Breaking Up is Hard to Do (Paperback)

~ Lynda Sandoval (Author), (Author), Ellen Hopkins (Author), (Author) "I am, without a doubt, the luckiest guy in the entire West Rollins High School junior class..." (more)
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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Although-or perhaps because-these four stories about love gone wrong bear little resemblance to real-life heartbreak, they are likely to go over big with teens in search of solace for their own romantic misadventures. Burnham's protagonist, the lone male narrator, lets readers know right away that he's no "scumbag who only wants you-know-what from a girl"; when he gets pressured by his girlfriend on their one-year anniversary to have sex, he's not ready, and his refusal triggers a breakup. The reversal of typical gender roles could be amusing, except that the author wraps up the story with the tidy entrance of a girl who values the narrator's personality. The other stories send similar messages of empowerment, as in Ellen Hopkins's verse entry about a plain girl whose first boyfriend engineers a makeover, dumps her when she refuses to have sex, then lets her know she was a "practice" girlfriend; she recovers enough to tip off the next girl he approaches. And how many gay girls publicly humiliated by their girlfriends find an ally in the high school football captain, like Lynda Sandoval's heroine? Even so, readers will enjoy the stylish scenarios, projecting themselves into situations they can only wish were true. Ages 14-up.
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From School Library Journal

Grade 9 Up—These four short stories center on falling out of love. The first story dumps stereotypes on their ear by featuring a romance rocked by a high school junior who is reluctant to "go all the way" with his gorgeous girlfriend. The second has a fantasy twist—a teen's head injury allows her to "hear" the thoughts of others, and it is readily apparent that there is a huge disconnect between her boyfriend's thoughts and what he says. The third selection is told in verse, revealing a girl's coming to terms with the changes she has made in herself to please her new boyfriend. Finally, the last features a lesbian relationship ruined by the fear of being outed. None of these stories is outstanding, but as a collection, they work well together. Basically, they're like reading only the most exciting parts of a chick-lit novel and leaving all the extraneous narrative behind.—Leah Krippner, Harlem High School, Machesney Park, IL
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Product Details

• Reading level: Young Adult
  
• Paperback: 304 pages
• Publisher: Graphia (May 5, 2008)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0547014996
• ISBN-13: 978-0547014999
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.4 x 0.9 inches
• Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #686,199 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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4.0 out of 5 stars Really Enjoyable, Different Stories, October 25, 2008

By	Shooting Stars Magazine (Ky,Ma,) - See all my reviews

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Breaking Up Is Hard To Do is a collection of four short stories all about the angered, pained, and revenge-seeking broken-hearted. First up is Burnham's story about Toby, who is always trying to please everyone else, but when he puts his foot down with his girlfriend, things don't quite work out. Terri Clark's Dee thinks she scored the social lottery when her goth self hooks up with a major jock, but when the two get into a car accident, Dee starts hearing people's thoughts and realize her boyfriend is one great actor!

Next we have Ellen Hopkins, who gives us a short story a la poetry, like her previous work, about a girl named Lisa who feels that she's just plain, but what happens when she scores her first real boyfriend? Last, Sandoval delivers us a great story of Mia, who falls in love with straight girl Paige. Except, all summer long...Paige was in love with her too, right? When things blow up in a very public way, how will Mia face her peers, let alone Paige?

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do took me awhile to finish, but it wasn't because it was a bad book. I actually enjoyed the stories immensely, and felt that even though you knew going in that they would all experience a break up, they still left much to be surprised by.

I was also happy by the authors they chose to contribute, giving each story their own unique twist. Burnham focused on the only guy, Clark dealt with the unreal, Hopkins wrote in a unique way, and Sandoval dealt with the only same-sex couple.

The book was an impressive collection of breaking up stories that will perhaps have you agreeing in sadness, but in the end, cheering with victory!

5.0 out of 5 stars Courtesy of Teens Read Too, April 8, 2008

By	TeensReadToo.com "Eat. Drink. Read. Be Merrier." (All Over the US & Canada) - See all my reviews

First love is the greatest thing in the world. Until it ends. When it does, you wonder if you'll ever make it. Or maybe you decide that guys are jerks and you pretend that it doesn't bother you. The truth is that breaking up sucks, especially the first time. No one likes to grow through it, but everyone loves reading about it.

BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO is the perfect short story collection to read about, well, breaking up.

Four short stories, each by an amazing author, tell the stories of Toby, who loses his girlfriend because he won't have sex; of Dee, who realizes that her relationship was nothing but research for a book; of Lisa, who's changed by her boyfriend and then dumped because she was "practice" and not pretty enough; and of Mia, who realizes her girlfriend can't decide whether she's straight or gay and ends up hurting Mia in more ways than one.

I don't read short stories very often, because I always want more -- but I loved each of the stories in this collection. Each story was unique and written in a very different style (one was even written in verse), but they all went great together. If I had to pick my favorite of these stories, it would have to be the story about Mia. I loved reading about the acceptance club at school and Wade was just amazing.

I would definitely recommend getting this book as soon as it comes out. It's awesome.

Reviewed by: Harmony

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5.0 out of 5 stars Fun to read, April 14, 2008

By	Barbara Korsness "Author of novels and avid r... (Lake Mary, FL. USA) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

I'm far from being a teen, but I have two teenage granddaughters and want to be able to understand their world to some extent. I am an avid reader and have enjoyed a number of YA books. I especially enjoyed reading these four stories and the different voices the author's use.

What I liked most about Terri Clark's story was the way the Dee and her friend Pixie devised a way to stop Rick and Phil from taking advantage of various girls in their school. You go girls!

I know my grand daughter's are Ellen Hopkins fans and I have given several of her books to them as gifts. I know they will enjoy "Breaking up" because Ellen is a contributor. It will also introduce them to three other authors I know they will enjoy.

I plan to keep my copy but will give copies to them to read. I think teens will especially enjoy this book. Each story both entertains, and a helpful message that teens can identify with. I recommend this book to all teens and those who are young at heart.


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