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Providing further evidence of the fine line between being a dorky loser and a pop-culture superhero (William Hung, anyone?), this is Hyman's attempt to turn his failures at love, life and employment into a cash cow. What's in it for readers? "Well, very little," admits Hyman, a Manhattan writer and occasional stand-up comedian, but it "beats a kick in the teeth, or being shipped off to fight in Iraq." A metrosexual, Hyman reminds us, is a straight guy in touch with his feminine side, one who appreciates "expensive home furnishings, good grooming, and heirloom tomatoes." Actually, Hyman comes off as an everyman probing the outer edges of modern, mainstream, urban existence, and his essays recount his exploits with startling, often hilarious results. He recalls his appointment with Hans, a gay masseur whose hands get a little too close "to the unauthorized no-man's–land," and an aborted attempt at a ménage à trois that ends up having "all the erotic panache of a Three Stooges episode." Another chapter tells of Hyman's night on the town wearing leather pants, which prompts the astute observation, "sometimes the idea of something is better than the thing itself." Hyman's stories have funny setups, and his conversational, easy-to-read prose carries a weird poignancy.
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It's an urban jungle out there--especially for an arrow-straight male in touch with his feminine side. From flat-front trousers to oatmeal facial scrubs to fine interior design, this wry debut gathers the chromosomal contemplations of a "metrosexual"--a modern-day "X"-man who can't help but wonder "Y." Law-school dropout, former Vanity Fair staffer, and confirmed heterosexual Hyman covets the tony Manhattan lifestyle--the classy girlfriend, the well-appointed co-op apartment, the career that gains him entree into the exclusive Upper West Side. Instead, his world is a veritable dim sum of bewildering social encounters--dates who vomit, a luscious threesome that goes limp, and a handsome massage therapist with a curious "release" technique. All the while, men and women gaze at the author's slight build and natty dress and conclude that he's gay. (A writing assignment requiring him to wear a leather ensemble worthy of the Village People does little to dissuade.) A master of self-deprecation in the spirit of Joe Queenan and P. J. O'Rourke, Hyman takes on contemporary culture with a scalpel and a smirk. Allison Block
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Villard (July 27, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0812971639
  • ISBN-13: 978-0812971637
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.2 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #696,764 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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1.0 out of 5 stars Not Worth Your Time, December 5, 2004
By AshokLA (Los Angeles, CA United States) - See all my reviews
When I bought this book, I was hoping for clever, funny, insightful essays on modern urban life. Instead, the book contains a series of essays trying to be clever, funny and insightful and not succeeding. I am actually perplexed that these weak essays which were probably rejected by GQ, the New Yorker, the NY Times Magazine and probably even by Los Angeles and Gear were ever published in book form.

The essays cover various aspects of the author's city life. The lack of insight and humor would be ok if his life was interesting on its own but it is not. It is a life shared by or familiar to most urban Americans. Hyman's book is like an unsuccessful version of the "recognition humor" practiced by Jerry Seinfeld. (You can imagine Hyman in a club saying "How about that internet dating," getting a few chuckles, and then silence as the follow up observations fall flat).

It is possible that the book could prove of some anthropological interest to some rural or outer suburban readers who are not familiar with city dwellers and for that one star.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Funny and enjoyable but not 5 stars for gosh sakes..., September 3, 2004
By Anne Terry "chikwik" (Southfield, MI USA) - See all my reviews
Read it in the airport and on a flight from Boston to the midwest, so it's a very quick read. It was very funny, but didn't stay with me. Sort of like having a conversation with an interesting seatmate on an airplane. It passes the time, (or in this case, make a living for the author) and is amusing, but just that.

This book consists of brief, supposedly autobiographical essays from a year in his life. I wonder how much was true, and how much was strictly his vivid imagination. I hope this author does write the great american novel, since I really like his style, but I won't recommend this book to most people.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Wannabe Flops Big, October 23, 2004
By Goshen (Ypsilanti, MI United States) - See all my reviews
As mentioned by a reviewer below, this self-styled, supposedly-self-deprecating wannabe hipster has written a shallow, not-funny book. He tries hard to be funny in every sentence, which gets tiresome (and fails). All the expensive-name-brand-dropping had me rolling my eyes. If he was showing any talent whatsoever back in law school, I think it was a mistake for him to drop it for "his life as a writer" instead. I get the feeling that this collection of essays was meant to attract the same audience that reads authors like David Sedaris and David Rakoff. Those authors, however, have genuinely comic voices and some hilarious stories to tell, whereas Hyman may not be lying when he asserts that he's just out to catch the wave of a trendy concept. (Perhaps not unlike the difference between "homo" and "metro" in general?)
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4.0 out of 5 stars Not reluctant at all
Hyman is anything but reluctant. He is a born metrosexual who tries too hard to charm the reader. He is funny and would be a lot funnier if he stopped trying to be charming... Read more
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2.0 out of 5 stars Paean to a pathetic and pointless lifestyle
If there is one thing to say about "The Reluctant Metrosexual," it is that I managed to make it to the end. Read more
Published on May 5, 2007 by Jean E. Pouliot

4.0 out of 5 stars get it as book on tape
although the material and genre aren't particularly new, this was a nonetheless amusing listen. I would recommend listening to it either on a boring drive or to multitask as it... Read more
Published on July 13, 2006 by Gift Card Recipient

4.0 out of 5 stars inspiring, sardonic growing-up essays
"The Reluctant Metrosexual" is styled as an exploration of the phenomenon of the stylish, straight man; however, it is much more a story of growing up in an era when the phrase... Read more
Published on May 14, 2005 by erica

4.0 out of 5 stars The boy has skills!!!
I picked this book up on a whim thinking it would be an interesting diversion from the novels, biographies, and science books that I normally read and I was pleasantly surprised... Read more
Published on February 4, 2005 by Paul D. Mussington

5.0 out of 5 stars Bk. travels well, as any (reluctant) metrosexual might

I just returned from a trip to Cancun, and the experience was definitely enhanced by taking The Reluctant Metrosexual along with me. Read more
Published on January 28, 2005 by June M. Scharf

3.0 out of 5 stars Good, quick read
The Reluctant Metrosexual is one of those books that you can polish off in a reading or two. It has its funny sections and the yawn sections. Read more
Published on December 13, 2004 by J. Aragon

3.0 out of 5 stars The writer's life in the big city
The Reluctant Metrosexual is a mostly enjoyable collection of autobiographical essays by Peter Hyman, a single (apparently unhappily so) thirty-something writer who identifies... Read more
Published on November 10, 2004 by Lleu Christopher

2.0 out of 5 stars Glib, sardonic, mildly amusing
In The Reluctant Metrosexual : Dispatches from an Almost Hip Life peter Hyman provides an updated window into the slacker lifestyle. Read more
Published on November 10, 2004 by David J. Gannon

3.0 out of 5 stars Interesting and funny, but not 4 star literature!!!
I read this book for my book club. While I enjoyed it and was amused, I thought it was too full of pop culture references that would cause this book to be meaningless in a handful... Read more
Published on October 31, 2004 by Deirdre M. Heck

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