Getting Back Together: How to Create a New Loving Relationship With Your Old Partner and Make It Last (Paperback)

by Bettie Youngs Bilicki (Author), Masa, Ph.D. Goetz (Author) "Has the person who promised always to "love and cherish" you left?..." (more)
Key Phrases: detach with love, successful reconciliation, reunited couples, Stage Two, Stage Four, Stage Three (more...)

Editorial Reviews

Review
"Although many books have been written on how to survive the ending of a relationship, there seems to be no direction for how to re-enter a relationship successfully. This helpful and compassionate book is a blueprint for surviving the pain of separation, sorting out the pieces and reconstructing a partnership. Highly recommended!" -- Ken Druck, author of Secrets Men Keep

Product Description
You can save your relationship!

Did you know that over 80% of all married couples separate for two months or longer at some time during their marriage?

You can get back together-but it won't happen by just wishing things were "Even if right now you're the only one making the effort to salvage your relationship, you can take the essential first steps that will make it possible for you to reconcile with your partner. As Drs. Bilecki and Goetz show, many couples have faced the challenges your relationship is now facing and reconciled for good. Learn how they did it-in Getting Back Together.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 172 pages
• Publisher: Adams Media Corporation; 1st edition (November 1995)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1558508627
• ISBN-13: 978-1558508620
• Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.4 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 7.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #644,880 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great advice if separated and desiring reconciliation..., November 23, 2004

By	Phyllis C. Levine (Thousand Oaks, CA United States) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

Speaking from past personal experience, this was an excellent self-help book for me when I was newly separated. It gives basic but excellent advice on how to deal with your estranged partner, pamper and take care of yourself, etc. The main lesson here is to remain detached but cordial to your ex while working to improve yourself.

I believe that the advice in this book helped me immensely in redefining the relationship with my husband that led to our reconciliation. But even if you don't succeed, you'll walk away from your relationship a better person with your head held high and your dignity intact. Either way, it's a win-win situation.

9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Very sound advice for someone hoping to avoid divorce., July 25, 1999

By	[e-mail] (Fort Worth, Texas, USA) - See all my reviews

I sat in a Barnes and Noble for half a day. I looked at every book they had on relationships. This book was the only one that seemed to address my desire to have a positive reunion with my spouse. I've purchased a copy for my wife and we are using it as a common source of wisdom to learn to live with ourselves and with each other.

7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Help in a chaotic time..., August 19, 2003

By	Jason J. Riley (North Carolina) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This book will give you guidance, give you a general plan when you feel directionless. There is no set playbook in getting one's spouse back, but this book will point you towards some things you need to consider. In the end, your particular answers are within yourself, not any book. I highly recommend reading it and visiting relationship resource dot com.