Room to Grow: Parents Disclose the Awe, Unanticipated Joys, and Paradoxes of Raising Young Children (Hardcover)

by Christina Baker Kline (Author)

Editorial Reviews

Amazon.com Review
In Room to Grow, editor Christina Baker Kline has collected the essays of 22 writers reflecting on life as parents and exploring the "whys" rather than the "how-tos" of parenting. As in her acclaimed first collection, Child of Mine, Baker Kline demonstrates her ability to draw from each of her contributors the deep essence and meaning of their experience. As a result, this book, while more diverse and less focused than Child of Mine (which concentrated on the first year of parenthood), still resounds with insight, humor, and thought-provoking excellence. The diversity of these personal essays--the trouble and trauma of naming a child, the nightly reading ritual, the experience of adoption, the decision to have only one child--is highly appropriate for the subject matter, which includes the experience of parenting children as a whole, from toddlerhood to pre-adolescence, and the voices of both fathers and mothers.

From Lindsay Fleming's heartbreak at a daughter's public soiling of herself, to Hillary Seldan Illick's hysterical essay about her difficult preschool daughter ("I thought about printing up a bumper sticker: WHAT YOU CANNOT STAND ABOUT YOUR CHILD, YOU REALLY CANNOT STAND ABOUT YOURSELF"), to Rob Spillman's learning nursery rhymes for the first time, this collection has both breadth and breath, and resounds with both love and meaning. --Ericka Lutz

From Library Journal
Novelist Kline, coauthor of a book on mothers and daughters and editor of a collection of essays on becoming a mother, asked writersAmale and female, black and white, famous and less soAto write about their experiences as parents. The result is a strong collection of heartfelt essays dealing with the joys, frustrations, insecurities, and discoveries of parenthood. We hear from a stay-at-home father, an adoptive mother, a father who wonders what to do with a daughter, and a mother who wonders the same things about sons. We watch a little boy throw his arms around his mother and a teenager reject affection or communication. Tony Eprile writes lyrically about reading to his son, and Kevin Canty finds a new way to spend quality time with childrenAthe carpool. Noelle Oxenhandler discovers that "although in their immense need of attention they devour our time, they also lavish on us...the infinity of the unhurried present moment." Brief biographies of the writers are included. Recommended for public and academic libraries.ANancy Patterson Shires, East Carolina Univ., Greenville, NC
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Product Details

• Hardcover: 256 pages
• Publisher: Golden Guides from St. Martin's Press (June 12, 1999)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1582380325
• ISBN-13: 978-1582380322
• Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.8 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13.8 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #2,960,595 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars insightful collection of essays on parenting young children, October 31, 2001

By	audrey (white mtns) - See all my reviews (TOP 500 REVIEWER)

This review is from: Room to Grow (Paperback)

I had really enjoyed the same editor's volume of essays on parenting in the first year, called 'Child of Mine', and so I was anxious to read this book, which contains essays by various authors on their experiences in raising children a little older (generally between two and ten years of age).

At first I was slightly disappointed because a number of the essays didn't seem to be of immediate interest to me personally, and because this collection did not seem to have the same coherence as the first. But after I began to read, I found myself making little notes of agreement in the margins, underlining sympathetic or insightful passages, and smiling at the experiences similar to my own. Even when an essay was not immediately relevant to me (such as the selections on adoption and raising twins), I found instances of shared experience with the writers, who seemed to be as awestruck and profoundly affected as me by their adventures in parenting.

Oddly enough, in reviewing the book, I found I most enjoyed the selections by the male contributors -- delighted at similarities of common experience and enlightened by the differences -- often told with great humor. So this book also helped me to appreciate the unique experience of fatherhood.

Very enjoyable.

1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A Necessary Collection, November 22, 2001

By	Anne Burt (New Jersey USA) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

As my daughter grew from a baby to a toddler, I found myself as confused about parenting books as I was about her clothing size. No books seemed to fit my needs: I no longer wanted the "new parent hand holding" books, but I didn't feel ready to approach this new stage without the comfort I've always derived from reading thoughtful -- and thought-provoking -- essays about personal experiences similar to my own. When a friend told me about "Room To Grow" I was relieved; when I started to read the essays, I was ecstatic. This book was exactly what I was looking for: smart, moving pieces about the kind of parenting issues the parenting books ignore. I am certain I'll come back to this book again and again as my daughter grows older. Every parent should know about this collection.

3.0 out of 5 stars excellent stories - but not as good as 'Child of Mine', August 22, 2000

By A Customer

This review is from: Room to Grow (Paperback)

I read 'Child of Mine' during my pregnancy many times and since then many many times over. I expected to find the same joy in reading this new collection of parenting stories, but although most are well written, sometimes poignant, definitely moving - I did not find that as a whole the book worked well. I think the editor was perhaps a liitle confused as to the true focus of the book, and as a result the stories veer off to strange directions, not really connected and not giving a satisfying feeling at the end of the reading. Still I have to say that I am glad I read it as each tale gives a new perspective omn the daunting joy that is parenthhood, and I do recommend it as an addition to Child of Mine.