Harriet Lerner on Intimacy [AUDIOBOOK] [UNABRIDGED] (Audio Cassette)

~ Harriet Lerner (Author)

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In both of these programs, noted author and clinical psychologist Lerner (The Dance of Intimacy, LJ 2/1/89) explores the basic human dilemma of staying connected in key relationships while maintaining individual differences. Drawing on case studies from her practice and her own family, she offers practical, sensible advice to women who are "stuck" in problematic situations. In order to break old destructive behavior patterns and start taking control of their own lives, Lerner says, women need to delve into family history and discover as much as they can about themselves and the loved ones involved. They must define their needs and stand their turf. In Mothers and Daughters, Lerner attempts to teach women to be compassionate with difficult mothers in light of how social and family pressures subvert the mother/daughter connection. In Intimacy, Lerner teaches women how to reinfuse their lives with passion and reap the benefits of intimacy. For pop psychology and self-development collections.?Barbara J. Vaughan, State Univ. Coll. at Buffalo Lib., N.Y.
Copyright 1995 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Description

Perhaps nothing is more important in our lives than enhancing relationships with our friends, lovers, and family. Yet at some point, it seems that even the healthiest relationships get stuck and resist our efforts to "fix" them. In this revealing and provocative session, psychologist Harriet Lerner confronts cherished myths about women and intimacy, and breaks new ground for every listener seeking the deeper truth about intimate relationships. This heart-to-heart session takes a careful look at those relationships where intimacy is most challenged – by emotional distancing or by too much intensity – and offers practical ideas for overcoming these primary obstacles. Enriched with many real-life examples from Dr. Lerner’s work with women and their families.

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Product Details

• Audio Cassette
• Publisher: Sounds True, Incorporated (September 1, 1995)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1564553310
• ISBN-13: 978-1564553317
• Product Dimensions: 7.1 x 4.4 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 3.2 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #1,393,503 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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30 of 31 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great if you're stuck!, January 11, 2000

By	Jennifer Kennedy (Philadelphia, PA) - See all my reviews

This audiocassette helped me realize that conflict in relationships is normal, and that every relationship goes through bad times. It's geared toward heterosexual relationships which I didn't like in the beginning but the content when she does get to the meat of it is worth it!

It helps you step outside yourself, see what's going on and what outside influences are present that we are not even aware of. It gives you hope when you think all there is are arguments and malicious intent from your partner. When it's really connected to everything and is changeable!

Perfect for my time of doubt.

1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

3.0 out of 5 stars Kinda thin, July 5, 2008

By	J. Al-hashimi - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

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It was good, just not Dr. Lerner's best. I hate to criticize because she has written a lot of great work, but I found it to be kinda thin compared to her insightful books. Maybe it is just that her soft deliberate voice (which is probably perfect for personal 1:1 therapy) along with sort of well-known, but true facts about intimacy added up to "just OK" CD for me. It could be that this topic is a bit ephemeral and not conducive to an energetic tone. On the positive side, you can't hear this stuff too much and hearing it while driving couldn't be easier. Every point in your life it doesn't hurt ot rethink your whole deal.

0 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars one of the best authors in the world to date, November 19, 2008

By	Walter A. Serrano "ethereal spirit" (Los Angeles) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This review is from: Harriet Lerner on Intimacy (Audio CD)

I love all her work and the effort that this author has put into giving women the strength and courage to face their problems with knowledge and wisdom. Any of you women out there that want knowledge on the psychological dynamics of groups and relationships give her a try. This is for men too, after all the goal is for humanity to be united under respect, understanding, empathy, appreciation and love.