Confessions of a Womanizer (Paperback)

~ Stephen E. Chatman (Author) "At first she was attracted to my idle emotions, while I adored her quiet and cautious charm..." (more)
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Editorial Reviews

Review

...a thought provoking and eye-opening look at intimate relationships. -- Mary Mitchell , Chicago Sun-Times

Locker room talk doesn't cut it for Stephen E. Chatman, the Chicago-based author of the eyebrow-raising book, Confessions -- Christine Hsieh, Editor in Chief, UR Chicago Magazine

Product Description

Confessions is an erotic account of insightful and perplexing reflections of one man's past relationships with numerous women.Confessions is an intriguing look into the mind and heart of a man struggling to find himself. An inspirational message and a warning to those lost in relationships of convenience. Contrary to the title, this is a work of genuine compassion.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 240 pages
• Publisher: Must Read Books (February 10, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 097271491X
• ISBN-13: 978-0972714914
• Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 14.1 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 3.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,007,674 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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49 of 53 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars To commit or not, June 22, 2004

By	The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers (RAWSISTAZ.com and BlackBookReviews.net) - See all my reviews

Dare I say it...at first glimpse of this novel; I geared myself for some raunchy tales of a man's pursuit of lust and how he emotionally brutalized women in his quest for self-satisfaction. Well I admit it, I was wrong. In CONFESSIONS OF A WOMANIZER, I was wowed by Stephen E. Chatman's intense and often brutal assessment of his life as a womanizer. At one point he writes, "The curse of the womanizer is to have an attraction for what we can not have and a refusal to settle for whom we are with." He covers the full gamut of relationships from platonic to romantic and everything in between. He provides a lot of insight on what contributed to his life as a womanizer. I found myself amazed at his deep examination of self and secretly wondered if other men experienced relationships in the way he did. His account also provided me with a look at women and how we may contribute to a man's failure to make lasting commitments in relationships.

CONFESSIONS OF A WOMANIZER reads like a journal as Chatman eloquently writes of his exploits in subtle, non-demeaning ways. In one relationship he describes the anguish of just coming together, "We had all the pieces to make a great couple, but neither of us knew how to complete this puzzle." The title of this book does not invoke sympathy, but within the pages, I began to sympathize with the man and how lonely he was in his life as a womanizer. It appears as if he cries out for commitment at times and runs for the hills at others. This book will make you uncomfortable as he steps on toes with truths about relationships and roles both men and women play in them. His stories are sometimes funny, enlightening, thought-provoking and heart wrenching. This is an excellent book and one to be savored by both men and women.

Reviewed by Brenda M. Lisbon
of The RAWSISTAZ Reviewers

19 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars True Life Confessions, March 29, 2004

By	Mahogany Book Club "Mahogany Media Review" (Albany, N.Y.) - See all my reviews

I was shocked at how deep this book is. From the title it seems like a book full of erotic encounters. It isn't. What Confessions of a Womanizer is, Is true accounts of the relationships of Stephen Chatman a womanizer. The book reads like personal jounal entries. Full of deep thoughts and feelings about intimacy, love and relationships. This is true confessions and deep thoughts from the male psyche. I enjoyed this look into the mind and heart of a man.

Dawn
Mahogany, Albany, N.Y.

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Thought-provoking chronicles of the male psyche!, October 17, 2003

By	CoffeeGurl (MA) - See all my reviews (TOP 100 REVIEWER)

Forget Men Behaving Badly! Confessions of a Womanizer offers an insightful look into the male psyche with dark, thought provoking entries. Stephen Chatman floored me with this exquisite and intelligent book. As a viction of heartbreak, there are aspects that I know all too well -- however, Chatman still managed to surprise me with some rather profound thoughts and views on relationships. As I read the entries, I realized that this is more to do with general men's behavior than simple chronicles of a notorious philander. This book is an excellent gift to all women who've wondered why the men of their dreams haven't called them. It's an excellent source! Highly recommended...