Does the idea of babies who don't need diapers seem impossible? Well it's not, according to Laurie Boucke, mother of three.
Boucke says she was initially skeptical but decided to try the infant potty training with her third son. This was the beginning of her impetus to research diaperless infancy in other cultures and to write the book. She reports that her son never needed a diaper (unless he was ill) after the age of three months.
What about sphincter muscles? Can babies really control this function? Boucke says that although the ability to HOLD isn't developed until two or three years of age, the ability to LET GO is developed much earlier than that.
The parent is totally responsible for everything in this technique. It takes some time investment at first... Boucke emphasizes that any mistakes are part of the parental learning experience and anger should never be directed at the child. -- Lisa Reid, PurseStrings, Sept 1997
Doing Without Diapers Each year approximately five million tons of disposable diapers accumulate in the US landfills.
In a detailed, easy-to-read book called Trickle Treat, Laurie Boucke explains how to practice what some Indians, Africans and Asians have done for centuries--toilet-training from infancy. Until the 1990s, infant potty training was common in the US and was, in fact, even advocated by the federal government.
Boucke emphasizes that, while "a baby cannot voluntarily retain or hold in with the muscles, it can learn to release the natural tension upon conditioned response."
A baby's body language and natural timing indicate when the child needs to "go." Then the parent places the baby over the designated receptacle, gives a standard verbal signal and lets nature take over.
Boucke believes that returning to diaperless days will not only be good for the environment and for the kids, but it will also save parents time, money and work in the long-run. -- Earth Island Journal, Summer 1996
While the debate over cloth versus disposable diapers still rages in some parts, Laurie Boucke advocates a method to bypass the whole issue.
Ms. Boucke's first two children were toilet-trained in the conventional Western manner. Shortly before the birth of her third son, she became friends with a young mother from India who told her they don't rely on diapers "back home." The friend pointed out that there was no reason to get children accustomed to wearing diapers only to then turn around and show displeasure if they soiled them. Ms. Boucke was skeptical, but after seeing it work with her friend's baby, she started the mostly diaperless training on her three-month-old son. He was completely toilet- trained shortly after he learned to walk.
Trickle Treat shows how to teach your own baby to go the diaperless route. Laurie Boucke takes phone calls and provides free advice to anyone who gives it a try. -- Green Living, Summer 1995