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29 of 29 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
delightful and important, November 21, 2003
I have cerebral palsy and almost cried after reading this book. I wish it had been around when I was in elementary school. Things might have been much easier and less painful. There are scores of books out there that aim to educate about people/children with disabilities, but they haven't achieved this with such simple clarity as _Susan Laughs_ reveals. Most of these other books, while they certainly educate about the disabilities and may make them less intimidating for children, never really tell us about the CHILD. There are always words like "special" in the title or the end message of the book, and I've always been careful about that word. "Special" in this context just seems to highlight the fact that someone uses a wheelchair or crutches or the like, and such overuse of the word may impart to other children that the way disabled children do things is so far from theirs that they can't relate. Also, some of these books portray disabilities as curiosities. I'm all for perceiving a disability as a unique *trait* of an individual, but too often, what these books give is an image of someone to *help*, rather than someone to befriend spontaneously. As an example, I've read reviewers of other books who stated that after a class read the book, the kids argued over who would get to help her child. This just seems a little distancing to me, as if the child is a project rather than a true friend. _Susan Laughs_, on the other hand, really introduces a delightful little girl. (When I read picture books to kids, I treat the characters as people for them to meet.) It tells about her interests and personality, offset by vivid and quirky illustrations, and NOT ABOUT HER DISABILITY! Her disability is part of her, as they see on the last page, but it is not a separate *strangeness*, as books with "Special" in the titles seem to imply. They really liked Susan because she did the things they did--and the kids knew this because they met Susan first, and not her wheelchair. This book flawlessly presents proof that children with disabilities are, in personality, sense of humor, and soul, just like other children. I can't imagine why no one presented this theme in such a manner before--if you're going to say a disabled child is just like you, put her seamlessly in fun, everyday situations. That *proves* it--that speaks so much better than explaining a disability and then having to *convince* readers of their similarity. "Special" books risk implying that the disability is a foreign thing or something wrong that must be given charity. I can't stress enough how important _Susan Laughs_ is. Every parent of small children and every school librarian should read this book aloud to their kids at the earliest age possible, before the prejudice seeps in. Children do not know that something is "wrong" with another child unless adults present it that way. If children meet Susan, they hopefully will understand that they truly can make friends with disabled children--that they all have things in common to talk and joke about, and they don't have to be awkward around each other. I know you can't reach all kids and there's still teasing and worse, but I really think the concept this book espouses is vital and could have a tremendous effect on the self-esteem of kids with disabilities if this book is taught early enough. Please--if you are a parent or a librarian or anyone interested in working with kids, buy this book and read it to them. There are so many teenagers and adults who have not yet grasped this concept. While they may or may not change their minds after reading this, I am confident that young children will come away with a vastly different view of disabilities than the one I suffered under, and maybe there won't be such a struggle to *prove* equality as there once was. Please really think about this book.
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