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Hard Won Wisdom From The School Of Hard Knocks: How To Avoid A Fight And Things To Do When You Can’t Or Don’t Want To (Paperback)

by Alain Burrese (Author)
4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (10 customer reviews)


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Product Description
This is not a book on how to become a martial arts master or squash folks like bugs. It's a highly entertaining private b.s. session with the author on fights, brawls and general mayhem that manages to convey a lot of serious info on fighting and violence.

About the Author
Alain Burrese is a veteran U.S. Army sniper who learned the art of hapkido while stationed in South Korea. In addition to his formal martial arts study, he has worked extensively as a bouncer, bodyguard and security specialist and has an exceptional understanding of the difference between fighting theory and reality.

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  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Paladin Press (November 1996)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0873649052
  • ISBN-13: 978-0873649056
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.4 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,753,118 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Alain knows his stuf, December 14, 2002
By Operator (Dallas, TX United States) - See all my reviews
This book will not teach you how to become a killer ninja-commando or how to prevail in your next no-holds-barred fighting event. What it does give is a great deal of common sense wisdom that is not so common in the world of martial arts. The martial arts world seems to get so bogged down in the minutiae of whether or not the mount is the preferred position or the guard or other such idiocy that we often lose focus on the truly important aspects of self defense - awareness, avoidance, legal repercussions and that violance is, at best, always a risky undertaking. Even the best practicioners can lose. Lose on the street and you may lose your life.
Mr. Burrese knows these truths and presents them in an easily read format with lots of "war stories" that keep the reader interested and entertained while educating at the same time, which is no mean feat. My kuddos to Mr. Burrese. As a 11 year veteran in law enforcement I could tell some war stories of my own, and probably would if someone would pay me to, but I ain't holding my breath.
The only flaw I can point out is less material devoted to legal issues, which are an important part of real self defense. The simple fact that these issues are broached, however, makes this work light years ahead of the majority of drivel put out as self defense instruction.
I highly recommend this book, particularly to those whose only exposure to martial arts and/or self defense has been in the dojo. It has been said that the wise man learns from the mistakes of others. Do yourself a favor - learn from Mr. Burrese's mistakes as well as his successes.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Hard Won Wisdom...Take Advantage of His Experiences, June 7, 2001
By Melinda B. Kidder (Kansas City, Missouri) - See all my reviews
Alain Burrese shares his experiences with us in order that we might learn from his mistakes and his triumphs. Burrese writes in a witty prose which is not too technical for the beginning martial artist and not too boring for the masters. I think we can all relate to the stories Alain weaves even if we havent experienced the situations first hand.

Burrese is a talented martial artist, author, video instructor (Hapkido Hoshinsul), public speaker, motivator and an all around altruistic individual. His stories are told with a sense of wit and that "hard won wisdom" which makes him an entertaining authority on his subject.

Burrese, whose closest friends include Mark "Animal" MacYoung and Peyton Quinn, is a streetfighter who knows when to step back or walk away. He understands the desire to fight, how to win one, and how to avoid one.

He relates some great stories of awareness, bar brawls, street fights, and much more. The guy is a true warrior, an excellent martial artist, and a good man.

Buy the book.

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Outstanding!, May 16, 2001
By Loren w Christensen (Portland, Oregon) - See all my reviews
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As a veteran of fighting in the real world, Alain Bureese does not glorify street fighting, bar brawling, fighting over women, or fighting for no other reason than a need to kick somebody's butt.

He titles his first chapter, "A Little about the Game" but then points out in the first sentence that fighting is not a game. He says it this way. "Serious consequences happen when people fight. People get hurt and people get killed. Many wind up behind bars, and unlike in Jailhouse Rock, it's not fun spending time in prison on a manslaughter charge for killing a guy in a fight."

Hard-Won Wisdom contains a slew of self-defense techniques, concepts and principles that the author has found applicable from his many years traveling around the world and frequenting some very rough places.

However, the book is also about the nature of fighting and ways you can avoid it. He says: "There are people who become addicted to and like violent encounters. How you handle these feelings determines what kind of person you are. The first step to overcoming the problem is recognizing the feeling. The next step is to realize and determine what brings it out. This takes a lot of introspection, but it can be worth the trouble. You learn this about yourself and control it - or it will control you. Remember, it gets expensive paying for things you break and people you hurt."

Hard-Won Wisdom from the School of Hard Knocks is applicable to the needs of police officers and martial artists, not only for the techniques that it teaches but for what it teaches about the nature of fighting toe-to-toe. The book will not only help you understand some of the dangerous people you encounter every day, but it will also help you understand yourself.

As an author of 13 books on the martial arts, I highly recommend this one.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Required Reading with a Notepad and Pen
Being the author of several books on the martial arts and fighting, I am always looking for books of exceptional quality to add to my library. Read more
Published on October 8, 2006 by Shawn Kovacich

5.0 out of 5 stars right on target fantastic!
this is the first book that really gets in there and tells the truth. Alain has the right stuff,he deals with the good and bad. Read more
Published on February 13, 2002 by eric hefley

5.0 out of 5 stars Reality
Alain has shared his life experiance with the readers in a way that will help them stay in touch with reality.I have learnt from this book after doing Security work for 14 years.
Published on May 18, 2001 by CARL FROM OZ

5.0 out of 5 stars My favorite book on why not to carry a handgun
Burrese is not afraid to give his honest opinion about what to do when faced with a gun: Turn and run! Read more
Published on September 7, 1999

5.0 out of 5 stars A Practical and realistic look at fighting
Alains experiences and trainning benefit us all by looking at real live situations in fighting and not fighting his insights are a no -nonsense way of the choices we can and do... Read more
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4.0 out of 5 stars An Entertaining, Educational Book
I was skeptical of this book at first, not having had *any* fighting experience. I was hoping it wouldn't be a book about ways to fight, and I bought it partly because of its... Read more
Published on September 20, 1998 by Gregory Glass (gregory@kuentos...

4.0 out of 5 stars A worthwhile book, full of common sense.
Hard Won Wisdom is a book about NOT fighting. That's what makes it so worthwhile. There have been hundreds of books written about fighting and how to win fights. Read more
Published on July 31, 1998 by Laura Kamienski

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