25. Details

  • Leadership for Differentiating Schools and Classrooms by Carol A. Tomlinson

    In Stock.
    Ships from and sold by Amazon.com.
    Eligible for FREE Super Saver Shipping on orders over $25. Details

  • How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life by Tom Rath

    In Stock.
    Ships from and sold by Amazon.com.
    Eligible for FREE Super Saver Shipping on orders over $25. Details


Customers Who Bought This Item Also Bought

School, Family, and Community Partnerships: Your Handbook for Action

School, Family, and Community Partnerships: Your Handbook for Action

by Brenda L. Thomas
5.0 out of 5 stars (2)  $39.55
Curriculum Today

Curriculum Today

by David G. Armstrong
3.7 out of 5 stars (3)  $47.02
Great Performances: Creating Classroom-Based Assessment Tasks

Great Performances: Creating Classroom-Based Assessment Tasks

by Larry Lewin
5.0 out of 5 stars (2)  $17.95
The Portfolio Organizer: Succeeding With Portfolios in Your Classroom

The Portfolio Organizer: Succeeding With Portfolios in Your Classroom

by Noreen Carol Rolheiser-Bennett
4.3 out of 5 stars (3)  $24.95
Mindblindness: An Essay on Autism and Theory of Mind

Mindblindness: An Essay on Autism and Theory of Mind

by Simon Baron-Cohen
3.9 out of 5 stars (8)  $17.16
Explore similar items

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Should the title fail to express Baron-Cohen's certainty about gender differences, the Cambridge Univ. professor of psychology and psychiatry lays out his controversial thesis on page one: "The female brain is predominantly hard-wired for empathy. The male brain is predominantly hard-wired for understanding and building systems." Defending this bold view is a tough but engaging battle, one that's alleviated by Baron-Cohen's disclaimer that his conclusions refer to statistical majorities rather than "all men" and "all women," but exacerbated by his habit of simultaneously skirting and employing gender stereotypes. His copious evidence ranges from the anecdotal to the anthropological, and from the neurological to the case study (the author and his research team conducted many of these studies). Not all his support fully convinces: e.g., the music-classifying habits of novelist Nick Hornby's High Fidelity protagonist isn't confirmation of the male brain's predisposition to systems-building. After acknowledging cultural and social influences on gender differences, Baron-Cohen "surfs the brain" (and offers evidence from a number of studies, both human and animal) to establish a biological link. But if male rats navigate their way through mazes more easily than female rats, does that mean men are better at directions than women? His speculations on how binary brain types have evolved over the eons, which have the male brain co-opting traits like power and leadership, leaving the female brain with gossip and motherhood, may ruffle a few feathers. Perhaps the most refreshing section of this cerebral volume is devoted to what he calls "extreme" examples of the male brain-autism and its cousin, Asperger's syndrome. The author of previous autism books, including Mindblindness, Baron-Cohen offers curious lay readers a provocative discussion of male-female differences.
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.


Review

"Baron-Cohen offers curious lay readers a provocative discussion of male-female differences." -- - Publishers Weekly

Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Basic Books (August 17, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 046500556X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0465005567
  • Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 5.3 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (26 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #48,913 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

    Popular in these categories: (What's this?)

    #56 in  Books > Health, Mind & Body > Psychology & Counseling > Cognitive
    #93 in  Books > Health, Mind & Body > Personal Health > Children's Health > Autism & Asperger's Syndrome

More About the Author

Simon Baron-Cohen
Discover books, learn about writers, read author blogs, and more.

Visit Amazon's Simon Baron-Cohen Page

Inside This Book (learn more)
Browse Sample Pages:
Front Cover | Table of Contents | First Pages | Index | Surprise Me!
Search Inside This Book:


What Do Customers Ultimately Buy After Viewing This Item?

The Essential Difference: Male And Female Brains And The Truth About Autism
86% buy the item featured on this page:
The Essential Difference: Male And Female Brains And The Truth About Autism 3.8 out of 5 stars (26)
$11.48
Mindblindness: An Essay on Autism and Theory of Mind
5% buy
Mindblindness: An Essay on Autism and Theory of Mind 3.9 out of 5 stars (8)
$17.16
Autism and Asperger Syndrome (The Facts)
3% buy
Autism and Asperger Syndrome (The Facts) 4.5 out of 5 stars (2)
$17.95
How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life
3% buy
How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life 4.1 out of 5 stars (109)
$13.57

Tags Customers Associate with This Product

 (What's this?)
Click on a tag to find related items, discussions, and people.
 
