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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A readable, informative book for today's career woman, July 7, 2002
"Having it all" became the motif of career women of the seventies and eighties. Can women have a successful career and also fulfill what Dr. Kitaj calls "the romance plot," marriage and family? The romance plot was the ideal most women pursued in the early 20th century, leaving to males the adventuresome "quest plot." The women in this book chose the quest and became highly successful despite obstacles encountered in the workplace as well as in their personal lives. The women here are not famous in the usual sense, but all are renowned in their fields. Dr. Kitaj chose 26 women of high achievement in science and the arts. All were over 65 when she began her study, born between 1903 and 1930. They had chosen a career during the years when it was expected that women would stay home and rear children. Although they had established their careers long before the feminist movement of the seventies, they did not consider themselves as groundbreakers. Gender discrimination in the workplace was an issue, but most of the women were not entirely aware that they were experiencing it. As their stories emerge through the interviews and research done by the author, it becomes apparent that each woman used her talents in different ways in varied fields such as research, art, music, education, film, and writing to achieve personal satisfaction and eventual recognition from her peers. Each woman's background is examined, and four are singled out for a more thorough look at their lives. How did parents' attitudes, education, and family background affect these women and their lives? Many were from immigrant families. Fathers played a significant role for many of the women as well as mothers. Some were from intact families, others from broken homes. What about the romance plot? Most of the women chose to marry as well as to have a career. Husbands, both supportive and nonsupportive, also entered into the picture. Many marriages were successful, and l others ended in divorce. A very few of the women never married. A number had successful second marriages. Still others did not remarry and concentrated on their children and careers. Most of the women who married had children, and some who did not regretted having missed the opportunity to rear children. Most seemed satisfied with the way in which they had combined the romance and quest plots in their lives. Students and historians will find here a well-researched study, backed with notes, bibliography, methodology, and a comprehensive index. The sample of 26 is too small for the results to be applied to all women, or even to all prominent women. The author did, however, illuminate how and why these women made sense of their lives. Dr. Kitaj, herself a career counselor as well as a psychotherapist, discusses mentoring at length in her book. She points out that these women can become "paper mentors" to the reader. Women of any age just entering their chosen fields today may find a model to follow here even if they have no mentor in their lives. Can career women today "have it all"? This book describes 26 women who could. . .and did. . .
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