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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
How a Martian discovered Romance, February 13, 2003
Ok, I;m from Mars, I admit it. I thought the suggestions in this book were just corny when I first got it and scanned it. Then, I started to get the idea that there was a woman's AND a man's point of view in here , like therapy from a couple for a couple, but much cheaper than $ 100 bucks and hour. Even better, these ideas work! I learned that my wife doesn't really like gifts like a new vacuum - but LOVES it if I volunteer to do the vacuuming even once. I learned that to show APPRECIATION in little ways, even to just say " I appreciate that in you" changes the attitude of the room. After 20 years of marraige, when simple politeness is a stretch and romance seems pretty impossible , this stuff makes even ME appealing! Look, she's smiling at me!But, guys, be careful, don't try too many of these too soon, or she'll think that you're having an affair. You're just being nice to hide something! Or, "hey, what the heck has come over you?" Or, " who have you been talking to? that drunken pal of yours, Fred, doesn't send flowers to HIS wife where she works , does he?" yeah, well, he does now! and it works for him, too. Never underestimate flowers at the door or a card when there's no occasion. See ? I'm becoming a romantic. And , the BIG Surprise is, it's fun! Get the book; thank me later.
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