Dancing Naked in Front of the Fridge: And Other Lessons From Twins (Paperback)

~ Nancy J. Sipes (Author)

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

In straightforward, user-friendly language, the identical twin authors of this combination self-help/psychology tell-all of twin life seek to "unravel the mystery of twinship and reveal to non-twins what it really feels like to be a twin." Interviewing 17 sets of twins, the Sipeses come up with findings that parallel their own shared history of close relationship, although they also tackle the festering resentments, childish dependence and broken bonds that form the shadow side of twinship. Well organized and breezily upbeat, their book examines the Mobius-strip bond between twins and discusses traits, such as an uncommon tolerance for closeness, that come to bear on other intimate relationships. The authors delve into important issues like the ability to be an autonomous adult yet exist in a close relationship, and the related ability to accept others without trying to change or control them. The text, sometimes sentimental and simplistic but generally informative, is peppered with quotes from famous twins and nontwins, and appendixes list tips for twins and their parents, spouses and friends. B&w photos.
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". . .straightforward, user-friendly, breezily upbeat tell-all of twin life." -- Publisher's Weekly

"Every parent of twins should read this book, so should every twin. It is highly readable, fascinating and joy-filled." -- TWINS Magazine

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Product Details

• Paperback: 248 pages
• Publisher: Fairwinds Press (January 1, 1999)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0968214924
• ISBN-13: 978-0968214923
• Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #449,107 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars Over depentent authors' offer poor views of being twins, June 2, 2002

By A Customer

Being a twin myself I was looking forward to reading this book co-written by twins, however I was greatly disappointed by the time I finished. The obvious emotional growth problems the authors' had while growing up has caused them to give a skewed view of how twins react to each other and those around them. While being a twin does create a special bond for the two involved the authors forces tales of how being a twin can ruin marriages or other relationships. They lead you to believe that twins will never succeed on their own and that they remain dependent on each other forever. Their lack of research only offered one set of twins that liked being apart, thus they supported their own views. Although one of the authors has her PH.D, no real research was ever done, only surveys. I hope those who read this realize that not all twins grow up still connected by the umbilical cord and that twins can thrive on their own. I wouldn't recommend this book to anyone unless they have a table with one shortened leg on it.

6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars It'll touch every emotion - especially if you're a twin, September 4, 1999

By A Customer

After meeting the Sipes' in Twinsburg this past year, and getting to know them, I can really appreciate the thought and time that went into this project of theirs. Their book recounts wonderful tales of twins of all ages. You'll definitely laugh, and you may even cry. But, if you're a twin, you should definitely read the book because by reading these different tales, you'll soon realize that there are others just like you. Not just your other half, but other twins that know what you're dealing with day to day. Others that know how it feels to be a "side-show" just walking down the street. This is a delightful book and definitely deserves a second and a third reading.

9 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great guide for parents of twins, July 16, 2000

By A Customer

Being the mother of twins, I am glad to read a book that lets me see what is happening inside the twin relationship. My twins are often in their own world and this book has helped me see what it's like in there! "Dancing Naked" is very informative, yet entertaining. I think all parents of twins should read it - - you'll learn some surprising things about twins.