Sacred Secrets: The Sanctity of Sex in Jewish Law and Lore (Hardcover)

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Sacred Secrets: The Sanctity of Sex in Jewish Law and Lore dispels the common misconception that Judaism, like Christianity, views sex as a mere procreative tool with taboos on other expressions of sensual pleasure.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 160 pages
• Publisher: Jason Aronson; First Edition edition (April 1, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 076579974X
• ISBN-13: 978-0765799746
• Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.9 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,210,188 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars A curious potpourri, October 25, 2005

By	Ploni ben Ploni - See all my reviews

This mischevious little book gathers excerpts from all over the Jewish legal codes on such topics as masturbation, nudity, looking at your partner in the nude, variations in positions, etctera, etcetera, all with the aim of demonstrating that the rabbis of sainted memory weren't as prudish as their tzaddik portraits make them appear. Winkler is a provocateur par excellence, sifting through centuries of rabbinic literature to find minority opinions permitting nearly everything that contemporary ultraorthodoxy now notoriously prohibits. The jewel in the crown is a translation of Jacob of Emden's 18th-century responsum defending the halachic validity of concubinage (an non-marital arrangement between a man and an unmarried woman that can be terminated at will). Concubinage has long been legislated out of existence, but Jacob of Emden's dissenting opinion holds that as long as an unmarried woman is (a) using the mikveh, and (b) monogamous, there should be no problem for her to have relations with a man (married or unmarried) under concubinage laws. Rabbis who disagree, like Maimonides, who holds that such a woman would be a kedesha (prostitute), or Nachmanides, who holds that concubinage is a perogative for kings only, don't get much airtime here. This book is all about stirring the pot.

So who is this book intended for? Unmarried Torah Jews aren't going to suddenly start sneaking off to the mikveh, and why would anyone else need a heter for what they are going to do anyway? I'm puzzled about that one. But then I read the book, so what can I say.

As an aside, it's interesting that Winkler interprets "turning over the table" in Nedarim 20b as a variation in sexual position. Traditional interpretation actually holds that this passage refers to something considerably raunchier. And, yes, even black-hat rabbis agree that it's permitted.

13 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Judaism at its sexiest, May 17, 2000

By	Alex (Florida) - See all my reviews

Everything you ever wanted what Traditional Orthodox Judaism teaches about sex? Well, this book ocvers everything from Pre-marital sex to birth control, to everything you ever wanted to know but were afraid to ask. This book shows that Judaism, Orhtodox in particular, is not cut and dry and boring when it comes to sexuality as some make it seem. Get this book and you will learn things you only thought were possible. Also, everything that is talked about in the book has a source if you just can't believe your eyes. Believe me, you will re-read it at least twice when you read this book's contents.