Joined at the Heart: The Transformation of the American Family (Paperback)

by Al Gore (Author), Tipper Gore (Author) "As Susan Fadley was walking down the aisle to say "I do," she knew she was making a big mistake..." (more)
Key Phrases: family resilience, resilient families, United States, World War, Big Man (more...)

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly
"For us, as for most Americans," write the former vice-president and his wife, "family is our bedrock, and we believe the strength of the American family is the nation's bedrock." But the American family has changed substantially in the last half century and so have the cultural and economic conditions under which it exists. The families the Gores have encountered in a decade of research reflect these changes: one couple has children from the husband's three different relationships, a gay white couple adopts two black children, a single mother struggles with poverty. The couple add stories from their own marriage and consult with historians, sociologists, psychologists and educators, giving the American family the same comprehensive treatment Al's Earth in the Balance gave the environment. Al and Tipper examine subjects as diverse as the increased divorce rate, the parent-teen gap, dual-income households and the health problems associated with sleep deprivation. They divide the book into themes, including love, communication, work, play and community, and show how these factors influence one another, taking a holistic approach to the underlying problems affecting today's families. Yet although they declare America should "provide every possible support to those most important to us," they make very few firm recommendations on government policy; those reading with an eye toward identifying planks in another Gore presidential campaign will have their work cut out for them. Photos not seen by PW.
Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

From Library Journal
Coauthoring this very readable work, the Gores affirm their respect and support for culturally and structurally variant American families, loving individuals committed to each other's welfare. Based on personal experiences and interviews with others in traditional and nontraditional relationships, the authors offer a sampling of caring individuals struggling to balance family, work, play, and community to support one another, adults and children, together with the future of this country. The Gores relate these families' experiences to the environments in which they live, offering a critique of the social programs needed to support successful family life: affordable shelter, reliable and competent child care, pre- and post-school time supervised activities, employee family-leave provisions, well-run community facilities, and services for all age levels. They argue that it is increasingly critical to maintain and grow our country's various sources of "social capital," to understand and support families, the too often unacknowledged vital units of our American society. This convincing, multiresourced work is recommended for public and academic library purchase. [Previewed in Prepub Alert, LJ 7/02; also released this November is The Spirit of the Family, a photography book edited by the Gores.-Ed.]-Suzanne W. Wood, formerly with SUNY Coll. of Technology at Alfre.
--Suzanne W. Wood, formerly with SUNY Coll. of Technology at Alfred
Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 432 pages
• Publisher: Holt Paperbacks; 2 Reprint edition (November 1, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0805074503
• ISBN-13: 978-0805074505
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 5.7 x 1.1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 3.1 out of 5 stars See all reviews (66 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,404,484 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars This Book Shows Tolerance is Big Issue, April 27, 2004

By	Jeffrey C Mc Andrew (Wisconsin, USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Joined at the Heart: The Transformation of the American Family (Signed Edition) (Hardcover)

This was a wonderfully refreshing book. It's so important to teach our children tolerance in this day and age where there is too much competition, warfare and discrimmination. I hope my son Ryan reads this book some day and realizes that what the Gores are saying is not just politically correct garbage as the extremist republicans would say. The message in this book is similar to what Ghandi meant when he said "All men are brothers." In elementary school, my son got an award for friendship and tolerance. I would hope some bigots and racists in this country who fail to see we are all one family would start to get it. Jesus commanded us to love one another.

This book took guts to write, and I'm proud of the Gores.

15 of 21 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars A wandering path..., December 18, 2002

By	John Zxerce "[e-mail]" (Colorado ^^^) - See all my reviews (TOP 1000 REVIEWER)

This review is from: Joined at the Heart: The Transformation of the American Family (Hardcover)

I was shocked and truly disappointed when the Gores decided not to run in '04. However, I was also disappointed in this book of theirs.

The Gores write about how the 'family' is changing, but they don't really define what `family' is. In other words, what is essential to 'family' which cannot change? What is necessary? Are college roommates 'family'? Are co-workers 'family'? Are people who ride the bus together 'family'? I think the Gores fail to make a distinction between the `family' and `community' -- possibly in the hopes of being all-inclusive. As a result, they're political correctness ends up turning the entity of the family into a watery, vanilla mush.

An additional disappointment was that the Gores make very few suggestions/recommendations on how to improve or strengthen the family. They site statistics and problems, but no answers. That's frustrating. They spent an entire book on the subject, but don't have any solutions?

The Gores explore many ways in which the idea of family is being redefined. However, I wish they had explained why some of those changes are 'bad' and some are 'good'. That is, day-care is viewed as bad, but alternative family make-up is viewed as good. What are they using to determine their what the family should be? Is it personal preference? Is it unchangable principle? Is it polling data? This is unclear.

In short, this book is little more than a few personal experiences and some general observations. It could have been so much more.

19 of 27 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars Wanted to see what all the fuss was about, December 8, 2002

By	"debcee" (United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Joined at the Heart: The Transformation of the American Family (Audio Cassette)

After reading such widely-divergent reviews, I had to see what was really "stirring the pot" here. The book was curiously disappointing; I kept hoping for more substance, something more than easy platitudes about what the American family means. Is this the place that the family-oriented Mr. and Mrs. Gore have come in their lives, a place where there are no fresh ideas or solutions? While some of the descriptions were intended to be and did appear tender, I was bothered by the selectivity, thinking of the families whose stories weren't represented here. (Actually, I was more impressed by the sincerity of the Tipper Gore who stood up to big record companies in the name of family values to stop profane and violent lyrics, than the one who co-wrote this book.) Unfortunately, this effort seems to straddle between being for family values and an apologia for those who would erode the standards that "family values" require. I didn't hate it, but it didn't engage me either.