(4)

Your tags: Add your first tag
 

 

Customer Reviews

26 Reviews
5 star:
 (13)
4 star:
 (4)
3 star:
 (3)
2 star:
 (2)
1 star:
 (4)
 
 
 
 
 
Average Customer Review
3.8 out of 5 stars (26 customer reviews)
 
 
 
 
Share your thoughts with other customers:
Most Helpful Customer Reviews

 
103 of 114 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Separate, but Equal, October 29, 2003
By Stephen A. Haines (Ottawa, Ontario Canada) - See all my reviews
(TOP 100 REVIEWER)    (REAL NAME)      
After a lengthy and unwarranted disclaimer that his work isn't "sexist" [whatever that is], Baron-Cohen surveys the foundations of male and female minds. With a long clinical and teaching career, supported by an immense list of studies, he concludes that, in general, there are indeed "essential differences" in cognitive makeup between human genders. While there is a spectrum of characteristics, certain general frameworks exist attributable to men and women. For ease of analysis, he suggests that women are more empathic ["E" personalities] while men are more systematic ["S" personalities]. Each, he insists, has their role, with most people placed well within a median between extremes. The trends, however, are clear.

In a chatty style he likely uses speaking with patients, Baron-Cohen shows that women's empathic tendencies give them the power to quickly assess others' emotional states. Women more readily identify feelings in others, respond appropriately when sympathy is required and "reach out" in dealing with people. He stresses that this "intuitive sense" among women is almost universal and is rightfully well-regarded by all cultures. Men, on the other hand, operate under the need to understand "systems", organized conditions, mechanics, technology and are thus driven to know "how things work". This urge leads them away from the intimacy women have with others and, in the more extreme cases, are likely to become "loners". The most outstanding examples are those suffering from autism which is overwhelmingly a male condition.

Baron-Cohen has spent years studying autism, offering a range of examples. It may appear amusing that a five-year-old boy may be capable of memorizing dozens of car registrations and explain which car belongs to which house, but there are other factors to consider. Such boys grow into men who cannot readily converse, directly or over the telephone. They become the butt of teasing or hostility at their "withdrawn" state. If lacking compensation in other areas, such as a vocation that allows them to apply a narrow focus to tasks, they risk ostracism from society. Baron-Cohen offers an exceptional case of a mathematician whose genius brought him high awards, but who may fail to keep a lunch date due to some distraction. These are real problems affecting real people. Some of them may be your neighbours. One of them might even, unknowingly, be you.

This book challenges much misled thinking that has permeated gender studies over the past generation. Gender differences in outlook appear within a day of birth. Newborns shown a photograph of a face, or an object composed of facial elements resulted in girls preferring the face while the boys tended to select the object. This early division Baron-Cohen thinks may result from the testosterone surge baby boys undergo in the womb. "Maleness" and brain development are interlocked and continue to manifest with development. Baby girls, on the other hand, follow a different, parallel path. They appear to respond to distress in other people more readily than do boys. They will make eye contact with others more readily. The pattern continues through life, although at differing levels with individuals. Baron-Cohen stresses these differences don't represent "better" or "worse" values. Human males and females are overall equally intelligent. That intelligence is expressed in different ways. More to the point, men and women have both E and S traits, individually manifest over a wide spectrum. Extremes are few, but he notes extreme Es are more socially comfortable and acceptable than the autistic extreme S personalities.

Baron-Cohen doesn't limit himself to the results of clinical studies and calling for more research. He is keen to have readers begin to rethink how society should deal with those suffering from autism [Asperger's Syndrome]. He calls for a greater tolerance for "coldness" or "lack of sympathy". Self assessment is a good place to start building that tolerance. As a help to readers, a series of comprehensive tests is provided as Appendices. Take the tests and judge for yourself. But first, read the book to understand the issues involved. [stephen a. haines - Ottawa, Canada]

Comment Comments (7) | Permalink | Was this review helpful to you? Yes No (Report this)



 
41 of 46 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A gem!, January 4, 2004
Before you start reading Baron-Cohen's fascinating book, go through the questionaire in the first appendix.

The questionaire, "Reading the Mind in the Eyes," has thirty-six photos cropped to show only the region around the eyes. By looking only at this small portion of the face, you have to figure out the emotion being expressed by the individual in the photo.

Chance would give only one out of four right answers. As Baron-Cohen remarks in the text, most people, when they take the quiz, find it extremely difficult -- one feels like one is guessing.

In fact, nearly everyone does much better than he or she expected. I got nearly two-thirds correct, and most people do even better.

This little quiz demonstrates one of the key points in the book: normal humans have an incredible ability to read the expressions, feelings, etc. of their fellow human beings from very subtle clues.

Baron-Cohen's thesis in his earlier book, "Mindblindness," was that autistic persons are simply people who lack this normal human "mind-reading" ability.

