How to Date Young Women: For Men over 35 vol II (Advanced Skills) (Paperback)

~ R. Don Steele (Author)

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After 12 more years of learning the hard way, R. Don Steele returns! Tighten your jock! Read his brutally honest answers to questions and what-if scenarios from more than 6000 readers. Stir in the results of 32 seminars, over 1000 counseling sessions, 274 radio interviews and 4 national TV appearances and you're in for an exhilarating experience.

Realistic methods and sound advice from a guy who has been at this since he was 32! Now 58, and married, yes, married, to Joanna Bardot Lopez, 24, Steele forcefully expands his kickass, no-nonsense approach. He has included FOR MARRIED MEN OVER 35!

Volume II-Advanced Skills is strictly designed for the 70,000 buyers of How To Date Young Women For Men Over 35. If you have not read that book, you should see it first!

From the Author

To get the most out of this book, you should first read one of the 65,000 copies of How To Date Young Women For Men Over 35 sold since 1987.

Body Language Secrets was published in May of 1997 and sold 15,000 copies in just over a year! You'll also need to read it to fully benefit from this book.

I have received over 4000 letters from guys. In September of 1997, my newsletter, Men Of Steel Balls, began publication as well as being posted on the internet. Over 2200 guys have emailed me with their feedback and questions since then!

This book is a combination of what guys have asked about and what I have learned the hard way since 1987.

The Foreword of The Revised Edition is reprinted here because 40,000 readers didn't get to see it. Please read it. If you do, everything in this book will make a lot more sense, plus it will stay in your head, and your heart, much longer.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 333 pages
• Publisher: SBP (CA); 1 edition (December 15, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0962067172
• ISBN-13: 978-0962067174
• Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.3 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (72 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #160,287 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Staight forward help for the dating man, April 12, 1999

By A Customer

This book, volume II in the series, should be read after thoroughly digesting volume 1. I have found Steele's advice invaluable in dating women of all ages, with the younger ones being the most challenging for the older guy. In my experience, dating was incredibly easy in my college years and early twenties, due to the availability of single women and the proximity, one didn't really need any skills to speak of...just show up at social events and talk to them. Later in life however, it's a completely different game, one that I wasn't prepared for, even the "rules" of the game weren't obvious. Steele's books help with all that, in working continuously, learning from your own mistakes and benefitting from Steele's experiences and that of his many readers.

The format of his books is just terrific. The material is incredibly well-organized, important points are emphasized and re-emphasized, the writing is funny and to the point, and he's very clear and direct on his topic. If you're unhappy with your dating life, not confident with women, or even unsure of your role as a man in life, get these books and start working with them!

26 of 33 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars The Only Dating Book You'll Ever Need, March 15, 2005

By	Alan Lane - See all my reviews

Do you really want to find, meet, talk, date, and then mate young women (say, under age 25)? There are only two ways to do this: first, you can be young (under age 35), within 5-7 years of their age range, and unmarried. Then young women will crawl out of the woodwork to try and meet you, and marry you.

But, if you're over 35, then you need to read this book. Very few yong women (25 years old and under) want to date a man over 35, unless he is of a special type. That special type of man is attractive to younger women, but it isn't easy reaching this state. I speak from experience, I'm over 50, and by reading this book, and its companion volume I, I have successfully had affairs with women age 35 and under, some as young as 21. I'm still working on it, I'm not successful all the time, but I wouldn't be able to do any of this without this book.

The interactions between men over 35 and young women have been analyzed and understood thoroughly by the author of this book, R. Don Steele. Believe me, he knows what he's talking about. He's been there, he knows what you have to do to obtain relationships which are unusual in our society: an older man with a much younger woman. He will take you step-by-step through all the phases of becoming the type of man that attracts young women, and can successfully date and have love affairs with them.

This is not a "pick-up" book. Actually, "picking up" younger women only works for younger men, because in actuality the woman is selecting the younger man, but he doesn't know it. Men over 35 cannot "pick up" a young woman, and any book that tells you otherwise is false. I know this from experience, I once believed I could "pick-up" young women. But after many failures I read this book, and realized the secret to success was to have many interactions with young women, and let one of them choose me. As strange as that sounds, that's the way the real world works, and if you want to make love to a younger woman and you're over 35, you'll have to accept that.

The book will tell you how to have those interactions, how to recognize the woman interested in you, and how to initiate a conversation with her. Then, it will take you through the process of your selection of you as a sexual mate by testing you, using questions and manipulations that you, at first, will not be aware of. If you answer properly by being a man, and pass her tests, then she may let you be her sexual partner. The book will explain all this, and more, because the tests will continue at increasing levels of intensity. If you show you're a man, and pass the tests, then you can continue with a young woman. Fail, act like a boy, or disappoint her by not acting like a strong, independent male, and she will walk out of your life forever.

Take my word for it, none of this may make sense to you now, but get the book, read it, follow it's teachings, and you'll see the complexity of the older male/younger female interaction. And then you'll be successful, if you're man enough. I strongly recommend this book to all men over 35 who want to date younger women, because there is no other book like it on the market. This is truth, ready to be used by you.

32 of 42 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars Grandpa Goes Gunnin' for the Young Ones!, January 24, 2001

By A Customer

This elderly author has made a cottage industry out of a very limited number of observations about the dating scene. Most of his few worthy points are lifted out of "A Man's Guide to Women", which he did not write. Curiously, for all his preaching about being a man, this guy writes under the phony name of R. Don Steele. And he points out late in the book that even he has met with limited success using his strategies and that the young women he does nab dated him usually less than a year. Volume 2 is just a continuation of Vol. 1, no new tips or strategies. His books are surprisingly crude, even considering he is self-published, reading them is like swimming in cement. Combined with his controversial online behavior, the author continously displays a dominating demeanor which wouldn't work on an educated or emotionally healthy young woman. Just about any other relationship work available here would be better than this waste of time and money.