When I Was Older (Hardcover)

by Garret Freymann-Weyr (Author) "There's a ceiling hook in my bedroom, right over my desk..." (more)
Key Phrases: essay outline, ceiling hook, Justin Hawker, Wolf Pack, Coach Alden (more...)

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly
Fifteen-year-old Sophie leads a well-regulated life of studying, swim practices and daily "on purpose" memories of her younger brother, who died of leukemia when she was 12. Set in contemporary Manhattan, this first novel uses humor and angst to take on the big and little issues of teen life, from loss to school politics. Contrary to her strong views against dating, which she thinks makes girls "stupid beyond belief," Sophie finds herself attracted to Francis, the son of her mother's new boyfriend. Francis's straight-shooting approach to everythingAincluding the death of his motherAchallenges Sophie's assumptions and illuminates her path to healing. Given the unconventional experiences Freymann-Weyr has assigned him, Francis is perhaps a little too well-adjusted for credibility. The story, which is framed by an essay that Sophie writes for school, offers little tension and no surprises. All the same, Sophie's personal revelations and changes of heart unfold believably. Full of vinegar and sass, Sophie is likable and energetic enough to carry this tale. Ages 10-14.
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From School Library Journal
Grade 6-9-Sophie Merdinger, 15, is a swimmer and a dedicated student who, after three years, is still obsessed with her younger brother's death. Her mother is dating for the first time since her husband moved out during their son's illness. Sophie has a hard time forgiving her father and is resistant to growing up and leaving her brother behind. As a result, she refuses to have a boyfriend or even to date, though she has many offers. Her only friend is Henry, a genius chess player, until she meets Francis, her mother's boyfriend's 17-year-old son. He lost his mother nine years earlier, and understands her pain. In this touching coming-of-age novel, the theme of losing a loved one is strong, but does not overwhelm the story of Sophie's growth as a young woman. As she learns to trust Francis, she begins to accept her brother's death and realizes that she has been unsympathetic to her father. The novel is set against the backdrop of New York City, where Sophie and Francis explore museums and coffee shops as their relationship develops. The protagonist is a likable and intelligent young woman, Francis is a gentle and thoughtful young man, and the supporting characters are well drawn. Fast-paced, light, yet introspective, this novel of transition, love, and loss explores emotion while telling a fine story.
Angela J. Reynolds, Washington County Cooperative Library Services, Aloha, OR
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Product Details

• Reading level: Ages 9-12
  
• Hardcover: 176 pages
• Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Books for Children (August 28, 2000)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0618055452
• ISBN-13: 978-0618055456
• Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.7 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 12.3 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #835,913 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A Book For All Ages, August 6, 2000

By A Customer

The publisher is sorely mistaken, I think, in placing this book in the 9-to-12 children's category; the story will hold at least as much interest for teenagers and their parents and grandparents as for younger readers. The tale is a timely one, full of nuance, and beautifully told. While simple enough to be understood by children, it works on many levels and will more than adequately reward readers of any age. I am 73 and male, and found it perfectly fascinating.

6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A Novel About the Wisdom of Youth, August 12, 2000

By A Customer

In this vibrant, engrossing novel, Sophie takes you on a tour of what it's like to be a teenager in the 21st century. Between swim practice and English essays there is trying to cope with family and friends and learning about what love is. Readers of all ages will be drawn in and unconciously given a dose of life medicine. Freymann-Weyr's grip on all of the angst and humor that comes with growing up hits the spot. I highly recommend this book.

3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Heart-stopping Tale of Real Life for People Young & Old, October 23, 2000

By A Customer

Freymann-Weyr's "When I Was Older" is perceptive, lovely, & heart-stopping, a book both for young & not so young. The issues it dramatizes apply to everyone. The focus is on a young girl who faces & grows into early maturity: she must deal with the death of her brother, her own low self-esteem, her awareness of loss, her response to becoming herself an object of attraction to boys, & her new awareness of the complicated but ordinary world of her parents, including her father's affair. The narrative flows gracefully from the heroine's center of consciousness outward toward the world of real things & of other people. The writing is elegantly colloquial, sharply evocative. The dramatic situations are vividly realized. If there's anything wrong with the novel it's that it is too short. But that is a given of the genre, I suppose. And there's always, I hope, the possibility of a sequal.