"The Essential Difference" expands this thesis to argue that, in this respect, autistic people are simply at a far end of a spectrum. Females (with numerous individual exceptions) tend towards the opposite end of the spectrum from autistic people: females are usually good empathizers, skilled at "mind-reading." Males tend to be less good at empathizing compared to females and better at "systemizing." Autistic people (who are predominantly male) lie at the extreme male end of the spectrum -- extraordinarily poor empathizers, good systemizers.

The author proves this case beyond reasonable doubt by both covering the scientific evidence and wittily discussing case studies. He focuses particularly on "high-functioning autism" and "Asperger's syndrome," exemplified by people who have normal to high intelligence and are able to function to some degree in normal society but who nonetheless exhibit a significant degree of mind-blindness.

So is there anything wrong with the book?

Baron-Cohen leans over backwards to emphasize that individuals who lean towards the high-systemizing/low-empathizing end of the spectrum are not deficient human beings or uncaring monsters. He states explicitly, "People with autism are often the most loyal defenders of someone they perceive to be suffering an injustice." Yet, in other places in the book, he suggests that it is easier for those who tend towards systemizing rather than empathizing to commit rape or murder!

The problem is an ambiguity in the word "empathy." On the one hand, it means the ability to read another's mood, to decode subtle cues of face, tone of voice, etc. As Baron-Cohen puts it, "Empathizing is about spontaneously and naturally tuning into the other person's thoughts and feelings..."

But, an alternative sense of "empathy" refers to an individual's ability to imaginatively put himself in the other person's position, to imagine how he himself would feel were he subjected to similar treatment.

The two meanings are very different. In the first sense, one cannot really have "empathy" for the subject of a newspaper story: without direct personal contact, you have no cues of facial expression and tone of voice to enable you to "naturally and spontaneously" tune in to the person's feelings. But, of course, in the second sense of "empathy," one might indeed, by imaginatively putting oneself in the same situation, achieve empathy for the person described in the news story.

Those who incline towards the Asperger's-syndrome/systemizing end of Baron-Cohen's behavioral spectrum lack "empathy" in the first sense of the word: i.e., they are lacking in the ability to spontaneously decode other people's feelings and intentions in direct social interaction. They lack a perceptual skill.

But, they still can (and they often do, as Baron-Cohen's comment about outrage towards injustice indicates) possess empathy in the second sense: this empathy relies on a conscious act of imagination and psychological projection, not on a perceptual ability to "psych out" other people.

Indeed, since there are some people (actors, con artists, some sorts of psychopaths) who possess the ability to convincingly project false cues of their feelings and intentions, people who are receptive to such cues (empathizers in Baron-Cohen's sense of the word) may be more likely to be deceived than those whose empathy is based on thought and imagination rather than instinctual response.

To put it concretely, Hitler might have found it easier to appeal to "empathizers" in Baron-Cohen's sense of the word than to people with Asperger's syndrome!

I am also somewhat skeptical of Baron-Cohen's hypothesis that severe autism is nothing but an exaggeration of normal male behavior. The "mindblindness" exhibited by those with severe autism is so debilitating that it seems likely that there is some underlying physiological cause. On the other hand, the moderately low level of empathizing seen among most males and, to a somewhat greater degree, among those with Asperger's syndrome is more easily explained simply as a matter of focus and interest.

Frankly, as a physicist, I find those people who might be deemed "normal" by Baron-Cohen's criteria to be people who demonstrate an extraordinarily unhealthy obsession with their fellow human beings. Humans are an interesting and important part of the universe -- but they're not everything! A small touch of Asperger's syndrome is, from the perspective of the universe at large, clearly more sane than what is generally considered "normalcy."

And, yet, I suspect that Baron-Cohen would listen patiently to such objections, acknowledge their possible validity, and consider how they could be validated or refuted. He comes across as a man motivated more by a passion for truth than a desire to win an argument.

"The Essential Difference" does not have, and does not claim to have, the final answers. But it does raise some fascinating questions and present the current state of knowledge in an informative, understandable, and entertaining manner. If you have any interest at all in the nature of your fellow human beings, it is worth reading.

