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by Byron Katie (Author), Stephen Mitchell (Author) "What I love about The Work is that it allows you to go inside and fine your own happiness, to experience what already exists within..." (more)
Key Phrases: uninvestigated story, uninvestigated thoughts, having found parts, Judge-Your-Neighbor Worksheet, New York, Darth Vader (more...)
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Remember the phrase "question authority"? Loving What Is is a workbook on questioning authority--but in this case, what is in question is the authority of our own fundamental beliefs about our relationships.

Known simply as "The Work," Byron Katie's methods are clean and straightforward. The basis is a series of four questions addressed to your own lists of written assumptions. Whether you're angry with your boss, frustrated with your teen's behavior, or appalled at the state of the world's environment, Katie suggests you write down your most honest thoughts on the matter, and then begin the examination. Starting with, "Is it true?" and continuing with explorations of "Who would you be without that thought?" this method allows you to get through unhelpful preconceptions and find peace. An integral part of the process is "turning the thought around," and at first this can seem like you're simply blaming yourself for everything. Push a little harder, and you'll find a very responsible acceptance of reality, beyond questions of fault and blame.

The book is filled with examples of folks applying The Work to a variety of life situations, and reading other's examples gets the idea across pretty clearly; chances are you'll find your own frustrations echoed on the pages a few times. Many chapters are divided into specific topics, such as couples, money, addictions, and self-judgments, with one chapter devoted to exploring the method with children.

Questioning your own authority is never an easy process, but it seems well worth the potential rewards--stress-free choices, peace, and affection for those closest to you. --Jill Lightner --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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A thrice-married housewife and mother of three who once suffered from depression, Katie presents what she calls "the Work," a series of questions to help alter bad thinking patterns and reveal painful truths. So that readers might see the method in action, she has reproduced edited dialogs among herself and participants at her workshop. Direct and easy to follow, her book could indeed produce results for readers battling run-of-the-mill work and relationship problems. However, Katie and coauthor/husband Mitchell, a translator of the Bhagavad Gita, would like their audience to believe that this is heads above a standard self-help book: in Mitchell's compelling introduction, he compares Katie's process to the Socratic method and the Zen Koan and posits that it will enhance any other program or religion. These are heady claims, and it's up to the reader to decide whether the authors deliver on their promises. With the publicity campaign and author tour, there will likely be demand in public libraries. Susan Burdick, MLS, Reading, PA
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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Product Details
  • Paperback: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Three Rivers Press (December 23, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1400045371
  • ISBN-13: 978-1400045372
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.2 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.9 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars 159 customer reviews (159 customer reviews)
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Byron Katie sent the following post to customers who purchased Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life
 
8:23 AM PST, February 14, 2007, updated at 9:10 AM PST, February 18, 2007

Dear Friends,


We've just begun the book tour for A Thousand Names for Joy, and we'd love it if you can come out to support us. You can meet us at the following locations in the days ahead. Stephen and I look forward to seeing you.

 loving you, KT
www.thework.com | www.byronkatie.com

Wed., Feb. 14
[7:30 - 9:00 pm]