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Raday, known among her friends as a “pot-smoking feminist,” goes on a blind date with Barrett, an Oakland police officer, West Point graduate, and major in the Army Reserve—a “redneck soldier turned cop.” Despite vast differences in their politics and philosophical attitudes toward minorities and the oppressed, Sophia is drawn to the contrast between Barrett’s life as a cop and the more vulnerable man she comes to know. They marry—in a free-spirited ceremony where “tattooed former marines dance among tattooed lesbians”—and have a baby boy, Niko, shortly before 9/11. Barrett’s concern for Niko’s safety leads to his request that Sophia stay on guard in “Condition Yellow.” When Barrett is called back to active military duty and deployed to Iraq, Sophia struggles in the role of military wife. Even as they adopt a daughter from Guatemala, Raday fears she and Barrett will increasingly “spin out into separate worlds.” Hers is a refreshing and penetrating look at how respect and willingness to compromise can span seemingly unbridgeable gaps in a marriage founded on differences more than commonalities. --Deborah Donovan


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“As we follow this story of love between a peace-seeking idealist and a police officer/Army Reserve soldier, we find ourselves longing not only for the success of their relationship but also for the repair of our nation. Raday gives us an insightful snapshot of our war with Iraq, a fascinating view of military and police life from the inside, and a page-turner of a love story all in one breath.”
—Sybil Lockhart, author of Mother in the Middle
 
“All marriages are a bit of a journey to the foreign country that is another’s mind and heart, but Sophia Raday’s remarkable Love in Condition Yellow takes us on a true adventure: into a marriage that is both riven and strengthened by political differences that run nearly as deep as those that divide our country. Raday shows us the empathetic imagination behind true respect for those with whom one differs, and in her clear-sighted portrait of the complexities of marriage, she shows us what love is, as well.”
—Julia Scheeres, author of Jesus Land
 
“Compelling, lively, and insightful. Having married into a foreign culture—one that melds American law enforcement and the United States Army—Sophia Raday has written a witty, nuanced memoir that is both a love story and an anthropological expedition of discovery.”
—Rick Atkinson, Pulitzer Prize–winning author of An Army at Dawn
 
“This deeply engaging memoir by ‘a military wife in Berkeley’ offers a critical lesson for our time. With a stubborn refusal to disregard those whose beliefs she so passionately struggles against, Sophia Raday demonstrates the value of incorporating difference in the creation of a durable bond. Love in Condition Yellow is so fresh and funny that you won’t expect it to make you want to cry too, but it will.”                                                               
—Alexandra Marshall, author of Gus in Bronze and The Court of Common Pleas
 
“Incrementally, bravely, honestly, Raday takes the reader into a territory where love and war trump politics. With an open heart and mind, she offers a fascinating, behind-the-scenes look into what it’s really like to be a soldier’s wife during the Iraq War. As in the best memoirs, the reader is enlightened and enlarged by a true life that’s rendered faithfully and artfully for the page.”
—Karen Propp, coeditor of Why I’m Still Married
 
“Captivating, insightful, effortless to read, I could not put this American love story down. Raday deftly weaves a poignant and highly entertaining tale of a marriage that heals various fractures in the American body politic. A meditation on love, fear, conviction, and letting go, this book will resonate with anyone who has struggled with differences in love or with family and friends.”
—Caroline Paul, author of Fighting Fire and East Wind, Rain

 
"Besides a clear understanding of who she is and what she wants, Raday has a solid sense of humor, an ear for dialogue and an eye for telling detail."
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 216 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press (May 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807072834
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807072837
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.7 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #174,334 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars The right balance, April 27, 2009
By Ms. Donna (oakland, ca) - See all my reviews
I loved this book! Memoirs are hard - and Sophia Raday has written an engaging one that feels complex enough to keep a reader intrigued even if they didn't directly relate to her experience. Interweaving politics, romance, love, marriage, setting, and history, I felt she added depth and weight to what has the potential to be the most flyaway of topics - "this is how we fell in love". There are so many ways in which her story can be relevant to a myriad of readers. I find her writing to be introspective without being narcissistic and particularly enjoyed the structure of the chapters - each with its appropriate reference lead-in. I definitely recommend it and would read it again.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A fascinating read on acceptance and learning to love your reflection in another's eyes, May 17, 2009
By Catherine Maready (Wilmington, NC USA) - See all my reviews
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Love weaves an unlikely path in this beautifully written story. A truly honest exposure of the heart and a naked view of the complexity of marriage and relationships. It made me look at my own weaknesses and preconceived ideals and see a tapestry that I was not expecting. I could not put this book down and am anxiously waiting for another book by Raday. Bravo.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Beautifully written memoir of a bipartisan marriage, May 14, 2009
Sophia Raday didn't intend to fall in love with her husband. She went on a blind date with him on a lark, figuring that a hippie like her and a Republican cop like him would be like oil and water. One date turned into another, then another, and... love! Raday is an entertaining writer, and her book reveals how even squishy liberals can be hardheaded while tough conservatives can be softer than you think.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Sure to please many a reader looking for a work of true romance
'Opposites attract' - this proverb proves itself true in so many strange ways. "Love in Condition Yellow: A Memoir of an Unlikely Marriage" tells the tale of two opposites, a... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Midwest Book Review

5.0 out of 5 stars Hope for us all!
Amid increasing political polarization within our nation, Ms. Raday writes of learning to love and learn across the partisan divide. Read more
Published 4 months ago by J. Kaplan

5.0 out of 5 stars Anatomy of a complex relationship
The cover of this book says it all: a pair of combat boots next to a pair of sandals. Sophia Raday, feminist activists, meets and ultimately marries Barrett McAllister, who's all... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Dr Cathy Goodwin

4.0 out of 5 stars glad i read it, sir
Great book. Sent to me as a promo contest from the publisher and am glad I got it. Raised a lot of excellent points in making a marriage work. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Lauren

5.0 out of 5 stars A timely, engaging memoir
This is a beautifully-written, engaging, honest look at what happened when Raday, a Stanford-educated Berkeley resident and peace activist, found herself falling in love with... Read more
Published 5 months ago by Caroline M. Grant

5.0 out of 5 stars A Great Pick for a Book Group!
I loved this book! I practically inhaled it -- I read it in under 48 hours and passed it on to two other friends who did the same. Read more
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