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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
When sibling fights will stop, March 17, 2002
Every family with more than one child experiences sibling rivalry.It's not always the same, however, when one child was adopted and another was born into the family. Sure, you still have the usual "he said," "no, she said" fights, spats over ownership of toys and games--and who gets first dibs on the sofa to read their favorite book. But this book addresses the special kind of rivalry that arises between a child who looks like her parents and one who is shorter, more plump and has different hair. The second will one day say, "You love her more, because she came from your tummy." Parents don't, of course, love biological children more than their adopted children. But kids need to hear that--over and over and over again. This book helps get the message across. Lots of things happen in the story, and I won't give them away. But this nugget is what your adopted child wants to hear: "I carried you around in my heart for a very long time," Lucy's mom assures her. "And while I waited, I thought...about how it would be when I held you close,...the songs we would sing and the places we would go. Then my heart would start beating very fast, and I would think, 'Now that's my baby kicking...away at my heart'." When both children understand, that's when the fighting will stop. Alyssa A. Lappen
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