Boundary Power: How I Treat You, How I Let You Treat Me, How I Treat Myself [Paperback]

Mike O'Neil (Author), Charles E. Newbold (Author)

Product Details

• Paperback: 181 pages
• Publisher: Sonlight Publishing; 2 edition (December 1994)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0963345427
• ISBN-13: 978-0963345424
• Product Dimensions: 10.9 x 8.5 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
• Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #60,502 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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31 of 32 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars *The* Best Boundary Book Available, August 13, 2002

By	S. Seaborne "s-seaborne" (Woodbridge, VA United States) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This review is from: Boundary Power: How I Treat You, How I Let You Treat Me, How I Treat Myself (Paperback)

This workbook explains the concept of boundaries, helps readers learn how to identify unhealthy boundaries, and learn to set new, healthier boundaries on all levels. It doesn't shy away from the tough questions, like "How have you violated someone's boundary recently?" Although from a Christian perspective, and containing a full (and excellent) chapter on religious boundary violations, those of other persuasions--including atheists--could overlook the slight religious content and benefit greatly by working through the book.

11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars "Boundary Power" is an excellent tool, July 19, 2007

By	Counselor in Washington (Everett, WA USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Boundary Power: How I Treat You, How I Let You Treat Me, How I Treat Myself (Paperback)

I disagree with the perspective expressed by a few others that this book is too Christian oriented. It contains very little Christian content and this can be skipped if desired without taking away from the rest of the book. Perhaps the book "Boundaries" by Drs Henry Cloud and John Townsend has been mistaken for "Boundary Power." In fact, "Boundary Power" discusses abusive religious systems and practices that violate personal boundaries.

I am a mental health counselor, and I find that many of my clients have unhealthy boundaries that cause them to be taken advantage of or be victimized. This book points out what boundaries are, where we learn them, and why they are necessary. It gives numerous examples of both healthy and unhealthy boundaries while guiding the reader to examine their own boundaries and to develop. I recommend it.

21 of 25 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing book!, November 5, 2002

By A Customer

This review is from: Boundary Power: How I Treat You, How I Let You Treat Me, How I Treat Myself (Paperback)

I am a social worker. I had this book on my shelf for two years but it lay there untouched until today. I rediscovered it when I was going through my bookshelf to try to find something to help some friends who are struggling in their marriage.

I took the book home to read and couldn't put it down. The authors speak compassionately and from experience in a user-friendly style. I cried over the self-discovery of some of my own wounds that I have never let heal.

As a member of the LGBT community I would only be afraid that
people in all communities who could benefit from this book may never read it because the authors make assumptions about sexual orientation and nuclear families....but I will still enthusiasticly recommend it (with a grain of rainbow salt) to everyone I know. To the authors....THANK YOU...and best wishes with your continued recovery.