Comment Comment | Permalink | Was this review helpful to you? Yes No (Report this)



 
14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars The essential simplicity, February 28, 2008
Baron-Cohen has a simple thesis: women are better empathizers and men are better systematizers. Is it true? Maybe. He takes the voluminous literature on sex differences and attempts to cram them into this dichotomy, with some success.
One wonders, however, if this is warranted. Can all of the differences really be attributed to different brain types? What does a brain type really even mean? This aside, his synthesis is powerful, especially the view that autism results from having an extreme male brain. Cohen also dispels notions, too popular in sociological circles, that these differences can be attributed to societal gender-roles, parenting, or culture-in toto.
He reviews studies showing that infants as early as one day old show sex differences in behavior. For example, males will stare longer at a mobile than a human face, whereas for females it is just the opposite. Another study showed that the amount of testosterone in the amniotic fluid of mothers predicted their childs early language skill and the amount of time they made eye-contact with other children. These are only a few of the studies cited to back Cohen's argument. Individually, each is open to criticism; together, using the principle of aggregation, the evidence compiled is insurmountable.
Cohen is extremely fair and undogmatic, which is the sign of a good scientist. The E/S brain hypothesis is provacative, interesting and should provoke further research and thought. If you really want to know the nitty gritty of sex differences though, I would recommend a few of the books that Cohen uses for his synthesis, such as 'Male-Female' by David Geary, 'Sex Differences in Cognition' by Doreen Kimura, and 'The Two Sexes' by Elanor Maccoby. These books provide more detailed information on sex differences and their evolution. After you read these books, read Cohen's book and ask yourself: does the E/S theory make sense of all the detailed differences that are known in the literature, or is it a little bit procrustean in its attempt to slam everything into an either/or dichotomy? The truth is yours to judge.
Comment Comment | Permalink | Was this review helpful to you? Yes No (Report this)


Share your thoughts with other customers: Create your own review
 
 
 
Most Recent Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars He's arguing for excellence in both male and female packages
This Cambridge University autism researcher reveals the numerous biological and functional differences between males and females--which were accepted and valued in earlier... Read more
Published 12 months ago by HomeBuilding

4.0 out of 5 stars Just don't forget that we're individuals too
There was a time not so long ago that autism in a child was blamed on the mother. That we now understand autism, and Asperger Syndrome, to be genetic is an important step in the... Read more
Published on July 17, 2007 by L. SAXON

4.0 out of 5 stars Hyper-male & hyper-female, then the rest of us
By now everybody knows sex is in the brain. But how much of how the brain was laid out by our genes and experiences determines if we have enough of a male type brain to cause us... Read more
Published on December 25, 2006 by Ellie

5.0 out of 5 stars Not everyone will like book, but it's interesting if you're open to these ideas
A book like this is bound to be controversial in today's society, where the topic of gender differences is a hot button issue. Read more
Published on November 15, 2006 by BookLover

5.0 out of 5 stars The Gender Neutral Society
As I immerse myself in the field of evolutionary psychology/biology and Baron-Cohen's work on biobehavioral differences in men and women, I wonder when and where a value judgement... Read more
Published on April 15, 2006 by Cheryl Dellasega

5.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating and illuminating
Of the 30 or so books I've read in the last two years on brain-based behavior, this ranks at the top of the list. Read more
Published on December 30, 2005 by Gina Pera

1.0 out of 5 stars No, he did not write that!!
Before I launch into my own diatribe on the rubbish contained in this work, please see Ms. Wood's review of the historical accuracy of gender roles. Read more
Published on October 7, 2005 by MomofGirlAspie

5.0 out of 5 stars Political correctness shouldn't trump the quest for understanding
Yes, Baron-Cohen may have stepped on some toes with the postulation that men and women are different, but his reliance on data and learned information is more important than the... Read more
Published on August 30, 2005 by Jack Currie

1.0 out of 5 stars Historically Unsophisticated Analysis
I came to this book with an open mind but was sorely disappointed. Cohen's hypothesis is so clearly influenced by his own cultural assumptions that it is painful to witness. Read more
Published on August 10, 2005 by Happy Wife

5.0 out of 5 stars new way to understanding Autistic children
i am thrilled to read this book, Prof Cohen's new book is like a sunshine into darkness, it will give us very needed help to understand what is in mind of those little Autistic... Read more
Published on August 2, 2005 by Bin Feng

Only search this product's reviews



Customer Discussions

This product's forum
Discussion Replies Latest Post
No discussions yet

Ask questions, Share opinions, Gain insight
Start a new discussion
Topic:
First post:
Prompts for sign-in
 


Active discussions in related forums
Search Customer Discussions
Search all Amazon discussions
   



So You'd Like to...


Create a guide

Product Information from the Amapedia Community

Beta (What's this?)


Look for Similar Items by Category


Look for Similar Items by Subject

 

Feedback

If you need help or have a question for Customer Service, contact us.
 Would you like to update product info or give feedback on images?
Is there any other feedback you would like to provide?

Your comments can help make our site better for everyone.


Your Recent History

 (What's this?)

After viewing product detail pages or search results, look here to find an easy way to navigate back to pages you are interested in.